As the saying goes: Those who are close to red are red, and those who are close to ink are black. The saying is never false.
When you are with positive and optimistic people, you will naturally be affected to be positive; if you are with some negative gossipers, you will naturally become such a person.
Life is at the age of knowing destiny. You should summarize the life of the first half of your life and think carefully about how to live the second half of your life to fulfill and meaningful. After all, time flies and does not wait for others. Middle-aged people no longer have a lot of time to squander and consume it when they were young. Instead, they should pause, examine their own life, see their gains, adjust their own state, have a good attitude, and do a good job in their life management.
When people reach middle age, there are some circles that don’t have to squeeze in, because they are not suitable for you at all. If they are suitable for you, you will have entered a long time ago and will not be outside the circle until now; there are some circles that you should quietly withdraw because they are no longer suitable for you. If you are confused, you will only waste your second half of your life.
In the second half of our life, we try our best to do what we like and be free and easy ourselves. Life is no longer bound, and we don’t have to try our best to please. Living ourselves is the most important thing.
people are middle-aged, so stay away from these three circles, otherwise it will take time and waste your feelings. Stay away as soon as possible!
1, the circle of chasing fame and fortune should be kept away!
In life, we are pursuing fame and fortune hard, because people are all greedy.
Everyone hopes that they will achieve success and achieve success in their lives. This is not bad. To live, you must strive for everything you want. There is nothing wrong with chasing everything in a moderation, sacrificing too much of your nature, humbly doing flattery against your will, and not doing what you should have done well, and always disturbing your life. In a life like this, when you reach middle age, you must decisively give up, take it lightly, and learn to let go of fame and fortune. Naturally, there is no need to stay in such a circle.
In middle age, if your family is stable and your career is stable, you should take care of your family with peace of mind and do your job steadily. Don’t want too much, don’t ask too much, want to be a high-ranking official, and want to seek more benefits. These ideas should be collected appropriately, or should you face life in a realistic way.
In the world, everything is like the wind. Live in the present and understand life, cherish everything, love your life, love the people around you, don’t force other illusory things, do your best to follow the circumstances, and leave your fate. This is the best way for middle-aged people to follow the situation.
2, nightclubs, barbecue dinners!
When people reach middle age, what they need to do in the interpersonal circle is not addition, but learning to subtraction. They must manage their energy well and spend the limited energy of the second half of their life where they need it most.
When I was young, I liked to join in the fun, rush the venue, and stay up late. That was young and energetic, and there was no big problem with playing crazy. At worst, I could sleep the next day and I would be full of energy.
However, at our age, we really can't stand staying up late and crazy. Let's learn to slowly stay away from these lively places, because our energy is already exhausted from dealing with these. The body's functions are going downhill, and we can no longer withstand the toss and struggles like when we were young. Therefore, we must reduce unnecessary dinners, re-organize our connections, and make our second half of our lives better.
, especially those meaningless restaurants, don’t go to the dinner party casually. First, your body cannot bear it. If you eat too much or drink too much, your body will be hurt and you will feel uncomfortable. Second, those restaurants are basically useless socializing, noisy, noisy, no practical meaning, difficult to talk, eat well, and play well. It’s better not to go. Use this time to cultivate your interests and hobbies and make your life pure and fulfilling.
3, complaining, Taoist circle of right and wrong.
Discussion is a science. Sometimes, when we come into contact with people who talk about right and wrong, gossip, and have a lot of negative energy, over time, we will be subtly changed, and in the end we even hate ourselves.
When people reach middle age, if they want to live a pure ear, feel comfortable in their hearts, and be positive and positive, they must stay away from the circle of friends full of complaints and right and wrong.
is always difficult to accept. Everyone is spreading negative thoughts, spreading hearsay rumors, complaining about unsatisfactory life, talking about what to eat, drink, play, and wear every day; then talking about who has trivial matters, who has a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law’s disagreement, who has a divorced couple, who has an affair with someone in his family... In short, all the miscellaneous things in life can be taken out for a long time and wasted time.
Writer Li Shanglong said: "Negative energy is to whip others' bad things and scold the injustice of society; positive energy is to tell you after the talk, even if it is hard, I can still change some things through hard work."
There is never a shortage of people around us. Those who like to complain, talk about things, and have a good time must stay away. This is the best way to stay away from right and wrong, and it is also the best way to protect ourselves. When a person lives for a lifetime, he must know how to stop losses in time and stay away from those low-quality social circles.
Conclusion:
When we reach middle age, we should live more pragmatically and learn to look inward. Let the richness of our lives lie in enriching our souls, rather than pursuing external hypocrisy and nothingness, adjusting our mentality, and walking the rest of our lives well.
First of all, do your own thing steadily, be good to your parents, wife and children, maintain good physical and mental health, and accompany your family happily.
Secondly, you don’t have to make too many friends, just a few close friends are enough. Don’t bother each other when you are busy, and do your own things; chat in your spare time, make an appointment to go out for fun, drink tea, make your mind happy, and make your life colorful.
Finally, exercise, let yourself live longer and live more fulfilling, delete unnecessary troubles, reduce unnecessary social engagements, and reduce false feelings of right and wrong.
When people reach middle age, they must know how to reduce the burden on life, add color to life, pursue calmness in their hearts and simplicity in their lives, and stay away from circles that are not suitable for them.
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