See yourself clearly with great joy and sorrow, and see others clearly with great ups and downs. Without ups and downs, you will not see the truth of the world; without a broad mind, you will not be able to accommodate the beauty of the world. One sign of growing up is that you no longer rush to argue with others about your own opinions. Gradually I understand that not everyone lives in the same sea, has different experiences and different views on one thing, and their views on a different matter will definitely be different.
people, let alone or not to be worthy or not, it’s good to be suitable. A lighter worth a dollar can also light a cigarette worth a pack of tens of thousands of yuan, and a table of dishes worth a table of salt. There is no perfect thing, no perfect person, the key is to know what you really want. Get what you want, you will definitely lose another part. If you want everything, you will only get nothing.
Life is a long entertainment. Pleasing others is just a cleverness, and being able to win your own joy every day is considered great wisdom. No matter how glorious a person is, there is coldness and pain behind him. No matter how happy a person is, there are helplessness and difficulties in his heart. No one’s life is easy. Laughing at others is like laughing at himself. Respecting others means respecting himself.
The real meaning of an iron rice bowl is not to eat food in one place for a lifetime, but to have food everywhere you go. Life always makes some unintentional jokes, making a turn, tripping, and then giving you a different perspective. Some people are lucky to discover that, while others ignore them all their lives.
Life, don’t show off your money, it’s just a piece of paper in the hospital; don’t show off your importance to work, if you fall down, countless people will do better than you. If you are not able to better protect yourself from harm, then you should at least remember one thing: don’t believe it easily.
Not disturbing others' tranquility means compassion; not hurting others' self-esteem means kindness. When a person lives, just shine his own light, don’t blow out other people’s lights. Keep the sad side yourself and slowly digest it. Anyway, there will definitely be more people who gloat about you than those who feel sorry for you. In the past, drinking and singing were called grades; now, being a low-key person, working hard to make money, and spending more time with your family, is called reliable; no matter how awesome you are, how rich you are, or doing things that match your age; this is called responsibility.
God doesn’t give you difficulties, so how can you see through people’s hearts; God doesn’t give you failure, so how can you find out whether the people around you are true or false; God doesn’t give you loneliness, so how can you reflect on yourself; God doesn’t give you gentlemen and villains in your life, so how can you know how to improve your emotional intelligence! God is fair to each of us. If someone makes you cry, someone will definitely make you laugh.
Life rounds us just to let us roll further. The ups and downs of life are half the pit dug in life, and half the holes in our own edges and corners. Our journey is so difficult, it is often not because we lack hard work, but because we are covered with thorns that we like but life does not like.
Walking in the world, don’t be lost by desire, don’t be defeated by material things and become a slave to life, free up space for the soul, and let those happiness that can be reached safely, and what is held in your own hands is real happiness.
The stronger a person's ability to heal, the closer he is to happiness. Be a taciturn person but has a sea of heart, don’t hurt others and yourself, and be peaceful and free in indifference. Not all smiles are sincere behind them, not all efforts can be rewarded, and not all mercy is worthy of sympathy. Life is not hard, what is painful is that we have too many desires; people’s hearts are not tired, but what is tired is that we cannot let go of too much.
I am Pangpang, thankful for life and share happiness! Answer every question seriously and make every friend with your heart. Thank you for reading. Please forward and like it if you agree. Thank you for following the headline account: Pangpang’s Love!
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