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Everyone hopes that their life is decided by themselves, but in fact, there will always be many traces of other people participating in your life. If some people like you, some people will hate you and even hurt you.
What kind of attitude should we treat those who have hurt us? Should we take revenge hard, or should we swallow the grievances with endurance?
In fact, there are only four words for the best revenge against a person, that is: as if nothing happened.
1: As long as you don’t care, he will not hurt you
Hurt, it is actually a mutual thing. We will not be sad for a roll of our eyes from strangers, but we will be sad for a rebuke from the closest person. The right of others to hurt you is actually given by you. The more you care about him, the more he will hurt you.
So if you want to avoid this kind of harm and take revenge on him, the easiest way is to ignore him.
The less you care about a person, the less influence he says and does have on you, and the malice he releases to you will be like hitting a ball of cotton, and he will feel bored by himself.
The more you care about, the more weaknesses you have. If you want to be invincible, the best way is to have no desires or desires.
When you are hurt by someone you care about, you must understand that if you are a person who is really good to you, you will not be willing to hurt you at all. He can hurt you unscrupulously, which means that in your heart, it is not as important as you imagined.
He will not do anything that makes you sad if you take into account some of your feelings. Since the two people feel so unequal, why do you still have to give stupidly and put him in such a heavy position?
We can see the wrong person, but we can't see the wrong person all the time.
When you find that the person we care about is hurting us, it is better to cut the mess quickly and cut off this connection, which will eliminate the opportunity for him to hurt you again.
2: As long as you live well, it is the most beneficial revenge for him
There are many ways to take revenge on a person. You don’t have to have eyes for eye and teeth for tooth, put the harm he put on you, and then repay him in the same way. Revenge like
may cost you a lot of money, and it is not open and honest enough.
You will want to take revenge on him and want to hurt him in the same way. This just shows that he is still very important in your heart and you have not let him go at all. It is actually very unwise to put so much energy into someone who has hurt us.
Instead of spending your energy on those who are not worth it, it is better to spend your energy on yourself, improve yourself and make yourself live a better life.
Those who hurt you, what they want to see is your embarrassment, they want to see you crying in pain, see you dejected in disappointment, and see you never recover from now on.
So what we need to do is to make ourselves better, to be more radiant and radiant, and to even reach a height that it will never touch.
When you reach a height that he will never reach, this is the cruelest revenge for him.
Because all his plans have failed, he has now become the loser who can only crawl at your feet. This psychological gap will make him unable to sleep or eat.
at the end:
Life is vast, and you should not only stare at the wound that was once.
damage has been caused, and it will be useless to regret or revenge. It is better to stand up and dust off the dust on your body, and make your life better as if nothing had happened. This is the most clever revenge.
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