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When we were young, we had never seen too many worlds and had not experienced too many people and things, so we couldn't see and understand many things.
Like someone, if the other person doesn’t like us, he will feel that the sky is falling and life will never be better. But when you reach a certain age, you will find that you were really stupid at that time.
He doesn’t like you, so let him not like you. Why do you have to worry or be sad about such things? I am not living for anyone to like, and no one is qualified to make myself humble.
So please remember, if someone doesn’t like you, don’t be angry or sad, let alone deny yourself. You only need to remember the three sentences that Mo Yan said and you will win. Not only has a pattern, but also very smart.
First sentence: People who don’t like you are like a gust of wind blowing by. You just need to pat the soil on your body and forget them
Walking in the world, it is inevitable that a lot of wind will blow, and the soil on the road will inevitably fly to your body, but so what? Just pat them off gently, and if they can't be taken off, go back and wash them off.
In short, their existence will not have any impact on us.
And those who don’t like us are actually some soil stuck to your body. You don’t need to care about it, and you don’t need to take them seriously. Just find a way to deal with it and continue to walk your own path.
Mo Yan's sentence seems simple, but in fact it is full of great wisdom in life. If we can be so open-minded, we will not waste our mood and feelings because of unworthy people.
Sentence 2: If you don’t like it, you don’t like it. There is no reason why
Many people always like to ask the bottom line. If a person doesn’t like himself, he has to find the reason no matter what, but think about it carefully, what’s the point?
Like a person for no reason, and the same is true for not liking someone.
No matter whether there is a reason or what the reason is, the result is no different. If you change the fact that he doesn't like you, the more you look at it, the more you seem to care about it. Then in his eyes, the humbler and cheaper you will become.
You must understand that it is one thing to be good or not, and it is another thing to be liked by others or not. You can't make everyone like you, and you can't stop others from dislike you.
If that's the case, why bother yourself? Just be yourself.
What others think of you and evaluate you is someone else's business, just let him go.
The third sentence: We come to this world in a dusty way, not to live for the people we don’t like
Everyone comes to this world with their own mission. No matter what your mission is, it does not include living for the people we don’t like.
Because of their existence, it is not worth your waste of any time and energy.
After Mo Yan became famous, many people in his hometown cheated him in his name, including some of his relatives. He himself knows these things and their personality, but he doesn't want to bother with them, and he doesn't think it's necessary.
Not only that, he has also received many letters that insult his personality and slander his works, which greatly influenced him.
But soon he figured it out that in the rest of his life, there are very few things that can be controlled. What others think and do is other people's business. Why should we pay for other people's mistakes, and why should we be upset about their views on ourselves?
It is already very difficult and amazing to be good at doing your own thing. As for the others, let it go.
Someone likes themselves is a kind of luck, and no one likes them is a normal state. After all, everyone lives not to make people like it, but to be themselves.
Once you figure this out, you have nothing to care about or care about.
In life, you must always find the focus of life.
wasting time and mood for some unworthy people and things is a very stupid behavior.
If someone doesn’t like you, then forget it. There is no need to force it, and there is no need to please. No one can survive without anyone else. Why do you care whether he likes it or not?
You have your own life, you have to live for the person you like, as for others, forget it.
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