Su Shi said: "Looking at the horizontal, it looks like a ridge and a peak, with different distances and heights."
The locations between people are different, and the scenery is naturally different, and what you see and think of are naturally different.
People with different positions cannot understand each other and people with different levels cannot explain it even more.
Therefore, different positions do not need to be explained; different levels do not need to be merging.
It is said that "a big argument but no argument", and the highest level of life is not to argue!
The situation is different, and it may not be explained.
Zhuangzi once said: "How can you know that fish are not happy?"
's sentence means that you should not always look at others from your own perspective, and it also means "Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you."
You are not me, how can you know that the sadness and joy in my heart are inseparable from the world, the joys and sorrows of all living beings, and more about the cold and warmth of each person.
Your honey, his arsenic, the snowy weather, the beautiful scenery in the eyes of others is a disaster in the eyes of beggars.
Something is of different value to different people. For me, it is honey and a good thing, but it may be poison to others.
You see the precious honey, but it may be the arsenic that others regard as poison.
Arsenic is one of the oldest poisons, odorless and odorless, and is a white frost-like powder.
Everyone is in a different position, it is difficult to understand the other person’s thoughts, and the situation is different, and it is even more impossible to understand the other person’s feelings.
will never be able to see the problem clearly from your own perspective. Only by knowing how to think from the perspective of others can you better solve the problem.
Life is always an echo. Only by giving love can you gain love; only by giving emotion can you gain warmth.
The levels are different, and it may not be explained.
The Tao Te Ching once said: "The superior man heard the Tao and persuaded him to do it; the sergeant heard the Tao and would survive or die; the sergeant laughed out loud."
After listening to the Tao, he tried hard to implement it; the sergeant listened to the Tao and sometimes remembered it in his heart and sometimes forgot it; the sergeant listened to the Tao and laughed out loud. If you don’t be ridiculed, it is not enough to call it Tao.
The most square thing has no edges; the objects that can hold things do not hold things; the biggest sound sounds silent; the biggest image has no shape. The Tao is hidden without a name, and is nameless and silent.
A person with no understanding at all laughs when he hears "Tao" and thinks it is absurd.
laughed out loud, showing contempt and ridiculous voices, and holding a completely negative attitude.
The biggest difference between people is not identity and status, but the difference in cognitive levels.
As the saying goes: "It is better to compete with your fellow friends than to discuss the strengths and weaknesses with fools."
You can often argue with like-minded people about each other's opinions, but don't be petty with stupid people, otherwise the gain will not be worth the loss.
As the saying goes: good people do not argue, the argument is not good, and truly smart people never argue with others .
Do your own good, there is no need to change others
A philosopher once said: "Not all fish live in the same ocean."
There are thousands of people in the world, each person looks different, the people they meet, and the things they have experienced are different.
Those who stand halfway up the mountain will never experience the magnificence of looking at the mountains at all times; those who see the sky through the wellhead can only see a range of one diameter.
has always looked at others from his own position, and the conclusions drawn will never be objective and fair.
Don’t blame others easily, because you don’t know the joys, anger, sorrows, and joys in other people’s lives, and you cannot truly understand the ups and downs of others.
Don’t cater to others in order to gain the understanding and recognition of others and make yourself wronged.
Other people’s opinions cannot be changed. Instead of thinking about changing others, it is better to change yourself. If the circle of
is different, don’t force it into it; if the habits are different, don’t force it to change.
Do your best, nothing needs explanation. The only thing we can do is to be ourselves and manage our hearts.
Those who understand you will understand it. No matter how hard you explain it, it will be in vain.
Only after years of baptism can you understand that only those who have a big picture can live their own small life.
