. On the road to success, you will inevitably encounter setbacks, and only those who are lying flat can have a peaceful life. Scars are the best military medal; unforgettable loss of money is the fastest progress.
There are too many people who want to find or take shortcuts. On the contrary, those who work diligently, day after day, and keep improving, ten years later, these people become successful people! Most of those who take shortcuts are lost in the crowd ten years later. In a field, if you work hard for 3 years, you can surpass 50% of your opponents; if you persist for 5 years, you can defeat 80% of your opponents; if you persist for 10 years, you believe that you are already in a high position. There is no shortcut to success, everything is obtained by time and energy.
The public likes instant gratification, while success often requires delayed gratification. The so-called instant satisfaction means requiring immediate results and unwilling to wait. Delayed satisfaction means being willing to give up instant satisfaction for more valuable long-term results and knowing the meaning of persistence and waiting.
People are addicted to games or Tik Tok because they can provide instant satisfaction and make you feel "good" all the time. Although everyone knows that physical exercise is useful, few people persist because exercise takes a long time to slowly see the results. At the beginning, all there is only pain. The same is true for reading books. Many people want to become experts after reading a book. Little do we know that quantitative change can produce qualitative change.
Toutiao's Zhang Yiming likes to mention "delayed gratification", but he also knows how much the public hates "delayed gratification", so Toutiao products adopt a personalized recommendation system. After logging in, users can only see the content that satisfy them the most. This is true awesome people. The requirements for themselves are "delay satisfaction" and the services provided to users are "instant satisfaction".
Those who achieve great things will not seek public success. There are three major disadvantages in group decision-making: inefficiency; mediocrity; which opinion will win does not depend on whether it is more in line with the objective situation and is better, but whether it is more eloquent and inflammatory. When you see what others are doing, you will do it too. There is a high probability that you will not succeed, at most it will be the average profit.
Most people are mediocre and cannot succeed, so that they can comply with the statistical probability law. Therefore, it is stupid to always want to be consistent with the public. Don’t think of getting any clever view from the public. The views that few people agree with are often more valuable.
trust to spread the message, doubt to spread doubt. The truth is not the only one that is the objective existence of the world. Let your subjectiveness conform to the objective, follow the general trend of the times, and not go against the current, it will be easier to achieve success. Every successful person is doing what he does. "The era without Jack Ma is only Jack Ma of the times." It is not easy to objectively understand yourself and objectively understand others. Learn from history and be wise with history.
If a person wants to accomplish great things and need someone to help, he must take the initiative to take advantage of others. When you make money, as long as you get some money, you will get some profit, even if this person may not be of great help. Only in this way will more and more people expect you to succeed, and more and more noble people will be on the road of life. People often say that we should be grateful and accumulate good deeds, and this is the reason.
Overcoming all kinds of difficulties and obstacles and getting what you want is success; comprehension of the illusory nature of the so-called happiness and happiness in the world is maturity. I don’t know whether it is successful or not, but maturity is what a person should practice. Looking up at the stars and being worthy of the heart of heaven and earth. The truth is that success requires long-term accumulation, and quantitative change leads to qualitative change. If you have enough, you will find that the goal you once longed for is nothing. How does
be considered successful? In my opinion, the criterion for success is that you can say no and have the right to choose not to do it. If you are forced to socialize, work overtime on business trips every day, be forced to say nonsense, and be forced to face people you don’t like, it cannot be considered a success. For some paper wealth, giving up health and family life cannot be considered successful.
When we were young, we were full of imagination about the future; when we grew up, we truly understood it and realized that life was not what we had imagined.The most awesome person is to recognize the truth of life and still love life. Because everyone lives this time. The cruelty of life lies in its shortness; the preciousness of life also lies in its shortness.
When I come to this world, people laugh, I cry; when I leave this world, people cry, I laugh. If this can be done, it will be worth the vain of this journey in the world. Therefore, no matter how much money you make, you can spend your life in your own way, which is success.
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