Life is a wonderful journey, with beautiful scenery and suffering at the same time. What kind of mentality do you need to face this journey?
When I was young, I felt that the world was beautiful. As long as I moved towards the ideal in my heart, fantasizing about growing up, getting married and having children, and living a carefree life, how childish it is now.
Decades later, after experiencing so much, I realized that it was just a dream. Everything that happened in life is not the dream in imagination, but the cruelty in real life. You need to face complex social environments and interpersonal relationships.
Recognize the cruelty of reality as soon as possible, effectively understand the real social environment, and be prepared for danger in times of peace and safety to effectively deal with sudden difficulties.
Just think about how many years of epidemic have changed the trajectory of life. Without stable jobs, lower income, high mortgages, and sudden debt surges. Sometimes it’s really breathless, but life is about crossing every sad hurdle before reaching the other side.
The old saying goes well: People are most likely to have self-knowledge. When they are in a low period, they must especially face reality and re-plan the present, including the current situation of the family, work situation, their own abilities and development direction, and constantly enrich their knowledge.
persist in learning
Learning may not be an easy task for the moment. The development of technology and the prevalence of electronic devices are all great temptations. It is a waste of time, so you need to make a perfect plan and develop good living habits. Make full use of time, eliminate unnecessary communication, and increase your cultivation. Make friends with avant-garde ideas and avant-garde style.
is appropriate to leave.
Thank you for reading, I hope to get out of the predicament as soon as possible.
