1. Learn to take care of yourself. No one will support you for the rest of your life. You have to find a way to make a living for yourself.
2. Don’t look for people who don’t love you; don’t please people who don’t help you; don’t disturb people who don’t miss you. Put the person who loves you first; keep the person who helps you deeply intimately; remember the person who misses you!
3. Pretending to be confused is a rare wisdom, and may be more open-minded; learning is simple, and may be a happier self-protection. There is no need to live too clearly in life, and there is no need to see too transparently in relationships. It is difficult for others to bother yourself.
4. Small things can be emotional, while big things must be rational. Sensibility makes us more humane, and rationality makes us stay away from fatal injuries.
5. Life is your own. The life you choose will make you what you will make. Instead of complaining that the world is not beautiful, it is better to use your own efforts to strive for more beauty and luck.
6. No one is willing to go downhill, but we are just afraid of the hardships of climbing upwards. But we who have grown up have old age and young, and there is no way out for the backwards. Only by working hard and accumulating more chips for ourselves can we live better in this world.
7. People must be able to withstand lies, tolerate perfunctory, tolerate deception, to forget their promises, and to let go of everything. What you lost has never truly belonged to you, and there is no need to regret it.
8. When the heart is unhappy, choose to take it lightly; when the love is gradually distant, choose to be casual; when the road is blocked, choose to turn; some things are straight and they will pass. Some people, if they are ruthless, they will forget. It’s a bit bitter, and it’s relieved with a smile...
9. Every outstanding person has a hard time. Perhaps it was because of an academic, a job, or a love, I left my parents and went to another city. When you are tired and tired, think about your parents working hard for you, and that's why you have to work hard.
10. Don’t overestimate your strength in the collective, because when you choose to leave, you will find that even without you, the sun will rise as usual.
11. Some wounds still hurt when they touch them no matter how long they last; some people still hurt when they think of them no matter how long they last. Some people and some things can’t be forgotten at all, but you must let it go.
12. Everyone will have an extremely difficult time, life is embarrassment, work frustration, academic pressure, and love is in panic all day long. If you survive, your life will suddenly become clear; if you can't survive, time will teach you how to shake hands with them, so you don't have to be afraid.
13. Gentleness should be, but not compromise. We should be strong in silence and calm.
14. Only when there is someone in your eyes can you have a way; only when there is love in your heart can you have a moderation. A person's tolerance comes from a heart that treats others well; a person's cultivation comes from a heart that respects others; a person's cultivation comes from a heart that is kind.
15. Some people come to you to tell you what true love is; some people tell you what false love is; just like some people come to you to give you warmth, and some people to make you feel heartbroken. All of this is a gift of life, accept it whether you like it or not, and then learn to understand their meaning. —— Zhang Xiaoxian
16. No matter how good you do, there are still people pointing fingers; even if you are in a mess, there are still people singing praises. So don’t fall into the eyes of others, you need to please yourself.
17. Not everyone is willing to bear your negative energy, and not everyone is willing to listen to your anxiety. Only those who truly love you will empathize with your situation. More people just treat your pain as jokes.
18. Don’t complain about the shortness of life easily. In fact, all the beautiful scenery is in your heart and hands. Instead of complaining that tomorrow is not so satisfactory, it is better to do your job well today. A beautiful life is just the simplest and simple little happiness.
19. When others praise you, just be happy, but don’t take it seriously, because most of them are to coax you; when others criticize you, just be unhappy, but don’t be angry, because most of them are to be real.
20. In life, there may be too many things that cannot be controlled and too many helpless. If you are not sincere, it may be forced; if you are inconsistent, it may be necessary for you.
21. The most tragic thing in life is to have great ambitions but wasting time. I feel that I am not smart enough, but I always procrastinate when doing things; I feel that I am not very good at education, but I don’t use my amateur to continue charging; I am not satisfied with myself, but I comfort myself and have fun today and work hard tomorrow.
