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In life, more and more people do not like to visit relatives or visit other people's homes. Among them, they are not only young people, but also many of them are middle-aged and even elderly people.
In other words, no matter what age you are, you have a negative mentality of not wanting to date too much. Compared to maintaining these tired interpersonal relationships, they want to focus on themselves and live a good life in silence.
However, they were not like this in the past.
In the past, they were very enthusiastic and sincere to others. No matter what happens to others, they will definitely help you if you can. But later, their enthusiasm and kindness were used up and almost wiped out, so that they no longer trust the outside world.
Those who do not want to visit relatives, do not want to visit each other, and do not want to have too much contact with others are often the following three types of people. No matter which one you are, it means that you are very strong inside and have a mature mind.
1: People who are afraid of trouble and want to live a simple life
It is undeniable that human relations are indeed a troublesome thing. If you have something to do in your family, others will help you or take gifts. If someone else has something to do in the future, you will have to help you or come back, otherwise this favor will always be owe you.
Think carefully, is this kind of polite exchange meaningful?
In fact, many times, you can’t tell who is sincere in following the gift, and who is just superficial. Even so, you will still be burdened by this kind of interpersonal relationship, which will not only consume time, but also cost money.
and even, sometimes the money that goes out cannot be collected at all, because some people disperse as they walk and no longer contact them.
So many people are becoming more and more afraid of trouble and don’t want to continue wasting time on these useless social networking, so they simply stop interacting with some people.
They just want to live a simple life and just want to live their own peaceful life.
2: See through the essence of interpersonal communication and don’t want to be hypocritical anymore
Some people’s snobbery is far beyond your imagination.
They will always only approach those who have succeeded, because those people may help them, and those who have done poorly or are not as good as him are disdainful of contact.
He felt that this kind of interaction was useless to him and was a waste of time.
Sometimes human nature is so realistic, so we will find that when you are doing well and have money, your relatives suddenly become more and more. In the past, when your family was in a downturn, no relatives came to visit, nor did they take your family seriously.
After experiencing the warmth and warmth of human relationships, they have seen through the essence of interpersonal communication, so many people do not want to live hypocritically anymore.
For those who are snobbish and those who are not sincere to themselves, they don’t want to act with them anymore, so they simply don’t go to visit relatives or visit each other, just let it go.
3: People who just want to focus on themselves and don’t want to waste time doing face work
visit relatives, and many times it becomes a face work and a form.
In fact, they both hate this kind of communication, but it is hard to say it out loud. When they take gifts to visit relatives, what they say may not be sincere. Those hypocritical scenes are very embarrassing to think about.
If the relationship between them is real, it actually does not require such superficial skills.
When the other party has something to do, you will help you as soon as possible. If you have something to do, the other party will also be the first to be present. There is no need to worry about getting separated in such a relationship, nor do you need to say some hypocritical flattery or do some beautiful face-saving work.
Some people understand this so that they will not be burdened by human relationships.
They just want to focus on themselves silently and live their own lives well, not to care about other people's affairs, nor to force any relationship.
. It seems very affectionate to live like this, but in fact it is easier.
is written at the end:
Don’t want to visit relatives or visit other people’s houses. There is actually a reason. In addition to his personality, I actually saw through some things and felt that there was no need to waste time and energy, and I was in these interpersonal relationships.
The relationship that really makes you feel comfortable is not to worry about getting separated. Anything that needs you to please and you need to work hard to maintain is actually unequal and has long been unbalanced.
Facing such a relationship, it is better to let go as soon as possible, so as to make yourself purified.
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