Friends influence each other and get involved with each other. If you make friends, you will have a life of what kind of friends you will make.
Zeng Guofan said: A lifetime and failure are both related to the wiseness of a friend, and you must not be careless. The more friends you have, the better. You must be cautious when choosing friends. Don’t make friends with some friends.
Improper heart, I can’t deal with it: I have no relatives in heaven, and always be kind. There is no difference between relatives and alienation in the Three Thousand Dao, but it is particularly favored by kind people.
Kind heart is nature, all of them are character, kindness is cultivation, and all of them are mindfulness. Kind people treat people sincerely, so you don’t have to worry about being deceived when you live with them. Kind people are good at looking at problems from the perspective of others, so they are comfortable to get along with.
Kind people are helpful and live with them, and they are always relaxed and happy. Everything in Shenzhen Futian cannot be separated from Wuzhuang.
A person’s blessings are related to his own heart. He is always kind and repaired and eliminated evil. Of course, God will protect him.
Confucius family saying: Live in a bad and good manner, and enter the abalone in the long run, and never smell the odor, it will also be transformed from this. If you are with a bad person, your heart may become bad over time. Even if you can stick to the right path, you will not be sold by them.
Su Dongpo also used Shen Kuo as a friend, but Shen Kuo took Su Dongpo's poem with the voice of the voice in his hand to sue, causing Su Dongpo to bring it to justice and almost lost his life.
Life path, choose good things and make friends. Friends, you may not be outstanding or smart, but you must never be kind.
The quality is crooked, you should not like someone, respect him, respect his talents, respect his temperament, be kind-hearted for a long time, and finally be a character. Making friends is like this, stumbling, and ultimately, it depends on character.
Sima Guang said: Talent is the resource of virtue; virtue is the commander of talent. Therefore, if you have all your talents and virtues, you will be called sages, and if you have both talent and talent, you will be called specious but wrong; if you have virtue and talent, you will be called humble and gentleman, and if you have talent and virtue, you will be called a treacherous villain. The better a person has but not very good character, that is a villain who is extremely harmful. A person is not outstanding, but his character is a humble gentleman.
Getting to know people is a journey of communicating with the heart. Only by being consistent in words and deeds and keeping promises can you gain recognition from others; only by being right in character and treating people sincerely can you gain sincerity.
Yu Minhong After opening the New Oriental School, a large number of outstanding talents were urgently lacking. Yu Minhong went to the United States to find his former classmates.
He exchanged for a large sum of US dollars and spent a lot of money abroad, hoping that students could still make money in our country. The students then went home, but gave her a very unexpected reason: Yu Minhong, people went home to sweep us for 4 years and fetch water for 4 years. We all know that you have such a spiritual essence, so you will never give everyone porridge if you have food.
Originally, after being admitted to Peking University , Yu Minhong cleaned the dormitory every day and collected water for the students. He worked hard for four years through storms.
So his dormitory has never been placed in an environmental sanitation duty list. Sometimes he forgot to collect water, and the classmates said: Why didn’t Yu Minhong go to collect water? When the colleges and universities were screening movies, Yu Minhong carried the chairs in the dormitory alone to occupy the position. The support of these students laid the foundation for the sustainable development of New Oriental School. Only when New Oriental School can continue to work hard and become a listed company in the United States. People with good character are very popular. They have good character, and everyone believes in him and wants to help him.
No matter where they go, they can easily go. They are all a lamp, shining on others and on themselves.
Xunzi said: Choose a good friend and a friend. Always interacting with people with good character is a very smart and intelligent intelligence. Taking people with correct character as an example, even if they do not have much accomplishment in their lives, they can always feel the brilliance and warmth of life.
Yijing lecture: Seek the same spirit and respond to the same sound. Only the same person can become friends. Cross with simple and kind friends, gradually start with your kind heart; cross with your honest friends, start with your honest friends.
More than one life is precious, and I walk with honest and kind people.
