is brilliant anyway,
is coming anyway,
6 Anyway, it is the loneliness that is slowly withering,
dazzling loneliness,
unswerving loneliness...
～～ Yu Xiuhua
Life, life in the essential sense is all walking alone! It’s just that at different stages and at different intersections, we meet different travel companions... Some can only walk together for a while and wave goodbye; some just pass by and have to watch the journey far away; all we can do is cherish the affection and not have the chance to pass by gently! On the long journey of life, people interact with each other and meet by chance. Sometimes they don’t ask or say it because they keep the distance in life. When they ask or say it, they stick to the trust of life! If you don’t say it, I don’t ask you, it’s the tacit understanding between friends, I don’t ask you, it’s a rare confidant in life! Life is a walk by one person, and the process of walking by everyone is the different scenery that everyone sees... As the saying goes, it is difficult to walk, not in the water, not in the mountains, but in the repetition of human feelings! Human relationships are repeated, things are impermanent, and people get along more like hedgehogs. They hurt when they are together, and they feel lonely when they leave... Living like a hedgehog is a choice that life has to choose!
Hedgehog, from the outside, her whole body is covered with hard thorns, which is a truly invincible fortress of action, this is the outside! But from the inside, she is perfectly delicate, emotional, sensitive, gentle, diligent and persistent! Hedgehog is a lazy little animal that he deliberately disguises himself. He likes to close himself in a world of no one and walks in the boundless night, but has extraordinary elegance!
Life is also the same. Everyone is a hedgehog walking alone in the world, alone and exhausted! Only when the frequency is the same can you feel and even see the unknown warmth and softness deep in each other's hearts... I believe that there must be someone in this world who can feel their own frequency and pulse. She (he) may not be a lover or a close relative. It may be just a thunderbolt in the sea, another hedgehog running hard, but it must be a friend and a confidant! Meeting in this huge and turbid world, we will no longer feel helpless and lonely because of this precious understanding... My confidant is resonant with each other. I hope that everyone in this world can meet the one who is in harmony with each other and walk on warmly. It may not necessarily work together. Sometimes it only takes a firm look to comfort your life...
In this world full of powerful tools, who can run around without being hurt, protect yourself like a hedgehog and try to show your weaknesses and wounds to those you believe in! In the end, no one is covered in scars and exhausted! As a result, no one dares to believe, no one dares to entrust, and no one dares to love! You can only live alone in this world... This is the flaw of the hedgehog, and it is also the shortcoming of life! Make the solemnity, warmth and simple of the years; place the past scenery in the shallow time, interpreting the encounter and joy, carrying love and warmth! In fact, my heart has long been crushed into the mist and rain of the world. I reached out to take the pain, and put all the holes that were hurt by time into the sky!
Life, if you feel happy, where is the place... Let flowers turn into flowers, let trees turn into trees, the original meaning is: return yourself to yourself, return others to others! From then on, the mountains and rivers will never meet! May the next life be gone, not seeing, not loneliness, not thinking about it... loneliness is the true meaning of life! If your heart is peaceful, the southern mountain is everywhere! All encounters in the world have their own reasons, and the causes of the previous life and the consequences of the next life are all their practices at this moment!
Guanlanjun said: Everything that appears in life cannot be possessed, you can only experience... Those who know this well will understand: it doesn’t matter how much it is to lose, it’s just going through; it doesn’t matter how much it is to fail, it’s just experience! Looking at life with a browsing heart, all gains and losses, hiddenness and appearance are scenery and charm... Living like a hedgehog may not be great wisdom, but indeed a real life! Live yourself thoroughly and live calmly. Loneliness may not be loneliness! If you can’t turn it over, don’t turn it over. The journey of life is ultimately your own life, or you are lonely... No matter how prosperous the road is, or how many people are with you, you are just you after all. Other people’s help or mercy are all set off, and you cannot truly reverse the direction of your destiny... Don’t invite too many people to your life humbly in order to reject the loneliness of your soul, because you are not the protagonist in your life, and no one is the master of your life!
