When recording those blurred faces and broken fragments in the past two days, it actually attracted the attention of two elder brothers who had worked together. One went to a large unit in Beijing and the other had moved to the local area to the ups and downs of the business world, which was quite surprised and uneasy. I was afraid that because of the long time, my memories were mixed with personal subjective tendencies, and some less accurate and friendly languages were processed by some people's mouths and passed to the ears of the protagonists of these words, which may hurt our not-so-deep friendship.
Fortunately, I avoided their real names and did not verify the authenticity and accuracy of every time, place and event. So even if anyone saw these boring words that seemed familiar, I definitely didn’t have to associate them with them. Because it seems true and false.
Originally, I was an outlier but not yet resided. My colleagues and I live our own lives and work on parallel tracks, and I have never formed a particularly deep friendship with one or several of them. This is a pity that I have worked in the same unit for so long. But it's just a regret, not to the point of being upset and regret, at least for now.
Let’s talk about a few more people today.
The big peak on the back. Dafeng is from Northeast China, with thick eyebrows and big eyes, and a cheerful smile. He and I were also from the same school in the first four years of college. In the fifth year, we went directly to Shihezi without training. After I came, he was already an "old man" in the unit. I often asked him about some problems that newcomers would encounter, and he would help him enthusiastically every time. Every time I think of him, I will have an idea in my mind - he and I are the same type of people, the kind of people who are often criticized by the above names, reviewed the most in various situations, and are ridiculed behind them.
When Dafeng and I were in the company, we were invited to the conference several times, facing at least dozens of people and more than a hundred people who deeply reflected on our mistakes. Perhaps in Dafeng's opinion, he didn't think he was as bad as me, so he just thought it was my self-deprecating. It was during the reprimand that I had to find a reason to continue to carry on, so I forced Dafeng to the ranks of myself, in order to tell myself that you are not the worst one yet, and you still have companions! By the way, Chunyu, Huabin, Chao brother, Dafeng and I mentioned earlier, we all come from the same school and from the cradle of the King of Land War. Maybe I have been lying in the cradle for a long time and have been a little more comfortable, and we are not doing well.
"Double Standard King" Xiao Jian must be said. Xiao Jian’s “double standards” are well known to everyone who is familiar with him. He is a typical person who always prepares two packs of cigarettes in his left and right pockets at different prices. When he meets the big leader, he goes to Huazi, when he meets the young leader, and when he meets the same level, he pretends not to see it, but he doesn't smoke. His direct or indirectly, his colleagues who were not as powerful as those who were assigned to the unit like us often mocked him for looking down on others and serving. He always laughed, but did not admit that he was such a person, nor did he get angry with his people. He would definitely make a statement of listening to the powerful people who might affect his fate, and would definitely nod and say it like a devout elementary school student.
He seems to benefit from this and also suffer from this. He had just half a year since he came down and successfully entered the agency, and became the company commander more than a year later. When he had to walk into the masses but couldn't see them in his eyes, the masses' dissatisfaction with him became increasingly greater, and the saliva of the masses flooded him like a rapids of a capsized boat. After a few years, he communicated and quickly turned around and left.
There is also a big Ni who takes the blame. Those who have said a few words to Da Ni feel that Da Ni is a very honest person, but the one who suffers from the loss is often the honest person. Once, he brought several non-commissioned officers on duty, and a leader of the unit came to inspect. Perhaps it was because the non-commissioned officers were careless and careless. In short, there was a conflict or a fight with each other.At that time, Da Ni had only been in the unit for more than a year and did not attack any party. He went forward to dissuade him, and of course the effect was not obvious. Later, the non-commissioned officers left, but Da Ni and the matter remained. After the double fermentation of time and saliva, Da Ni became the initiator of the incident and the only one who was at fault. Since then he has lost many opportunities to make progress.
There is also a colleague who is very good at things and is very popular with his leaders, but shortly after he was transferred, he did something stupid. He used his work convenience to tease a married family member. The husband of the family exposed him to his leader and demanded severe punishment. Although the matter was not handled publicly, the rumor in the unit was full of controversy, which made him lose face. Since then, he has been in a slump and suffered from the youthful and unrest! It’s better not to mention such things to others.
