This is Xizi's mother's 221st original article
It is said that once a person's personality is formed, it is difficult to change, especially after the age of 16, the personality is basically established, and it will be difficult to change it again.
But I always believe that since everything is formed, there will be changes. No matter how difficult it is, as long as you have firm beliefs and determination to change, everything will change.
almost all of us officially entered the school at the age of six or seven, and since then we started our learning career on the Long March.
went to elementary school, junior high school, high school, university, postgraduate study, and doctoral degree. After work, I continued to study and further my studies... By the way, I seemed to be studying all my life.
The main reason is that life has the knowledge and wisdom that can never be learned.
, especially after starting a family and starting a business, we will find to varying degrees that what we lack is not knowledge, but wisdom.
Knowledge is dead, while wisdom is constantly arising from time to time. It is like a trickle of water and it is constantly emerging.
Therefore, we mainly study knowledge and skills for the first half of our lives, and the second half of our lives mainly learn wisdom enlightenment and awakening.
The greatest power of learning is that it breaks our usual thinking, reorganizes our thinking, thereby changing our personality, and ultimately changing our destiny.
Learning is the most capable of changing our destiny, and it is also the only means or way to help us change our destiny!
Yesterday, it made me begin to truly realize its power.
The biggest shortcoming of my personality is that I let go slowly, especially those who put too much effort into myself. It can be said that it is equivalent to the flesh of my heart. Once I lose it, it will take at least several days of sadness.
For more than a year, I have recorded very complete and detailed documents carefully and carefully every time, but they have inexplicably evaporated. This so-called "rest assured" software that I have always used has made such ruthless mistakes.
were looking for it all afternoon, and tried every means to end up in failure. Finally, the Baidu lady told me that like me, there were actually many people who suddenly disappeared from the file, and the software was not at ease.
I'm not sure if the files lost by these people are important to me, and whether I have put so much effort into it, these are not important to me. What's important is that I haven't been sad for a long time because of this.
I actually let it go in an instant, leaving no regrets at all. I am still surprised how I became so heartless?
I understand that it is learning that changed me and gradually moved away from the previous me.
is it, which taught me to leave;
is it, which taught me what life should pursue;
is it, which taught me that life should not be too attached to things that have passed away;
is it, which taught me that I should face and accept everything that has happened when I am alive.
And it actually nourishes my heart so quietly. This is the silent power of moistening things!
