What do you care about? The most basic thing is that all conversations are not answered by one person, but that every sentence you say can be answered.
There are traces to follow in love and not love. You can see who cares about you the most in a WeChat message.
People who care about you will reply when they receive your message. You can create a bunch of various replies for you with an emoticon package.
People who don’t care about you can no longer read it, turn a blind eye, ignore it directly or wait until that day when he gets bored, and then come to you to get rid of it.
So, when you take the initiative to chat with the other party and ask the other party "What are you doing", through the other party's reply, you can see who cares about you and who is perfunctory.
1. Reply "I'm here"
A WeChat reply can see who puts you in the wind and who keeps you in peace.
When he took the initiative to ask you "what you are doing", it was not because he was bored or because he was not busy, but at this time, it was when he missed him the most.
When a person is sad, happy, or unable to solve the problem, the first thing he thinks of is you, always want to tell you something and want you to be by your side.
At this time, the first sentence he spoke was not about saying something, but about asking you "What are you doing", trying to distract him from chatting with you and temporarily relieve him of his worries.
Even in the chat, he said nothing, but the process of your conversation with him will make him relieved and give him the uneasy heart a sense of concentration.
So, when you ask "What are you doing?", if you receive "I'm here", see that you haven't replied for a long time, and ask you "What's wrong with you? Tell me about it", don't doubt it, he must care about you very much.
Because he understands you, you will know what's wrong with you with just one sentence. At this time, no matter how busy he is, he will talk to you to explain and make you happy.
You will not be depressed or worry about staying overnight with such people, because he can always guess what you want to express and give you the answer you want.
2. Reply "I'm busy, I'll reply to you after I'm busy"
Those who care about you will always be on you. When the phone rings, I think it might be you, so I can't help but click it and take time to reply to you.
If you are busy, he will reply to you, "I'm busy, I'll reply to you after I'm busy", so that you won't worry about gains and losses, and don't let you think too much.
Because I care about you, I care about your feelings and thoughts. No matter how busy I am, as long as I have you in my heart, I will not be so busy that I don’t even have time to reply a message, and I won’t give any explanation afterwards.
People who don’t care about you do not care about your information, and those who don’t want to reply, pretend that they don’t see it because they don’t care, so they ignore it; because you don’t matter, so they are perfunctory and indifferent; because they don’t like you, so they ignore it.
is just an excuse, and not loving is the real reason.
In this era when mobile phones are always in hand, not replying to messages is a kind of message itself.
3. Reply "Is there anything wrong?" or directly refuse to reply to
, "Is there something wrong?", which is indifferent, and even more rejection. If you have something, just say something. Don't bother. If you have something, don't bother. If you have something, you may not reply. The cold reply of
makes your originally extremely enthusiastic heart suddenly cold to freezing point, and what you want to say is swallowed back.
Ta is not because I don’t have time, nor is I born indifferent, but because I don’t want to say more, so I don’t want to say more, or even don’t reply directly.
Ta can ignore your news, and then post it to your friends as if nothing had happened, and like and comment to your mutual friends, but there is no time to reply to you.
ta may be open to the whole world, but it is the only one to you.
Take the initiative and like it, and silence means rejection. We all understand, but we want to pretend to be stupid with enthusiasm.
If you turn a blind eye to you every time, then forget it. If you don’t have the enthusiasm of fire and can keep the temperature alive, you are the one who doesn’t want to be hot.
It is too obsessed with a certain emotion, and in the end it will only make you unable to stop.
We always think that the mountains are high and the road is long, and the future is long. But time has long given us the answer. The future is long, and it is not yours, it is not yours.
People who don’t like you, it’s useless to take the initiative, and it’s only useful to be liked by him.
Those who do not belong to you and cannot bring you peace of mind will not come. It is better to turn around and leave.
The true love is not about asking and answering one person, but about every sentence you say can be answered. This is the best way to love.
