I read a sentence:
"A person's growth is the road you have walked, the people you have met and the books you have read."
In the journey of life, where we will eventually go depends on all this. Because it will become an indispensable and important part of our lives, it will also determine every choice and thinking of us, and it will also determine what kind of person we will eventually become in our struggle throughout our lives.
so, don’t underestimate daily behavioral habits, and don’t ignore every experience. After all, truly excellent and powerful people are never born with them. They rely on repeated self-cultivation to get rid of mediocrity and achieve success.
What you are used to doing will have the mentality of doing things and will determine how far you can go.
To be precise, a person's habit of doing these two things means that his thinking is not simple and is higher than that of ordinary people.
1 Revisiting the event later makes yourself more and more excellent
in "Letter to Xue Shangqian":
"Those who have fallen out of their minds will gain wisdom. Today's mistakes may not be the gains of the future."
After experiencing a setback, you must have more wisdom. This will not only avoid repeating the same mistakes, but also sublimate your own thoughts and have a deeper understanding and awareness of people, things, and yourself.
In other words, it is not just that encountering setbacks will make people have wisdom, but that understanding that reviewing afterwards is the correct way to make yourself less and less simple.
I have seen many outstanding achievements in many fields. More than one person has said that he likes to review things after doing things, and it has become a habit of himself.
Each review can make you more clearly see the advantages and disadvantages in one thing, or shortcomings.
Only in this way can we recognize ourselves more clearly, let ourselves truly see the pros and cons, and we can truly become more and more powerful, and from then on, we will have completely different perspectives on the problem.
For example, after doing something, some people will take some time to analyze what they have gained, lost, and discover what the rules are, so that they can play to their strengths and avoid their weaknesses and turn their weaknesses into their advantages.
Some people will also review and summarize the past from time to time. What are the things that have not completed the goals, what tasks have exceeded expectations, whether they have met or things, what are the next adjustment plan...
When we are striding forward, don’t hurry to rush forward, but stop and think carefully about the past, so that we can summarize and gain experience in time. Only in this way can a person’s ideological realm get higher and higher, and we will become more and more wise in every incident.
There is a saying that goes very well: "A person does not mature the more he experiences, but the thinking after the experience makes himself better and better."
Only by reviewing and summarizing in time can we see the world clearly in past events, and understand better what we like and reject. After that, you can constantly adjust your direction based on the conclusions drawn from the summary, so that you can always walk on the right path, so as not to go astray.
2 Self-discipline in doing things, achieve self-reliance through little actions
There is a saying: "Self-discipline, give me freedom."
People who truly understand self-discipline will not choose to give up halfway or stop because of temporary setbacks and difficulties, but will continue to be stormy and rainy, and make themselves better and better through the power of time.
To be honest, there are more laziness and slackness in human nature, and true self-discipline is often very small.
However, if you really want to control your heart, you must rely on self-discipline. Although you cannot be satisfied in time, the sense of gain after delay often makes a person have great success.
Therefore, the higher the level of thinking, the more people understand the importance of self-discipline in managing their life. Even if they have more strength, they will not relax themselves easily, but will strictly demand themselves everywhere, step by step, step by step.
If you do not have self-discipline, a person will procrastinate and live a mediocre life. He will not be able to truly say goodbye to the past and truly achieve a breakthrough from zero to one.
Once you have pressure and motivation, you will work hard and strive in one direction, which can truly stimulate your inner potential, truly make yourself unique and become an extraordinary person.
People who know how to be self-discipline understand the huge gains brought by doing something for a long time, so they will slowly change through little actions, making it a lifestyle habit for themselves to deal with things. Only by truly understanding something correctly from the bottom of their hearts can they ultimately achieve their own breakthrough and “turn decay into magic.”
Time is a very magical thing. It can make a person mediocre, willing to be mediocre, and even often complain about boredom and boring towards time.
On the contrary, time can also make a person turn into a cocoon into a butterfly, and through changes bit by bit, you can truly feel the huge changes brought by time.
These are the huge differences caused by whether there is self-discipline.
I read a sentence: "A person's final height depends on the height of self-requirement."
Similarly, the level of a person's ideological realm also depends on what kind of living habits he chooses.
review after the event can allow yourself to stop and think about gains and losses in time, and see yourself better through the thinking that pops out, because only by keeping yourself awake at all times can you correctly view something and correctly understand a person.
Self-discipline in doing things can allow yourself to change yourself through the long river of time through little actions, run in the right direction without bias, let yourself get rid of laziness and slackness, and truly meet the best self.
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