In our lives, work and study, we must deal with other people. In the process of getting along, there must be something you don’t want to do but have to do.
Sometimes there is a friend, but sometimes it seems like there is an "enemy". These are all imaginary enemies that you will not refuse to form. I feel unhappy but I have never refused to say it.
In the process of communication between people, various collisions are inevitable.
When I was in college, my roommates in the same bed often asked us to bring them lunch when we went back. Everyone has had this experience. What did you think at that time?
should I bring it or not: After I bring it, I will have all kinds of endless things. Will she get angry about it if I don’t bring it, and will she have a big fight...
I believe everyone will choose to bring it after being confused. After all, everyone will think that it is better to have less than more things. So on one side, he was very reluctant to greet him with a smile, and afterwards he kept thinking about it would be great if he had refused at that time... After working at
, he found a job with his friend A. I thought it was good during the interview: the environment is beautiful, the boss is friendly, and the salary is acceptable. The most important thing is that I have friends, so I stayed in my post.
But when I went to work, my friend A said that if you have something to do, I can't go first, you think this is fine.
worked like this for a few days. I felt that it was different from the time of the interview, so I told the boss about the situation. The boss comforts you a few words and you think it’s okay to continue working. After all, there will be a friend A with you in a few days, so I will continue working like this.
A few days later, you finally couldn't bear it anymore, and your parents advised you to leave the job if you couldn't do it. You told your friend A about the situation. She decided directly not to work there. You are the only one left, and you told your boss that you want to leave.
So the boss said that you have been there for so many days, and there are not many employees now... You think the boss is right and you can't bear to pay so many days of salary. Just like that, you are reluctant to do your work on the other side.
Friend B said you will not refuse and have no own opinion. This will not happen when you learn to refuse.
In fact, sometimes appropriate rejection will not turn things bad.
classmate will not complain about your refusal to bring your meal this time. You may know through this refusal, so you will not let you take it again.
The boss will not lose anything because of your departure. Maybe he can recruit better employees, and you may also find a job that is good.
On the contrary, because yours will not refuse to let your life be entangled, sad and bad, but you still have to continue doing it.
Rejection at some point is also letting myself go.
There is no need to make things difficult for ourselves while making fun of others. Life is our own, and our own happiness is the most important. There is no need for us to be in trouble with ourselves.
Let yourself go and live a relaxed life.
