1. Learn to take care of yourself. No one will support you for the rest of your life. You have to find a way to make a living for yourself.
2. Don’t look for people who don’t love you; don’t please people who don’t help you; don’t disturb people who don’t miss you. Put the person who loves you first; keep the person who helps you deeply intimately; remember the person who misses you!
3. Pretending to be confused is a rare wisdom, and may be more open-minded; learning is simple, and may be a happier self-protection. There is no need to live too clearly in life, and there is no need to see too transparently in relationships. It is difficult for others to bother yourself.
4. Small things can be emotional, while big things must be rational. Sensibility makes us more humane, and rationality makes us stay away from fatal injuries.
5. Life is your own. What kind of life you choose will make you what you will be. Instead of complaining that the world is not beautiful, it is better to use your own efforts to strive for more beauty and luck.
6. No one is willing to go downhill, but we are just afraid of the hardships of climbing upwards. But we who have grown up have old age and young, and there is no way out for the backwards. Only by working hard and accumulating more chips for ourselves can we live better in this world.
7. People must be able to withstand lies, tolerate perfunctory, tolerate deception, to forget their promises, and to let go of everything. What you lost has never truly belonged to you, and there is no need to regret it.
8. Don’t look down on rich people at first sight because they don’t spend their money; don’t underestimate the poor people because they don’t rely on me to survive; don’t flatter and favor powerful people because they won’t help me in vain; don’t flatter the successful villain because they don’t catch my eyes!
9. When you are not beautiful at the age of 17, you can blame your mother for not having a good appearance in hereditary form; but when you are still not beautiful at the age of 30, you can only blame yourself, because in such a long time, you have not injected new things into your life. ——Madam Curie
10. Just listen to what you have, don’t take it seriously; just know some things, don’t expose them; just contact some people, don’t have a deep relationship.
11. You think the comfort brought by leisure is a blessing, but in fact it deprives you of your expectations for the future, and cuts off your distance from the world. It makes your mind narrower and makes you more and more suspicious of life.
12. Life is only three days. The confused people live in yesterday, the extravagant people live in tomorrow, and the clear people live in today. Yesterday has passed, it is a check that has expired, and tomorrow has not arrived, it is a check that cannot be withdrawn. Only living today is the most realistic.
13. You can make a person rich, a person has power, and everything you want, but don’t just make a person good to you. Once he doesn’t treat you well, you will have nothing.
14. In this life, you have to believe in this article: you don’t need to work hard to keep, and you don’t need to work hard to keep. Come and go with the flow, and you cannot force it.
15. Some pressure has to be taken by yourself, and if you say it, it becomes a complaint full of negative energy. Seeking comfort is useless and it only increases other people's worries. And when you go through difficulties and obstacles alone, you will definitely be grateful to yourself who persisted without saying a word.
16. All things we get first may be lost first, and then what we get is lost later. What we don’t get is not lost. Those totals are the same. Therefore, there is really no need to worry too much about life, no need to deliberately calculate, just experience it well.
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17. Conscience is the most fair judge for everyone . You can deceive others, but you can never deceive your own conscience.
18. Feeling some setbacks in your relationship requires you to mature; encountering some sinister in your life requires you to become stronger. Most of the bumps and downs in life have no malice, but you just want to go up to the next level to enjoy a better life. Don’t let down your good intentions for you.
19. In this world, all misunderstandings come from incomprehension, all contradictions come from non-communication, and all misunderstandings come from distrust.
20. Don’t think that if you take your heart out, others will appreciate it. Don’t think that you are good to others, others will treat you well. Many times, it’s just your self-indulgent. Sometimes money has to be spent on the blade, and the same is true for love.
21. In a century of life, there is not much time to squander. It is said that happiness is like drinking water, you know the warmth and coldness. Some people are on the road to chasing happiness every day, but they never feel the existence of happiness; some people know how to collect the warmth and touching, and will walk with happiness.
