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A while ago, when I was sorting out the topic "You ask me and answer" and soliciting manuscript questions: Quick view! The list of manuscripts has come out , and I found myself being pulled back to the time I wrote the article in the first place. After writing the first draft of
, I found that I was verbally verbally, so I changed it again and again, but in the end, it was still 5,000+ words. Fortunately, it was released in the end. Everyone did not think I was too long-winded, but instead received heartwarming encouragement - my sincerity will be seen by someone.
"Thank you for reminding me of some precautions."
"Okay, thank you for treating me to dinner."
"Hehe, happy, thank you for giving me a candy."
"Thank you for taking the initiative to chat with me."
"Thank you for thinking about it."
"Thank you for asking me for your own initiative."
"Thank you for your self-confession."
"Thank you for thinking about it."
Remember me and send me something. "
"Thank you for your affirmation and feedback."
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Many times, I always thank you, so a friend said to me, "Oh, don't always say thank you. You're so polite, it makes us seem so unfamiliar."
However, I will inevitably say " Thank you " the next time.
, just, my "thank you" is basically sincere, because I seem to be unable to give anything except this.
You know: when faced with kindness, you will be like a puppy with a head touched, wagging your tail and turning around happily.
Yes, it's like a child who works hard to be liked by adults, but in the end he is always pointed at the nose and said, "Look at how good other people's children are, what about you? It's better to have a piece of char siu than to have you!" Suddenly one day, he met a gentle person. The person touched your head and said, " Wow, you're so great! I like you so much! "
The kind of gratitude comes naturally, sincere and pure.
So, since I grew up to this day, I have a deep gratitude to all those who help and care about me.
is just that I rarely open my heart and talk about it. Today, I am also inspired by my feelings - has come to this day, thank you for accompanying me here!
Before I was seven or eight years old, I was still like other children. Although he was sent back to his hometown to live with his grandparents and uncles shortly after he was born, he didn't think anything was wrong. Every day, there are a group of older brothers and sisters playing together. They are young and loved by their elders. They don’t think it’s a pity that their parents are not around.
Later, something happened at home, and the big family that had gathered together to live was divided and returned to their own small homes. It was probably that time that I no longer laughed freely.
for some reason, it seems that I can’t get the recognition of my family if I do anything. There are always people who are dissatisfied with me, and they are cold in front of me, and they also have to say behind my back that I am not good.
At the beginning, I tried to work hard and try to be the kind of child that everyone thinks is normal and likable. But, being someone else is always tiring. Especially when I saw other children not having to do anything and were kept praising them to heaven, I felt even more futile.
For this reason, I still suspect that I might be mentally retarded? Too stupid to be unpleasant.
Maybe it was this time that I began to feel that I couldn’t do anything, and I’m sorry for being born!
Even if you find a job after graduation, you can support yourself and even give a little at home, you will be chanted one, two, three or four people, and accused them of ", why are you so disobedient " because you refuse their request to work in another city or not be with your blind date partner.
I just want to live out myself, but they seem to be unwilling to do so.
adults seem to be used to whether we are happy or not, they just care whether we can give more money.
It is undeniable that I began to realize that my original family put a pair of shackles on me, and I was often overwhelmed.
So while walking stumbled, I tried to find out what the purpose of people being alive. For example, this Weimeng Garden is really picked up and let go of it again and again - it was founded in 2016, updated in 2018, and began to have the idea of growing and growing in 2020.
However, every time I muster up the courage to share this tender and innocent idea, there are always obstacles running ahead and facing me, trying to scare me off.
This is not a big deal, because I only care about important people. But I never expected that the people who care about me were talking to me: Stop making trouble, go do some serious business! You're useless like this.
" is useless, useless, you are useless! " has been heard for too much, as if I was back to the state of "nothing is pleasing or useless" when I was a child.
This made me want to log out of this account with one click. Even though many friends along the way actually said to me, " Hey, brother, you are so cool! The text I wrote is very sincere, I like it very much, please continue to persist. "
But you know, when the huge waves hit, you will forget that you are still on the boat, and there is still a chance to change the direction.
At that time, others and I forced me to the edge of the cliff - I felt that my only way out was Road S.
Later, it is probably a fool who is lucky.
When someone was shaking, someone reached out to hold me. These people seemed to have agreed, and they pulled me towards the sunshine one by one, and even later I began to slowly wake up: "I suddenly wanted to slow down."
Just like someone said: It turns out that unconditional love is "feeling happy because of your existence" .
Maybe there are people who love me like this, but I just don’t know.
And now, I'm starting to know slowly.
Take the self-media writing as an example. Last month, I was able to make some progress. To be honest, I didn't feel the kind of happiness I imagined, and I was a little stuck in the danger of " losing the ability to be happy ": "I picked up money."
However, when I was promoting, a few friends actively liked and forwarded me after seeing it, and at the same time said that they were happy for me. It was so surprising that they wanted to cry.
There are many people I want to thank for in the face of these kindness, understanding, support, encouragement and companionship.For example:
. Students, Gu Sheng, Xiao H, etc. who have been following and encouraged very early.
. Excellent account owners such as Qing Jiu, Dabai, Feng Xun, and Pineapple who have been connected by official accounts.
. Teacher Qi, Teacher Lu, and DD who are silently following or rewarding low-key people such as support.
. Liangyu, Panda, Xiaoya, Xunfeng, and Xiaohu, who help each other in the reader group, serve as the atmosphere group of Liangyu, Panda, Xiaoya, Xunfeng, and Xiaohu. Although I don’t understand what I do, I provide food support to me. ml5, brothers and sisters who expressed their understanding and provided financial support to me, and some of my relatives,
, have always been thinking about my good life and my grandfather who has already gone to heaven,
, Every reader who really likes the courtyard and follows the support of
...
, etc., I want to say, ", thank you! "
, , I still walked very slowly, and have not become very excellent yet, and I am still ordinary, but I believe that - we will eventually get ashore and be shining with sunshine.
This article may be a bit pretentious, but gratitude is sincere - Someone is you, you are someone.
Everyone knows that rushing in two directions is a wonderful thing. Most of the time, we learn to love ourselves in relationships.
So, I also need to let you know that I am very grateful to be with you in [Wei Meng Xiaoyuan]. Isn’t there a saying that goes: “ Some people are already very happy just by meeting them. ”
And, I’m not bad, you are also great, we all become very wow people.
The last, thank you for accompanying me here. Next, continue together ~ (Say "I do")
or above, thank you.
I am Beiwang, and today I also want to wish you a happy day
Also, thank you for being by my side
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