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Opening sentence:
"Everything has cracks, that is where the light shines in."
There is no perfection in life, but when the cracks are filled with light, it is close to perfection.
Everyone comes to this world and is a piece of white paper, pure and flawless. Then on the road of growth, walking in the world, gradually letting life enrich itself, rendering the white paper in black and white, colorful, gorgeous, or ethereal... colors.
The road of life is actually that you can live like the sea, and you must welcome the continuous infusion of live water at any time.
There are ice water flowing from mountains, dirty rivers, underground springs gathering, and rivers rushing into the sea...
Only when you take out your tireless heart, absorb the nutrients inside, and put aside the dross inside, you can leave cleanliness and beauty behind.
Therefore, when people live, those who are more and more smooth as they live, they are mostly able to find a way out in the wind and rain, move forward optimistically in the bumps, and give themselves "these four trump cards".
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has a "platform suitable for your development"
Many people admire "become famous as soon as possible", so people's hearts become more impetuous.
is like "job change" at work. Many people will regard "job change" as a cool thing.
However, most people actually do not understand the true meaning of "job change". Job change should be because you can better play your advantages and realize your value after changing to another platform, rather than "unhappy" or "unhappy" or "unhappy to do it", "unhappy to get along with colleagues"... and just quit your job casually.
Many people are getting worse and worse. Not only do they not find their interests, but they are also consumed in this process after years of accumulated experience.
realizes life value, and cannot be complained, but requires you to show the courage to change yourself.
is like a researcher who is originally engaged in research and invests rashly when he sees others making money in business, and most likely he will lose all his money. Without a platform suitable for you to play, the energy and return invested will be difficult to balance.
There are also people who will regard the value brought to themselves by the platform as their own abilities, which is also sad.
You must know that everyone is an isolated island, and any person’s success cannot be separated from the help of others, the support of the platform, and the strength given by the team.
So, sticking to the platform that suits you is like finding a good school. You will improve yourself more and more, perceive your shortcomings more and more, and the nutrients you absorb will become more and more abundant.
"The platform that suits you" is our necessary trump card for realizing our life value.
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has a "quiet" state of mind
In this world, there are very few people who are truly talented.
Many people only gain something in the field they love deeply.
Therefore, it is very important to calm your mind, see yourself clearly, endure loneliness, and bear loneliness.
is like, athletes win gold medals, and only a few minutes in the arena, but behind it is years of hard work, winter practice three nine years, summer practice three winters, countless sweat and tears gathered into that glorious medal.
A person’s most powerful thing is that he can exude the charm of “quietness” in his bones.
No matter what difficulties you encounter, no matter how many hardships you experience, no matter how many storms you encounter, you can calmly deal with it with the word "quiet".
Only by having a quiet state of mind can you withstand vanity and desires, let yourself carry more storms, and only by removing the burden on yourself, with a persistence, and embarking on the road lightly.
Quiet people are all powerful.
Because he will silently accumulate strength and patiently experience the process of life from quantitative change to qualitative change. He will stick to the ground of "no one can reach a thousand miles without taking a single step", and achieve the joy of "keeping the clouds clear and the moon bright".
Quiet people are calm.
Because he will not be anxious when encountering things, not be irritated when encountering villains, be tolerant to others, live a peaceful and calm life; he will not be confused by false favors and affairs, and live a clear and pure life.
"Quiet state of mind" is the only way for us to make life smooth.
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Have a home that will make you "peaceful"
Life is impermanent, but if you have a peace of mind, you will have a place to go.
Whether you are single now or have already started a family, whether you are in your hometown or wandering overseas, whether you are wandering in the city or working in the countryside and fields... Home is the place that makes us most "relaxed".
Only when we have a home can we become more and more confident as we live.
Only with the warmth and tolerance of home can we become more and more motivated as we live.
In this world, the person who loves you the most is the person who makes you "peaceful".
Because of him, you can work with peace of mind, and you will lose a lot of worries. He will share the pressure of life with you, solve your worries and problems, see through your inner fragility, give you enough sense of security, and let you find the warmth of a friendly light.
In front of him, you can smile recklessly and make fun of it. He will use his gentle eyes and heartwarming words to take you to enjoy the beautiful scenery in the world.
In this world, the person who loves you the most is the parents who gave birth to you and raised you.
Parents gave you life, taught you how to deal with people, gave you all their things for free, and no matter where they are, they will show all their love and tolerate everything about you.
The complexity of life and the interweaving of human feelings can bring us a peace of mind, which means that we can travel around the world and find a support for warmth, so that we can pursue our dreams without fear.
Only when your heart is at peace can you be "safe".
Having a "peaceful heart" home is our reliance on the smooth flow of our lives.
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has the true
people have many things in their lifetime, doing something, not doing something.
Because there are some things, no matter how hard you force them, you won’t get them; there are some people, no matter how pleased you, you still can’t stand you; there are some circles, even if you enter, it may not be suitable for you.
So, only by finding your true nature and being the most authentic self can you make everything go with the flow and let it go.
is like, some people think of people who love reading, "This person is very quiet", some people say "This is a nerd", some people say "Reading is useless", and some people say "Only people can have a way out"...
Therefore, many times, when everyone sees a difference in a thing, they will somewhat reflect the true thoughts of the person.
When we understand this, we will not be troubled by some external factors, but will see clearly what we really want and persevere.
If you find shortcomings, you will fill yourself in time; if you have any falsehood, you will learn to let go temporarily; if you forget your past persistence, you must pick it up again...
In short, the more real a person is, the more you can understand yourself, the more you can see the reality through confusion, the more you can improve yourself and improve your cognition.
Only in this way can one live without suffering, live sincerely and bravely, and live with confidence.
Live truly, which is the foundation for our success in life.
In this life, most people live in a hurry, wanting to accumulate wealth faster, wanting to catch up with others faster, and wanting to achieve their goals faster...
So, they were full of worries and panic.
Everything in this world has cause and effect.
Living a good life is actually to give yourself enough "trump card":
With a "platform suitable for your own development", you can work hard, immerse yourself in, and feel the beauty and tenderness of life; with a "home that makes you feel at ease", you can be unafraid of your heart, and no matter what you encounter, you will be warm and tolerant;
Having a "quiet mood" can not be disturbed by the complexity around you, stick to your love, not entangled, and not be confused; "living truly", you can recognize yourself, perceive life, stick to your original intention, and improve yourself.
Of course, in the end, I have to say: Life is very simple, don’t think so complicated, there are many things, just try your best!
Author, calm fox
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May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
