The old saying goes: "There are times in your destiny, and don't force it when you don't have it."
The destiny is not to change with human consciousness. Some people are destined to be rich and noble, and they will meet noble people on the road of life; some people are destined to be ordinary people, and even if they meet noble people, they may not be able to grasp it well.
When I was young, I felt that I could change my destiny through hard work; after I was in my 40s, I realized that some things could not be changed by hard work. When I really retired and stayed at home, I realized that some things could not be changed by human resources.
During this period, I read the original work of "The Way of Heaven". Why did Liu Bing, , Feng Shijie, , Ye Xiaoming and the other three ask Ouyang Xue to withdraw their shares after the incident in the meter poem? How could Xiao Yawen, who has seen the world and worked as an assistant to Ding Yuanying for a year, see the opportunity?
Some people say that the three of them have limited cognitive abilities, and some people say that they are selfish. What about it? It is still a matter of people's hearts and also fate. They do not have such blessings and luck in their destiny, and they miss it even when they meet noble people.
Buddha said: , all things are fate, no one can do anything! The so-called fate is cause and effect. When facing the arrangement of fate, all we can do is to do our best to do what we should do. Leave the rest to God. You must believe that God has his own arrangements.
How much money can I make in my life? Just follow the circumstances. Don’t be too persistent
I remember when I was young, many people persuaded me to work and follow them to do direct sales products. The pyramid-like sales revenue is very attractive. Back then, a colleague of mine bought out his or her seniority and worked full-time on this career. More than 20 years have passed, but there are very few people who can truly have wealth. Most of them are still so ordinary, without the big house they once dreamed of and the financial freedom after retirement.
The old saying goes, small wealth depends on diligence, medium wealth depends on virtue, and great wealth depends on fate. On the other hand, those who did not buy out their work experience and stayed with the company's reform will continue to follow the company's reform. As long as the couple works in the unit, so many years have passed, they will have everything they should have. Perhaps, this is fate, Sometimes the fate of life is really unavailable to people's choice.
The gains and losses of life have long been doomed. Some of the colleagues who bought out their working years have also gone south to find gold, but most of them are still ordinary people, neither making money nor particularly unbearable. So, you see, even if you are full of energy and ambitious when you are young, you will eventually be the life of a working person.
decades of life have seen many ups and downs of people around you. Some people rely on their own knowledge and cognition to gain wealth in financial management; while some people are obsessed with their dream of getting rich and missed the best opportunity to gain. They always want to make a lot of money, but they don’t want to go back to before liberation overnight.
I remember that when the market was particularly good that year, some people boasted that "if you don't make hundreds of thousands, you won't get it out", while others felt that they had earned half of their lives to save, be content and keep some for others. Those who came out made money, and those who were persistent were trapped. Opportunities disappear in a flash. In this life, there are not many opportunities that people can truly seize. Perhaps one opportunity can make you earn money for the rest of your life, it only depends on your inner desires.
After retirement, some people around them realized their financial freedom, some lived a well-off retirement life, and some continued to work hard to make money. In fact, after all, it is still the obsession in people's heart. One thought of heaven, one thought of hell, everything is fate.
Change yourself, I believe everything is the best arrangement
" Bottom Line ", Zhou Renmei in " Bottom Line ", initially gave people the feeling of being "wasteful". When I saw it at the end, I think he is the happiest man in the whole play. If you have a wife who tolerate and pamper him, and if you respect and be filial to him, you will definitely have the love of the "little cotton jacket" he and his wife expect in the future.
What moved Zhou Renmei the most was his change of herself. He always wanted his son to help him find his account and wanted to change his son's attitude towards him. Not only did he act coquettishly and talk nice things to his wife, but he also threatened his son from time to time. Later, I found that I could not change my son, so I could only change myself and try to make myself a good father in my son's mind.
Sakyamuni said: " Everything is the best arrangement. " The Buddha's words say: All conditioned dharmas are like dreams, illusions, bubbles, and shadows, like dew and lightning, and you should observe them like this.
Everything in life is fate and the best arrangement. No matter who you meet or what we can get, it is the arrangement of destiny. Just accept it naturally. Don’t be obsessed with the thoughts in your heart and believe that everything is the best arrangement.
Why do people die suddenly in middle age nowadays, and the geriatric diseases in the past have also come to young people. Perhaps it is because we are walking too fast, the pressure in our hearts is too great, and the heavy burden is too heavy, which makes us unable to bear it.
The old saying goes: "The King of Hell wants you to die in the third update, who dares to keep you until the fifth update?" Life is short, accepts your ordinary and ordinary things, changes what you can change, accepts all the arrangements in life, and when you feel at ease, everything will follow.
Be good at yourself, have good thoughts in your heart, and have peace of mind for a lifetime
People live for a lifetime, and the most blessed way to live is to have good thoughts in your heart, live your life with peace of mind, and do their best to do their best to be destined.
After retirement, some people are still persistent in making money and thinking about making a lot of money. Not only did you spend your pension money, but you also added endless troubles and anxiety to your children. Not only do you not reflect on your own behavior, but you also think that your own bad luck is due to your unlucky fate.
How much money can a person make in his life? In fact, it is already destined to be destined. There is no need to force it too much. Often, it will be too obsessed with it and will be useless.
Su Shi When he was in Lingnan, he asked Rou Nu, it was not better here than Jiangnan at all. How are you doing, but Rou Nu said that is my hometown where you are at peace. Being at peace is the best blessing in our lives. To live at peace, one must first learn to be good at yourself and treat everything well.
After retirement, enjoy life with peace of mind, do what you like, rely on your conscience, do your duty, and live the life you want; instead of being like some elderly people who "stop playing" to blackmail others and do things that have lost their conscience in order to make money.
There is a saying that even if you are kind to your kindness, blessings will wait for you on the road. Have good thoughts and treat everything well. people are doing what God is watching. God is not good to treat kind people badly. Destiny is determined by heaven and luck is controlled by oneself. Only by being the best self can you have the best destiny.
Everything in life is nothing more than a matter of timing and destiny. When you are a person, you must start carefully, and finally get a good result and have a good ending. In the process of life, we can only work hard to be ourselves. As for the results, everything is the best arrangement.
Only after retirement did I realize that after going through the hardships of years and the beatings of life, I realized that the old saying is right. Whatever you can earn in this life is destined.
"There are times in destiny that you must have, and don't force it if you don't have time in destiny." Life is fate, everything is the arrangement of fate, that's it, peace of mind is a good day.
Author: Huagui Zenxin
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