Zhou Guoping said: "Among all responsibilities in the world, the most fundamental responsibility is to truly be yourself and live out your unique personality and value."
Indeed, it is a happy person who can become himself, have enough confidence to enjoy the sweetness of life, and have great power to resist the pain of life.
We have also run with all our might on the road to becoming ourselves.
can return to reality, but there are very few people who can truly become themselves, and many people may not be able to do it in their entire lives.
Later I realized that those who can live out themselves are busy doing these things.
Pursuing love, defining the fulcrum of life
There is a highly praised video on the site, which contains the following sentence: "Your love defines the fulcrum of your life."
A post-00 college student at Nanjing University of Aeronautics and Astronautics has entered a hot search with the topic of launching homemade rockets, attracting attention from the entire network.
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This student in his early 20s is called Liu Shang. This is not the first time he has launched a rocket. The reason why
was able to achieve such an achievement is inseparable from his love for the Rockets and his research on the construction and launch principles of the Rockets for several years.
You must know that this process is not easy:
rocket construction and launch involve a large amount of precise calculation programs and data. The corresponding programming and control algorithm are also extremely complex and cannot be careless. The developer needs to have considerable endurance and stress resistance.
But because of love, Liu Shang never thought of giving up.
He kept thinking about what problems he needed to solve and what things he needed to learn, and then solved and made breakthroughs step by step, and finally successfully launched his homemade rocket.
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Also defined by love is Wu Kaisi, a post-95 student who graduated from the Law Department of South China University of Technology.
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Unlike most people who graduate and look for decent jobs, he chose to "collect rags" because of his love for old things. He said: "Every old thing is unique."
Although there are various doubts and dreams that cannot support himself, he just smiled and didn't speak. He knew that the best way to answer questions is to achieve results, and he must work hard to do better.
Hold old goods markets, offline auctions, and personal exhibitions in the city center...
Now, in addition to daily expenses, he can also have a surplus of more than 10,000 yuan every month, which is not much, but it is enough for him who has no material desires. The most important thing is that he is doing what he loves.
Nice once said: "Every day that never dances is a life failure."
For the rest of my life, I hope you and I can find something to love and burn life with the fire of love.
adhere to principles and achieve priceless self
022 is the 20th year of Yin Tao debut as an actor.
At this time, she was already a Grand Slam winner and won the three major film and television gold medals: Magnolia, Feitian and Golden Eagle. In the popular TV series "The World", which was a while ago, he left a deep impression on the audience with the role of Zheng Juan.
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Such an excellent actor has not had any works for a while.
Because she is very "picky" about the script.
The role she wants to show must be full and rich, not just favored by capital and traffic.
This is the principle she has always adhered to as an actor.
A of her friends once said that for a while, the sentence that Yin Tao said most was: "I turned down another drama."
When she was anxious, she would walk around in the dark room with the lights turned off.
But even if there is no suitable script, she will not take on roles randomly and always stick to her principles. In the end, Yin Tao met the role of "Zheng Juan" and once again helped herself.
There is a line in " Hacksaw Ridge ": "If I can't stick to what I believe, how can I face myself."
The road of life depends on myself. If I can't even stick to my own principles, I am afraid that I will be getting worse and worse on the road to becoming myself.
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This year, the movie ",000 Miles Journey " led the National Day holiday with a box office of 1.1 billion, and its acting skills in starring Zhang Yi have been recognized by many parties.
As an actor, he once set two bottom lines for himself: one is not to make bad movies for the pay, and the other is not to participate in variety shows. After Zhang Yi became popular, many variety shows have looked for him.
It can make money and increase popularity when doing variety shows, but Zhang Yi refused.
adheres to his own principles and continues to focus on the cultivation of acting skills, which led to today's 10 billion actor Zhang Yi. The principle of
is the standard for self-cultivation and practice.
Adhere to principles can help us not get lost on the road to our true self.
Accept yourself and live a happy life
Friend Taozi looks good in everyone's eyes and is also smart. She studied in a 985 university, which is very good to outsiders.
But in her eyes, she always has shortcomings, and she hates herself with shortcomings.
Seeing her classmates talking in front of strangers and acting generous and decent, she was a little introverted and thought to herself: "Why am I always so restrained and can't let go?"
went shopping with friends. When she saw a girl dressed in a fashionable way, she would ask herself: "Why do I look so rustic?"
When encountering things, she always clings to her shortcomings and ignores her own strengths, which not only adds trouble to herself but also becomes more and more inferior.
But no one is perfect.
What we should do is to view and accept our own strengths and weaknesses objectively, rather than constantly denying ourselves in a certain state.
As the book "Accepting the Imperfect Self" says:
"In fact, there are advantages hidden behind every weakness of ours, and every dark side corresponds to a gift of life: being good at showing off is just a manifestation of overconfidence; sloppy means you are free in your heart; cowardice can help you avoid misfortune; shrews are the best way to solve problems in some occasions... The dark side is also part of life. Only by truly embracing it can we live a complete life."
host Yang Lan once interviewed Dangdang.com
Host Yang Lan , and one of the dialogues is thought-provoking.
Yang Lan: "Where is the least confident about you?"
Yu Yu: "Look."
Yang Lan: "Why do you become more and more confident and more elegant as you get older?"
Yu Yu: "Accept yourself."
Psychologist Jung once said: "For ordinary people, the most important homework in their life is to learn to accept themselves.”
Accept yourself, so that we can live from the heart, enjoy the completeness of life and the joy brought by life.
Give you
Virginia Woolf once said: "It is more important than anything that a person can make himself himself. ”
Maybe you still don’t know what you want to be.
But you can start from now on, truly know yourself and start over.
Find what you love, do your best; make sure you believe in, work hard to persevere; the most important thing is to accept yourself and move forward confidently.
