Indeed, people are very complex individuals. Different people may show different ways of thinking and behavioral habits. It is indeed a bit arbitrary to just score a person from a certain side. However, when people communicate with each other, they always use the known to infer the unknown. An old saying goes, "At the age of three, and aged seven," may not be very accurate, but it also shows the relationship between things.
Forty years old is a dividing line in life. Most people can make a conclusion on whether they succeed or not. Of course, the definition of success in itself is also different, but if you are still addicted to these three things at the age of 40, you are likely to have no future in this life!
1. Like to show off, have too strong vanity
Forty years old, have nearly half of their life journey, have experienced the training of life, have seen the sunshine and darkness of society, have understood the core of life, and understand their responsibilities. If fails to achieve anything, maybe he is working hard and moving forward. If you gain something small, you should know that there is heaven beyond heaven and there is someone beyond man. Calmness and low-key should be regarded as a sign of a person's maturity.
Not long ago, the topic of " CICC html's monthly salary of 80,000 yuan" hit a hot search, causing heated discussion among netizens. The blogger wrote "Is the income level of my husband in 1993, so is it considered after marriage?" This relationship looks a bit awkward, but it should be a "spicy" expression. The news she posted in may have received some likes, but after the news fermented, the stock price of CICC plummeted, with a loss of 4.9 billion yuan in market value, and her husband was fired, and there were even rumors that there were suspected divorce on the Internet. : Between the gains and losses, you can tell the cold and warmth!
Too many examples tell us that people who like to show off die the fastest, while people with strong vanity can only show their inner emptiness. people should live in their own happiness and enrich their inner world. Keeping a low profile is an attitude, and not showing off is a wisdom.
2. Indulge in useless social
people are social animals, with needs and needs, so interpersonal communication is inevitable in life. Some people like class reunions, recalling their youthful years and campus time; some people tend to gather together with colleagues to establish interpersonal relationships to facilitate work; some people only stay in the hobby circle, communicate with each other with similar interests, and pursue emotional satisfaction. But there are still people who gather for the party just to spend time and money. They go there as soon as others call, and they don’t know what they want.
Adults must know how to distinguish social circles and understand their core needs. Even if it is pure for business and making money, it is a purpose, and at least it can bring you benefits. Nowadays, life is fast and stressful, and many people say that people are not gathering much now. is actually a circle that many people have begun to reject useless social interactions and only manage their own concerns. Friends are not many, but the essence!
In fact, young people nowadays do a good job. They don’t go to classmates, colleagues, and relatives refuse to visit. If you don’t like or don’t need it, you will refuse directly and never be wronged. Moreover, it is also a positive strife for unreasonable behavior in the workplace, and it is also rumored online that "young people rectify the workplace." , so learning to refuse is also a kind of growth. Adults should learn to refuse, stay away from useless social interactions, and relax themselves!
3. Working things in a bad way, shirk responsibility
In the circle of football friends around me, there is a friend like this: I often change jobs, do this today, do that tomorrow, and do every job for a long time, and say "Well, this job is not good" when I finish it! Of course, the relationship is not very close, and it is not the turn to give others guidance. In fact, we don’t know which industry is easier to succeed in , but if you choose an industry to deepen your efforts, there will be no problem at least reaching the middle and high-level management in many years.
Now, friends with superior economic conditions around them, except for some of them who have caught up with the trend, most of them insist on being in the same industry and eventually achieve success in their careers! The most difficult thing to do in life is persistence, and the easiest thing to do is to give up. Perseverance is the only thing that can be controlled by a person's success factor.
There are also some people who fail to succeed in their careers and think that the industry is not good; the marriage is not successful, and think that it is the other party's problem; the failure of entrepreneurship is believed to be the partner cheating him. has been looking for reasons for the rest of his life, but he has never blamed himself for being incompetent.
Conclusion
Some people think that having a successful academic career means having a promising future; some people think that having a job and a stable family means having a promising future; some people think that having a successful career means having a promising future; some people think that having a successful career means having a promising future. In fact, the definition of promising is never fixed. As long as you can clarify your core needs and focus on what you should focus on, no matter what the result is, you will live a wonderful life!
people are in their forties and they still like to do these three things. There is a high probability that they will have no future in this life! Do you agree?
