In life, I often meet all kinds of people. In the process of dating people, I must be ups and downs and downs and salty, and I have tasted everything. If someone respects you and praises you, you will certainly be inspired and ecstatic. And when someone slanders you, despises you, and looks down on you, do you feel suppressed, or you are angry and want to compete with him?
In fact, life is the best place to practice. The people we meet and experience every day are the best exercise for ourselves. People grow and mature through continuous experiences. When you are looked down upon, remember one thing, don’t be angry in a hurry, and silently tell yourself the following three sentences, and everything will disappear.
1. Work hard and prove everything with results. The reason why you are looked down upon is essentially that you are at a disadvantage in some aspects and cannot compare with others, or you make mistakes because you lack knowledge, ability, experience, etc. Others naturally develop a sense of superiority because of your mistakes or because they are above you.
At this time, we must calm down, think carefully about what happened, and carefully and objectively analyze and compare, find our true weaknesses, and then strive to improve our goals, and strive to get rid of our own problems and strive to surpass him in some aspects. It’s not about striving for competition, but about truly improving yourself. One day, when you have successful results, everything will be self-evident. On the other hand, you have to thank the person who sarcastically and looked down on you.
2. Smile it and don’t have any disputes with it. After calm analysis, I found that sometimes it was not your own fault, but an unreasonable act by the other party. When facing such a villain, you don’t have to care about what the other party says or does, of course we have no right to intervene. The only thing we can do is ourselves.
Choose to smile, not only letting go of others, but also letting yourself go. Sometimes, this silent response is surprisingly better than the effect of striving for reason. No matter what the other party thinks, let it suffer, just treat it as a counterattack from us.
3. Walk away silently, and do not plan for each other. The difference between people lies in the difference in thinking styles and inconsistent views. Some people pursue and care too much about money, thinking that if they have money, they will have everything, so they don’t take anyone or anything seriously. We should not care too much about those who have such values.
The so-called "Does are different and do not plan for each other". Since the things we pursue are different, ideals, goals, and ideological realms, and different levels of heights, why forcefully integrate them? It is better to choose to leave silently, guard yourself, and be at ease, which makes people feel more at ease and comfortable.
