"You will never know which one will come first, tomorrow or accident."
Life is healthy. The body is the capital of revolution. Only with a healthy body can a person pursue his dreams regardless of everything, meet the people he wants to meet, go to the distance he wants to reach, and realize his own value.
"The moon has phases, and people have good fortune and good fortune every day." Everyone wants to be healthy, but being healthy is not that easy.
There are too many variables in life in the world. No one can guarantee that they will always be lucky, and no one can guarantee that they will always be healthy.
Healthy people are lucky and a minority. Therefore, being able to maintain good health is the common wish of each of us.
This is why on birthdays, the blessings from family and friends are "I wish you good health". For people, health is the best blessing.
After the release of the movie " I am not a medicine god ", it received unanimous praise from the audience and its Douban score also reached a high score of 9.0. The most important reason why this movie is so popular is that it resonates with the audience.
"I don't want to die. I want to live without a patient. Can you guarantee that you will never get sick in your life?" As soon as the old lady said, people who have had similar experiences will definitely burst into tears. When a relative is seriously ill, as long as he can be cured, he can do anything.
In order to survive, everyone chose to buy cheap fake medicines. Even if they knew that it was fake medicine, the patients and the patients' families could do nothing; the price of real medicines is not something that ordinary families can afford, and even if fake medicines are the last straw, everyone will try their best to grasp them.
has such a kind of bankruptcy in China, its name is disease. Although
looks inconceivable, we can understand it as long as we connect it to reality. In China, a phenomenon is very common, because of a serious illness, the entire family is in trouble. Chinese-style bankruptcy like
can be seen everywhere in every corner of our country. Not only ordinary families and well-off families, but even middle-class families will encounter such difficulties.
So how did "Chinese-style bankruptcy" come about? What has it brought to our society?
Chinese-style bankruptcy
I believe everyone has seen a lot of news about " Water Drop Chop " in their circle of friends. While we are feeling the impermanence of life, we not only feel sorry for these families.
They may be a complete and happy family before they get sick, but as long as someone gets sick, all this will go to a bubble.
Families in "Shuidie Chop" often face the embarrassment of their relatives suffering from terminal illness. They sell their real estate, they sell their cars, and they sell all the valuable things in their homes, but for the high treatment costs, all this seems like a drop in the bucket.
When a relative is seriously ill, people often do everything they can to save their relatives, and even if they lose their entire family, it is not fearful.
has only one result in the end. No matter whether the relatives are saved in the end, the whole family will fall into a state of being barely silenced.
There was once a real story like this, a happy family, both men and women love each other very much, and the two have a very cute child.
To outsiders, such a family is the dream of everyone, and they are the legendary "winners in life".
But the facts often don’t go as they wish. A man suddenly fell seriously ill and was bedridden. The pillars of the house suddenly collapsed, and only the woman supported the home.
This matter is simple to say, but difficult to achieve. The woman seemed to have grown up ten years old overnight. Her once charming face no longer shone with light, but instead she quietly grew a few fine lines next to the beautiful eyes.
Men spend a lot of money on medical expenses every day. Even before a man gets sick, his family has a lot of savings, but this money is a drop in the bucket for the high medical expenses.
Soon, their family was emptied.
helpless, the woman had to sell her house and car at home, as well as all the valuable things in the house.
Every relative in the family, the woman whispered to ask for it, but when she saw such a scene, how many people were willing to borrow money?
The worst result still happened. The man finally passed away. What waited for the woman and the child was debts like a bottomless pit. Maybe she would have to bear such debts for the rest of her life. Stories like
are not uncommon, and they happen around us all the time. They can be said to be a microcosm of Chinese families. Such a situation of
or above is called Chinese bankruptcy . Although
sounds inexplicable, this happens almost every moment in our daily lives.
Walk into the hospital, we can almost hear the most earnest prayer in the world. Everyone here has their own story, their wishes are the same, and they hope that their relatives can get better soon, even if they use everything they have in exchange.
As long as you suffer from serious illness, the money you spend every day is like running water. In addition to surgery, chemotherapy, hospitalization fees, medical fees... Each fee is a considerable amount. For ordinary families, this number is almost the same as an astronomical number.
This is how human nature is. When your relatives are lying on the hospital bed, all your reason is gone.
Who can bear to let his beloved relatives endure the torture of illness and then leave the world and leave himself? The answer is of course no one wants to see such a scene.
From the patient's perspective, they can't bear to let their relatives suffer from the double oppression of money and affection, so we often see patients in hospitals choose to stop themselves in order not to drag down their relatives.
They went to another place to give their relatives and themselves a relief.
These patients who have self-destructive are basically the elderly. They have been working for their children all their lives, and after they get older, they are unwilling to cause trouble for their children.
This is the love that parents love their children, never seek rewards, and always put children first.
When we were very young, I believe many people were asked a question like this: "What is your dream?" For children, the answers to this question are very colorful: police, astronauts, models, translators, stars, athletes...
But when these children are about to graduate from college, their answers almost all became: taking the postgraduate entrance exam, taking the civil servant exam, taking the staff exam... Compared to children's diverse dreams, the dreams of adults seem to be much more monotonous.
But in fact, it is not difficult for us to understand why this situation occurs. The world of adults is complex, and the world of adults is also realistic. Everything we do now seems to be just to make money, not to follow our own hearts.
