In this bleak autumn, people are more likely to be sad and moody. When I was young, I always liked to be sad about spring and autumn, and I like to fall into melancholy from time to time. I originally thought that when I grew up, my state would be much better, and a heart would not be so easy to be happy or sad.
When I grew up, I realized that it is really difficult to learn to control my emotions. It is easy to change the country, but difficult to change the nature, which is not without reason. As I get older, my mind is not mature. Often, I still can’t think too much, and I still can’t help but think a lot. During the day, sometimes my mood will still be ups and downs like a roller coaster.
So, I remembered a sentence like "Don't be happy with things, nor do I be sad with myself." I hope that in the future, I can live a more relaxed and casual life. There is no need to be always disturbed by various external factors, learn to stabilize your emotions and please your mood. This is more important than anything else.
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Accept the present and live in the present
You must know that every day in the present is the youngest day in the rest of your life and the most cherished day. If you always think about yesterday and tomorrow, but don’t know how to cherish today, it will be difficult to live a good life.
Sometimes, I always feel blessed but do not know how blessed I am. When I was single, I envy the sweetness of love. When you are in love, you envy those who are rich and beautiful; when you have no job, you envy those who have stable jobs. When I have a stable job, I feel depressed that I don’t have enough income.
Sometimes it is like that, looking at the mountain high, but forgetting to enjoy the scenery in front of you. Therefore, I always live in envying others and self-loss, and I always cannot see my current happiness and sweetness. If you always stare at unpleasant things in your eyes, it is naturally difficult to get happy.
A person, no matter whether he is rich or poor now, whether he is happy or unhappy, he must learn to accept it. You should know that what you have now is what truly belongs to you, and everything you have now is the most worth cherishing.
If you always stare at those things you don’t have in a daze, and you will never see the beauty in front of you, you will be destined to be very sad and happy in this life.
A truly happy person knows how to accept the present and cherish the present, rather than always staring at those unhappy things. Only by learning to enjoy the moment is the true wise man.
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But do good things, don't ask about the future
Newton said: "The secret of invention is constantly working hard." Born as a human being, everyone wants to live a more high-end life and hopes that they have a bright future, but not everyone can do it.
What we need to do is to just work hard and not ask about the harvest. Working hard is a kind of faith and a kind of pursuit. As for the outcome, don’t worry and learn to be broad-minded.
Instead of always spending time and thought about what the outcome of doing this, it is better to think carefully about how to do this best now. God rewards hard work. I believe that as long as I work hard, my sweat will not be in vain.
When I was in high school, I was very concerned about the results of each exam, but I found that the more I care about the results of the exam, the more nervous I will be and the harder it will be to play to my true level. But when I relaxed, didn't care much about the results, and devoted all my attention to learning knowledge, my grades were much better than before.
A person's energy is limited. If you pay too much attention to the results and spend your mind on worrying about the unknown, it will be difficult to devote yourself to the process. This will easily make yourself worried and anxious.
So don't care too much about the results. Let go of your place to be free, and be free only if you are assured.
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I got lucky, I lost my life
Everyone hopes that their efforts will be rewarded, and hope that their efforts will be rewarded. However, in life, many things are indescribable. Things are not without reason due to human actions, and it is indeed good that God's will cannot be violated. Therefore, in the road of life, sometimes you must learn to go with the flow and be content with the flow.
Sometimes, sometimes you must have it in your destiny, and don’t force it in your destiny.I have worked very hard, but I still can't live the life I want. At this time, I can't help but be angry, but what can I do? Who can resist destiny?
Sometimes it is indeed bad luck and has a bad life. When you are dissatisfied with the current situation and are dissatisfied with the present, don’t always feel uncomfortable, don’t always feel difficult to let go, learn to comfort yourself and learn to be open-minded.
Even if you are laughed at by others, you still have to laugh at life even if you are in adversity, and still have to be optimistic and confident. Sometimes people are just a mood when they are alive. It is better to learn to make yourself feel more comfortable than anything else.
Fate is impermanent, and sometimes there is God's will in the dark. days If there is love, the sky will be old , sometimes fate will joke with some people. Some people have everything as soon as they are born, while some people have struggled for most of their lives but still have nothing.
So, don’t think too much, living every day in front of you is the most realistic.
Not happy with things or sad with yourself is an open-minded state of mind and a joy to seek inwardly. It is difficult to change something with sadness or joy. Since this is the case, it is better to let it go. Don’t think too much, but you can live a more comfortable life.
