In an era of rapid development of uncertainty, conspicuous consumption and material desires are splashing everywhere, and people are often heard of the rapid development and rise of others. It's hard for people to sit still.
Therefore, even if you do things, you will feel irritable and anxious. I was irritable and restless when I was not working. When I had a job, I was worried that she would not earn enough funds. Even if you start your own business, you will be anxious all the time. Therefore, even if you know that getting up early and going to bed early, you can never do it.
is not very brave to fall asleep in my heart. I am always worried that I have not done anything, and I am even more afraid that I have not done some things well. I was worried and anxious about this and that when I went out to have fun, and I was all over my mind and it was difficult to calm down. There is an anxiety lingering invisibly. Tell yourself that you need to learn and do things.
I didn't want to do it myself and couldn't start to act. Then he distracted himself, played games, played videos and avoided doing things, and found various ways to escape reality, which made him more impatient.
, in the face of ever-changing changes, development, and pressures brought by various uncertainties, people in society are widely anxious. I can't find a better way. Listening to Buddhist language, practicing means eating and falling asleep at night. It is really not easy for
to reach such a state of life. In an age of uncertainty, how can we find a place where we can rest assured? Can you really calm down, do good things, eat well, have a good sleep, and have a good time?
I feel uneasy and don’t know how to stabilize people’s anxiety. When people are anxious, it is difficult to learn to learn and it is difficult to ensure how good things are. Two people of the same level do things, one is as calm as water, and they are sufficiently focused; the other is rough and inconcentrated, and they keep doing this and thinking about that. In this way, the development differences between the two people will be more efficient and practical.
Why do people feel anxious? Due to fear of uncertainty about the future, suspicion of one's own abilities, and various uncertainties about how to obtain the beauty of life. In essence, it is the lack of logical thinking and cognitive ability, and the lack of methods.
Rest assured is really a kind of ability and even more a kind of self-confidence. To settle down is a kind of ability to establish the future, a kind of confidence that can be won according to your own methods and actions.
If we want to have a major development trend in the future, we need to have roots. What is root? The root is the direction and field you choose, the one-acre and three-point land you can continue to infringe on and work hard. Many people are afraid that they will miss this one and that one.
Therefore, he keeps watching the fun and following the trend. Do some of this, try that one too. Conclusion has never been a field of deep hard work. No matter how many areas there are, they are just skins and they will not cause any particular use value.
often hear people say that to create your own circle of cities, we must basically build our own circle of capabilities. Stock God Buffett only invests in projects in his circle of ability, and people outside the circle of ability never invest.
At the time, one person opened a cake shop, which lasted for seven years. Later, he saw that others made more money than him, and he was anxious and kept running around the field. I came to stocks , invest in project and do business services, and it goes without saying that I can make a lot of money, but I also lost a lot of money.
After he analyzes his strengths, he may return to his own baking field. There is no need to be too much direction, it depends on focus and commitment. The more you focus, the more you can become a wizard. Mike Jordan is a Wizards basketball player, creating thousands of NBA basketball myths and legends. I went to play basketball later, but I always didn't play well and was laughed at.
Becoming a rooted person means choosing a field and direction that focuses on development based on your own talent, goodness and passion. Then you can continue to deepen and accumulate in the field and deeply devote yourself to it. A humble gentleman is responsible for his foundation and his roots are born. 2. Build a management system in the field and continue to move towards the top of the field. Having a direction, the rest is nothing more than applying some reasonable methods to improve.
How to learn efficiently, practice, and improve your abilities, get feedback, solve difficulties, and build a basic knowledge and ability management system in your own field. Here I have introduced a method that many people have been ignored, which is to find opponents. If you don’t have an opponent, you should also set an imaginary enemy for yourself. I think the core of this method is to introduce market competition.
is not a stagnant pool of market competition. Once there is market competition, people in the natural environment will suddenly live, full of morale and charm. For example, if you pursue a girl, you will be unable to do it yourself. If there are many opponents chasing you, you will have a stronger idea than others. Conclusion Regardless of catching up or not, you can work harder to become better in the process.
Be sure to choose the right opponent. Your opponent also determines your level. Try to choose someone who is better than you and can surpass it after you work hard. 3. Be careful in direction and appropriate methods, calm down, do things according to your own pace, and wait patiently for the fruits of victory. In the Eight Demons of the Heavenly Demons, Guo Jing is as stupid as he can become Guo Daxia. soldier assault , Xu Sanduo is a stubborn and stupid person, but he can become special forces . They are all people with roots.
In real life, Fan Yusu A ordinary rural woman, who only has the junior high school education level, wrote a post about how talented and philosophical I am like Fan Yusu. Having roots means that you have the capital to grow into a towering tree, which is slower but late.
Improve cognition. What kind of person will definitely succeed and pursue success will definitely be at a loss. Anxiety causes you to be unable to calm down and do not do good things.
The reason is to fear of future uncertainty. If we can be full of certain cognitive abilities in life, we will calm down. So we think about what kind of person will succeed? The answer is easy. If you want to get beautiful things and make yourself the one who is worthy, then you will naturally come for many beautiful things in your work and relationships.
Be a rooted person, continue to devote himself to his own field, explore deeply, and build a city-wide environment. Then at this time, you are no longer pursuing success, but instead seeking success.
Become a person with roots, and then your heart becomes grounded. Looking for your hometown, you will be better than the thousands of mountains and rivers you have traveled.
