There are many things worth loving in life. Don’t be entangled or compete with someone because of dissatisfaction, and be upset, which will only make life dull and boring.
Life is already very tiring, don’t make things difficult for yourself anymore; life is already very hard, why not let yourself go. In many cases in life, it is not that the difficulty of things cannot be overcome, but that the obstacles in one's heart cannot be overcome, but that one is competing with oneself.
Writer Zhou Guoping once said: "If you don't compete in life, blind competition is often the root of pain in the world." In this world, we are all ordinary people. We cannot escape the fireworks and food of life and cannot avoid the complexity of life. Only by not being obsessed can we not worry; only by not competing can we not suffer.
Life is always like this, it is not enough to satisfy people everywhere, it is enough to take gains and losses lightly, it is enough to go with the flow, don’t compete with yourself, otherwise, it will only make yourself deeply trapped in the quagmire of pain and cannot extricate yourself, unable to go back to the past, cannot change the status quo, and a confused road ahead, which will only allow yourself to flow in the long river of time and be ruthlessly submerged by the years.
Only in your life can you be casual. Life is a process, and the good and bad are just experiences. Time goes on, and you keep walking, and you move forward all the way. Everything is like passing clouds and smoke. Only when you are not entangled in the past can you move forward lightly, not entangled in gains and losses, and only when you see a better scenery.
Don’t compete, the best way to let go in life, go with the flow, and be with the will. If there is love in the passing years, your heart will bloom with the flowers; if people leave, your love will be cold, keep your heart warm.
Toutiao/Feng Xinyue