Contemporary young people are in the whirlpool of " inverted ". If you don't work hard, then you will be abandoned by society, then you will never find a good job, and it is impossible to give your relatives and yourself a better life.
once had such a discussion on Douban; "Have you ever thought about committing suicide?" The most praiseworthy comment was: "I dare not, because I am afraid that my parents will be sad."
Yes, we never dare to imagine how sad our parents would be if we were gone one day, so most young people live not for themselves, but for their parents.
We strive to make money in order to be able to pay for treatment when our parents are sick, to support this family like an adult, and to no longer see the disappointed eyes of parents.
"Chinese-style bankruptcy" has hurt countless Chinese families. They have made many people not only suffer the grief of being separated from their relatives, but also suffer the embarrassment of being barely apart from their families.
So in the face of the hateful "Chinese-style bankruptcy", do we really have no way to do it? The answer is no.
Preventing
The reason why "Chinese-style bankruptcy" can defeat a family is very simple. It does not preview in advance and often requires a lot of cash in a very short time.
For ordinary families, such requirements are a bit too embarrassing, so we must be more prepared.
First of all, we must exercise regularly and improve our immunity, so that we can stay away from the troubles of diseases to the greatest extent.
The daily routine of contemporary young people is very unhealthy. Staying up until one or two in the morning is like a common little thing for them.
It is well known that staying up late is one of the biggest killers that harm the body, so to stay healthy, you must quit the habit of staying up late.
The pressure young people have to bear when working hard outside is very great. They are exhausted when they come home every day, so they often choose to order takeout to make things happen.
Although the quality of takeaway today has improved greatly compared to more than ten years ago, it is still mainly heavy oil and salt. Relying on takeaway for a long time will cause huge harm to the bodies of young people and may even become one of the biggest causes of many diseases.
Therefore, if you want to cultivate a healthy diet, you must cook by yourself.
may not be as good as takeaway in taste, but cooking by yourself can ensure the safety of the ingredients and the freshness of the ingredients, which will help to cultivate a balanced and healthy dietary life.
With the development of the Internet, entertainment methods on the Internet are becoming more and more diverse, and convenience services are becoming more and more perfect. People can eat hot meals at home without leaving home, and buy goods from all over the world without going out. Life like
is certainly an important evidence of our technological development, but it has also encouraged the laziness of contemporary young people to a certain extent.
With convenient technology, everyone chooses to stay at home alone on weekends instead of going out for a walk with their friends.
If this continues, people often become lacking in exercise and are out of breath after walking two steps outside, let alone doing exercise.
If you have been lacking in exercise, the body's immunity will be greatly reduced, and various diseases will come to you.
Secondly, in addition to paying attention to our own health, we also need to do our homework in advance, that is, find medical insurance that suits us and take precautions in advance.
Maybe many people think that medical insurance is completely meaningless. They believe in their luck and believe that they will never have the day of illness, but even so, it is still recommended to buy an insurance in advance.
In this way, even if we are unfortunately ill in the end, medical insurance will share the treatment costs to a certain extent, helping us a lot in the most difficult times, so that we will not be so embarrassed.
If you don’t get sick, just think you spent money to buy Ping An , which is a happy ending.
But we must admit that there are all kinds of insurances on the market now, both real and fake. When choosing insurance, we must keep our eyes open and carefully distinguish those insurances with bad intentions, be responsible for ourselves and others.
Last and most important point is to make more money. Although the idea of
looks tacky and has a "copper smell", when you are really facing a critical moment, you will find that as long as you have money, you can solve many unnecessary troubles and prevent you from losing the chain at critical moments.
In that period of suffering, how many people died of hunger.
Although society is very different now, the beautiful virtues of thrift and thrift in our Chinese still remind us to pay attention to increasing revenue and reducing expenditure and saving money.
Especially in the prevalence of applications such as "Huabei" today, many young people have been brainwashed by the concept of "advance consumption". advocates "timely fun" and spending tomorrow's money today. This approach is absolutely undesirable.
At the same time, the idea of comparison is naturally absolutely absolutely impossible. Once you fall into the whirlpool of comparison, your future days will definitely be filled with pain.
stays away from comparison. Compared to blindly comparing with them, it is better to save all the money silently.
Although society is pursuing "poetry and distant places", when pursuing ideals, we should also pay attention to our real economic situation at all times. In the face of those unrealistic fantasies, we should abandon them in time and devote all our energy to life under our feet.
While we are still young, while we can still work, devote all our energy to work, and make the most money with limited energy.
seems a bit utilitarian, but this is the reality. Only by making enough money can you find peace of mind.
positive and optimistic
Although "Chinese-style bankruptcy" sounds very horrifying, it is not invincible.
As long as we face it with the most optimistic attitude, we believe that there will be a good effect in the end and can solve this dilemma.
While we are working hard, our country is also working hard. With the development of society, the country is also constantly improving the medical security system and social security system, so that we ordinary people can no longer be afraid of being defeated by diseases and no longer be afraid of "Chinese-style bankruptcy."
We must also believe that in the days ahead, the country will give us a better answer, which will make us live more reassured, safer, more harmonious and happier. We believe that the "Chinese-style bankruptcy" tragedy will definitely be less and less.
is the common wish of all of us.
I hope all of us can have a good body, I hope the illness will stay away from us and our loved ones, I hope we will be healthy and safe and happy forever!
