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Others will not look down on you for no reason. In many cases, others look down on you, which is closely related to the wrong words you say without any restraint.
1. Don’t tell everyone that you know how many powerful people you know
When others hear you say that you know how many powerful people you know, you will disagree. In addition to not only not being as powerful as you, others will also think that you are guilty, so they will hold the banner and be a tiger skin, just bluffing. In other words, the more powerful a person is, the more low-key a person is. On the contrary, the less powerful a person is, the more high-key a person is. Moreover, others may try to use your interpersonal relationships. Anyway, it is your connections, so it is useless. By the way, you can also test your connections in reality. You will inevitably be in trouble. If you accompany you again and again, and ask the powerful people you know to help others, you will sooner or later be unfamiliar with both sides. After all, you will owe a difficult debt to repay, and people who use your interpersonal relationships will not appreciate it. If the powerful person you know refuses to help, or you refuse directly, people who try to use your relationship will be even more sarcastic.
2. Don’t talk about how brilliant the past is to meet everyone
People are old. Even if they are nostalgic, don’t talk about how brilliant the past is to meet everyone. Otherwise, your past and present will be in a sharp contrast. The greater the contrast, the less others dare to praise it. Even if you are not down and out now, the person you hear will feel that you are relatively down and out. Moreover, since ancient times, there have been many heroes who do not mention the courage of the past. Since you tell everyone that the past is so brilliant, it means that you are not as proud as you live in the past, so you will be nostalgic for the past until you live in the past and cannot extricate yourself. Outsiders who do not understand the truth will mistakenly think that you are on a downward path, and will naturally look down on you more and more.
3. Don’t just talk to everyone about how difficult it was before
Don’t think you are doing well now, so when chatting with outsiders, you will take the past difficulties as a topic, for example, how difficult it was before, or how many difficulties you encountered before. Otherwise, others will think that you are showing off your presence. Even if you don’t return home in glory, you will deliberately create an atmosphere of returning home in glory, and outsiders will inevitably disdain it. Unless you are recognized as success and fame now, even outsiders who are informed will think that you think that the starting point is surprisingly low at the beginning, and naturally not much higher now and in the future. You will tell everyone how difficult it was, which undoubtedly exposes the lack of a strong background at the beginning. Even some outsiders who hearsay will mock you or ridicule you with the down-and-out scenes of your past, and say it from some outsiders who hearsays. It has long since changed its taste.
Conclusion: Chat topics should seek profit and avoid harm. Only by carefully selecting topics can you ensure that there is no mistake. Speaking dialogue will make others look down upon, and saying wrong words will make others look down upon.
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