was born to die of illness, and the natural law, no one of us can stop or break it.
people will leave after a certain period of time. Even if we are unwilling to let go, even if our relatives are reluctant to leave, this is the law of this world. Each of us comes to this world naked and eventually turns into a wisp of blue smoke and leaves floating away. Life does not bring any dust or soil, and death does not bring any grass or tree.
When people reach old age, look back and see that the past persistence and obsessions have no meaning now. In life, even oneself changes rapidly, and other people and things are less reliable.
Especially when it comes to the issue of elderly care, the inherent concept of most of us is to raise children to prevent old age, but is raising children really good at preventing old age? In fact, very few people can rely on their children when they are old. Not to mention whether their children are filial, even if they reach a certain age, the pressure of life and work is enough to suffocate a person, let alone a person carrying the burden of the family?
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I am the biggest relying on
People reach old age. In fact, the person you are closest to is yourself, and only you are your biggest relying on!
Contemporary young people, whether they are studying, working or at home, are holding umbrellas to let them run. They have never truly experienced the wind and rain, nor have they been beaten by society. So they are used to relying on it and their palms are facing upward. That's why a large number of hiding parents appeared. These children cannot experience the hardships of life, the difficulties of their parents, and they cannot find that their parents are old and they should grow up!
So when people get old, they should plan more for themselves. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, and there is no need to be a horse or a cow for them. When people get old, it is more important than anything else to live their own life, manage their health, and keep their own wallet!
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Parent
all say: Children in the whole family are not as good as couples halfway.
Birds will leave their nests when they grow up, and children will split up when they grow up. After their children have their own family and their own children, the burden on their shoulders is heavier and the pressure on life is greater. They have to run around for life every day and are busy with work to support their families all day. There is really little time to take care of their parents.
At this time, only the quarrels with you when you were young are by your side. When you are sick, you are worried and anxious about you. They serve you tea and water and take care of you meticulously. Therefore, we must be kind to our spouses when we are young.
My wife, wife, be with you in old age! I hope to cherish it!
