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Middle age is a watershed in life and the key to whether you live a happy life in your later years. At this time, life choices are extremely important. If you take a wrong step, it will lead to mistakes every step, and there will be no chance to look back or the possibility of recovery.
The ancients said: Know the destiny at fifty, know the destiny at sixty, and follow the ears at seventy, and follow the will of your heart without breaking the rules.
When people reach the age of fifty, they should understand what cause and effect are and what destiny is, so as to know how to be responsible for their own life. At the age of sixty, you should live a very clear and sober life, be able to treat all kinds of speech rationally and correctly, and not do anything wrong or be fooled by impulse.
Wait until the age of seventy, you can live as you wish, without going beyond the rules, and without causing trouble.
It’s just that there are many people in life who still don’t understand when they are fifty or sixty.
They still have many unrealistic desires in their hearts, and they still do not know how to cherish everything they have, and do not succumb to fate, blindly pursue the wrong things, so that certain events frequently occur in their lives.
These events imply the great suffering of the rest of their life and have to prepare in advance.
1: A couple or both parties are disloyal to the marriage, resulting in the breakdown of the marriage
If a person is close to fifty or sixty years old, he still cannot remain loyal to the marriage, but instead has to think that he shouldn't have moved, which means that he will be very sad and happy in the second half of his life.
There is a saying that couples come less often and get along with each other in old age.
The couple worked together for half their lives, but still had no favors, so they got separated. This loss is difficult to make up for and difficult to measure.
A person can’t even keep his marriage and family at this stage of life. What big thing can he expect to accomplish? If you don’t know how to cherish the people and the happiness in front of you, but instead stare at the wrong things, you will be destined to suffer a lot for the rest of your life.
2: Being infected with bad habits such as gambling, sweeping away the property,
people will have some savings when they are fifty or sixty years old, but some people cannot keep these savings. They are too greedy in their hearts and cannot withstand a little temptation, so they get involved in bad habits of gambling, sweeping away all their property.
There is such an example around me.
Lao Zhang met some friends and quickly gambling with them. He felt that he had been ordinary for half his life and had not achieved any results. If he turned over this time, he would be admired by the people around him.
did win a little at first, and he was extremely proud inside, but later he fell deeper and deeper.
The deeper you get, the more you want to turn the book, and the more you want to turn the book, the deeper you get.
This is a bottomless pit. Once it falls in, don’t think about it, so in the end, Lao Zhang spent all his savings in it.
He regretted it very much, but it was too late. Not only did he not make his family proud of him, he was blamed by his family. Life became more and more difficult and he became more and more distant from his family.
3: Blind investment, heavy debt
Investment is actually the same as gambling. The underlying logic is all about getting rich overnight and changing your destiny.
You think you have a fancy to a project and you can make it several times more money by investing it in it, but you don’t know that risks coexist, but you just selectively ignore it.
people are approaching their fifties or sixties, and if they are not careful, they will be doomed.
If you do not know how to prepare for your later years, but instead think about taking shortcuts, then once you lose to your inner greed, the rest of your life will be difficult.
How many people in life are in debt because of blind investment? Can't these bloody cases teach you a lesson? Be awake and live a down-to-earth life is the smartest one.
4: Children are not united, families are not harmonious, and all family members have been centrifuged
There is a saying that everything will prosper in family harmony; there is also a saying that if brothers are not together, they will bully them. These words are intended to tell us the importance of family harmony and unity among family members.
If the whole family is harmonious, their fortune will not be too bad no matter what they do; if they are not harmonious, they have already become centrifugal, and even calculate and hurt each other, then the whole family will gradually decline.
In this case, not only will it not be filial to the elderly, but it will not respect and support each other. When they become enemies between them, there is no more happiness.
If you are nearly fifty or sixty years old, if the above four signs appear in your life, please be more vigilant and make positive corrections. Don’t let a moment of impulse ruin your happiness in your old age.
It's really too late to regret it any time.
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