Text/Xia Mo
01, Volume 1
In life, "money" is a person's armor and a person's confidence. Having money allows you to live with more dignity and have more choices.
Writer Su Gengsheng said: "Some people say that it is normal for a person to meet love in his life and money. Only understanding is valuable. I think this is ridiculous. Understanding is invalid, while love and money are real."
In life, not everyone can make money, nor can everyone live a decent life.
Some people try their best but have not made a lot of money. Life is like a huge "hole". When all the money you earn is filled in, it is often a drop in the bucket.
People with poor economic conditions can be seen in some details when they get along with them.
A person who is used to hard life is particularly eager for money. But when spending money, hesitation and confusion, desperately making excuses for himself, making people think that he just doesn't like it...
People who are short of money for a long time will exude a different "flavor" on their bodies, which is generally difficult to hide.
02. When buying things, people who are often confused and hesitant to
. People who are short of money dare not spend money at will when buying things because they have no purchasing power.
When you have no purchasing power, when facing what you want to buy, even when facing necessities of daily life, you will show a tangled and hesitant look.
Even if the thing you want to buy is only a few dozen yuan, he will repeatedly calculate how much rice the money can be exchanged for and how many vegetables he buys. Finally, I put down what I wanted to buy again.
People who have no money can only pursue food and clothing, but not high quality of life. desires a more refined life in his heart, but his financial strength does not allow it.
People who are short of money will repeatedly calculate its "cost-performance ratio" when facing a very small item. Even if I like it very much, I will think about it repeatedly and dare not make a decision to buy it easily.
Because of poverty and knowing that making money is difficult, I dare not spend money to please myself, nor dare to squander money at will.
People like
always have a sense of grievance after compromise, unwillingness and helplessness. Even if there was a smile on his face, the smile was not as good as the eyes.
03. When you are with rich people, you are very envious of
People who have been short of money for a long time, envy others who have a good background and can make money.
complained from the bottom of his heart why the world is so unfair to him. He was not born in a wealthy family and had no good opportunities...
" Children of the Qiao Family ", Qiao Yicheng and his cousin Qi Weimin have a very complicated mood.
Qiao Yicheng saw that his cousin was wearing a pair of new white sneakers, but he could only use chalk to constantly apply yellowed and old sneakers at home.
envy Qi Weimin for having a stable and well-off family, with reliable parents who love him. I felt that God was unfair and gave him all the best. At the same age, the two people have completely different destinies and living environments.
Qiao Yicheng yearns for Qi Weimin's life very much. He envies Qi Weimin's everything, and hopes that he can grow up surrounded by love and warmth, and hopes to get more happiness.
People who have been short of money for a long time often lack love and warmth. The barrenness of life often makes people yearn for a better life.
, even, you will envy the lives of rich people. Deep down in your heart, you are envious of them and a little jealous of them, and don’t know how to get along with rich people.
People who have no money for a long time will envy the other person's life when they see rich people. I really want to know why they can make so much money and want to live like them.
04. In interpersonal communication, people who are afraid of themselves and show inferiority
In interpersonal communication, people who are short of money for a long time always show an almost flattering smile, are extremely unconfident in themselves, and always feel helpless.
Lu Yao wrote in "Ordinary World": "Money is a good thing, it can make people no longer panic and make people feel confident."
A person who has been poor for a long time will become cautious when interacting with others. Because he is afraid that his bad behavior will make people around him look down on him.
interacts with others, is not generous, dares to introduce his work and experience, and is habitually silent. From the bottom of his heart, he feels like a humble little grass, often marginalizing himself.
is afraid that others will harbor malicious ridicule and accusations because of his financial difficulties.
Whatever he does, he habitually follows others. Later, I am afraid of making mistakes because I can't afford to make mistakes.
People who have been short of money for a long time always hide in the corner when socializing with friends and colleagues. They are afraid of spending too high and unable to bear it. They are also worried about their behavior, showing too much embarrassment and shabbyness, which makes others look down on him.
A person is short of money for a long time, and when interacting with others, he will often lack confidence and confidence, and become humble from the bottom of his bones.
05. Summary
Everyone's starting point is different, the ability to make money and thinking Different dimensions, the environment and opportunities encountered are also different, which creates a gap between the rich and the poor.
On the road of life, if you want to be rich, you need to learn to work hard on yourself.
In life, you cannot choose your background, but you have the right to decide how your life should be spent. Cherish time, study more, and work harder. You will always seize opportunities on the road ahead and achieve a counterattack.
You must have confidence in yourself, don’t always envy others’ lives, but you can’t see how much effort others have put in for success.
Just choose the right direction , brave and strong, and constantly create value, you will definitely have a better life.
lack of money is a state, but as long as you work hard, you will not be trapped in this state all the time.
As long as you work hard, you will have the opportunity to break the bottleneck and break through yourself, and then you will usher in a new life and live the way you ideally.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional mentor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
