It is really difficult for people to reach middle age, with old people above and young people below.
Don’t dare to stop or get sick every day. Every day, you have to work hard when you open your eyes. Sometimes I hurried out before I even had time to have a bite of hot breakfast.
Someone said that you can get up early and eat a hot meal if you are more diligent. But the problem is that many people not only have to get up early every day, but also have to work overtime until late at night, so it is unrealistic to get up early.
Many times, when we look at the busy figures around us, most of them are people. For the sake of life, we have to work hard, but we can't live a comfortable day. After all, no matter how hard you work, you may not be able to cope with the sudden changes every day.
Most people feel that their bodies are gradually unable to control themselves after they are 50 years old. I also want to be as energetic as I was when I was young, and I also want to be full of energy after work overtime.
When you go home, give your wife a hug, tease the children, and care about the elderly, but in fact, even if you are determined to do these things, you will eventually become incompetent.
How many people are 50 years old and still do not have a house that belongs entirely to their own. They have to carry the mortgage, the pressure of life, the responsibility to raise children, and the obligation to support the elderly.
Various expenses of households have long made people of this age forget what ideals are. They just want to work harder today so that their families can live a better life.
dare not say it is tired, and cannot say it is tired.
Because reality is like a storm. If you compromise, you will never have the chance to stand up again. You can only stand to the end, wait for the storm to pass, and still stand tenaciously, and be the final winner.
When people reach middle age, these four signs appear around them are often the beginning of suffering, don’t not know.
1. Without income, the whole family will starve
There is material support everywhere in life. Whether it is eating, dressing, taking medicine when you are sick, or sheltering from the rain in a house, which one does not need material to be exchanged for? When people reach middle age, they need more.
At this time, people dare not get sick because they carry a family's livelihood. I dare not say I am tired, because I earn less money after a day off, which will deprive me of my family of happiness.
At this age, I don’t want to, nor do I want to see my family have a hard time. Because you will blame yourself, you will feel useless, and you will be afraid that your relatives will be disappointed in you.
Trying to live and making money with all their might become the only thing they should do. All efforts that are not linked to money seem meaningless.
Because money is used everywhere in life, people also value money and interests. At this time, if you are unemployed, it is really unimaginable what kind of dilemma the family will face.
When people lose their jobs in middle age, they are like losing. The most important thing they are, most proud of, and most rely on for survival, will naturally suffer.
2. Family is not harmonious, and there is no direction of struggle
Everyone is an independent individual, which means everyone is lonely.
So, why do people need a partner to form a family when they reach a certain age? This is not only for the continuation of life, but also for the purpose of making yourself less lonely.
From birth to growth, every child is a process of slowly leaving his original family. This process is also for us to better find a sense of home and find the people who spend the rest of our lives with us.
Parents have already found each other's other half, and their children have to leave their original family and look for their other half.
Generally, middle-aged people have their own partner and have their own children. With a family, there is a sense of belonging, and there is the motivation and direction to work hard.
If there is a problem with the family at this time, the most common thing is that the relationship between husband and wife is often noisy and has no common goal.
When a family is gradually becoming divided, it means that the family cannot bring happiness, and there will be no goal of struggle and the original direction.
At this time, no matter how successful you are in your career, your mood will be affected. After all, in this life, what people love and care about most is their family and lover.
Especially when people reach middle age, they are used to being with people they have loved for decades, relying on each other and supporting each other. At this time, some things have led to family discord and will fall apart. Then, at this time, not only will you feel pain in your heart, but you will also suffer from mental torture.
After middle age, this period was the most turbulent time for the family. Without a happy family, everything became meaningless and could not find the meaning of life. Naturally, you would feel the hardships of life.
3. In poor health, losing the original happiness experience
There are many middle-aged people, when they were young, relying on their youth, working hard, consuming their bodies, and laying a time bomb on their bodies. The safety hazards of the body will be exposed at this time.
Many people have physical problems at this time, and many people suffer from serious illnesses. Many people can no longer make money at work, and some people can only become resident insects. At this time, it becomes a burden for the whole family.
was the time when he was most worthy of making money, but suddenly fell down. What should be raised has not been raised yet, and what should be supported has not fulfilled its obligation to support.
At this time, I am undoubtedly the most guilty to myself.
When people reach middle age, they will only understand that the body is in their own body, and only they can feel its resistance, its grievances and bitterness.
Once it can no longer support you to do what you want to do, then, at this moment, you are so desperate. When most people reach this point, they will suddenly realize why they have not treated their bodies well as soon as possible.
It actually sent you a lot of signals, but you didn't care or pay attention to it.
So, if a person reaches middle age, if he does not have a good body, then the suffering at this moment will begin.
4. If the mind is not calm, troubles will disturb itself
If the mind is not calm, troubles will naturally come.
Many middle-aged people originally had a happy life, but because they couldn't calm down, they always wanted to compare, but envied others. Once they had some skills, they always felt better than others. They would feel that they were better than others. They would feel that they had experienced the things they had itchy and couldn't help but try them.
Some people will betray their partner and find a lover outside to accompany them to relieve their worries and boredom. Some people also use gambling to relieve their worries and boredom. In short, there are many temptations and they have a good life, but because of their lack of self-discipline, they cannot calm down, and they choose the wrong path.
Needless to say, many middle-aged people make such mistakes. In the end, there are constant worries and troubles come in piles.
People who are middle-aged, if they know how to meditate. Naturally, some temptations can be avoided and you can spend the rest of your life better.
As long as you can keep your true heart, these sufferings and troubles will be gone.
