Although obsession can bring extraordinary power, you must be as full as possible to be aware of this. Understand what factors you make your choices and how to implement them in detail when planning. No matter what the reason is, it will have a great impact on judgment.
Of course, in the case where traversal is impossible, the local optimal solution is sufficient in many cases. To achieve the local optimal solution, the important thing is execution and time, and the best judgment is not required.
As for what kind of answer is the optimal solution, only everyone knows it.
After sorting out the things you are thinking into clear logical language, I feel that when I read it... this means I didn't say anything. Who can’t tell the big truth? The real special things are hidden in the details and emotions that have been removed by reason.
In the end, the basis of trust is to know that you are valuable and think that you have the ability to repay anything you get equally, and thus establish a long-term, stable and reciprocal cooperative relationship. I won't worry about being kidnapped by the gifts I can't bear, and I have to be driven to do what I don't want to do.
As a person who has raised himself psychologically, being said to be independent is really a bit complicated. It seems like I think it is not because I only know this path.