Many people are taboo about the word "civilization".
think that people who are very cunning are villains in the dark, just like pests, suddenly appear.
In fact, a person with a very cunning can become a great person as long as he is not bad-minded.
As mentioned in "Collection of Mottos" : "If you have zhilan in the room, the smell is clear, and if you have scheming, the world is wide."
In this life, money is important, but if you don't have a certain amount of scheming, you will still slip away after you get the money.
masters who control money have the following types of "scheming" and are very visionary.
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Seize the opportunity and get things done quietly.
cannot be lost, and the time will never come again. Many people will immediately show joy when they encounter the opportunity to turn over and make a fortune. What's the result? His opportunities are seen by others, and he may take the lead or set up obstacles.
people are selfish and hope to surpass the people around them. Even relatives and friends cannot be very generous.
If you want to beware of other people's selfishness, you must first restrain your own selfishness, seize the opportunity quietly, and make a comeback slowly. By the time others find themselves emerging, they are already unstoppable.
In the late Eastern Han Dynasty, Dong Zhuo was in power and the government and the people, which also aroused public outrage. Therefore, Yuan Shao , Cao Cao , Liu Bei , Sun Jian and others raised the banner of attacking Dong Zhuo and gathered in Luoyang .
In order to trip Dong Zhuo, everyone decided to choose a leader.
Cao Cao really wants to get ahead, but his strength is not enough. His virtue is average, and his men are all pieced together. Therefore, he was the first to stand up and said, "Please be the leader of Yuan Shao." After Yuan Shao took office, even if his younger brother Yuan Shu manages food and grass, it leads to insufficient supply, which arouses everyone's dissatisfaction.
Then, they met Huaxiong and did not dare to face it face. Guan Yu said: "Let me do it."
Yuan Shao doubted Guan Yu's ability. I often stand up and "I guarantee him."
Cao Cao was trying to smooth things over everywhere, so he became the leader of everyone's mind. It laid the foundation for future domination.
Guiguzi said: "If you want to be high, go down."
If a bird wants to fly high, it must press its wings down; if a boat wants to travel far, oars have to paddle down; if a person wants to stand at the forefront of the wind, it must take root down.
Therefore, we see that those who can achieve great things will not expose their ambitions at the beginning, but will practice themselves in dark places.
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See the relationship clearly and get close to those who can make money.
If you blatantly tell the other party: "I want to get a share of the pie from you." The other party will definitely not agree. Even if you agree, you will have to pay a price of equality.
When you quietly approach a valuable person, the other party will not be on guard against you, and may also be in some way to promote you. You are weak and can still get "the other party's pity".
The big man of the Ming Dynasty Zhang Juzheng , he was born in an ordinary scholar family. When he was a child, his name was Bai Gui, and he was famous for his excellent study.
When he was twelve years old, he went to the exam and made friends with Li Shiao, the governor of Jingzhou . Under the guidance of the prefect, it was renamed "Juzheng".
When he was thirteen years old, he made friends with Huguang Governor Gu Lin . Although Gu Lin did not let him pass the exam, he gave him expectations: "I hope you will set great ambitions and not be just a famous juren who became a young man." After that, he gave Ju Zheng the rhino belt on his body.
After Zhang Juzheng passed the Jinshi, he immediately made friends with Yan Song , Xu Jie , Gao Gong and others. After he became the chief assistant, he knew that Hairui was morally noble and upright, but he did not value it.
From his social skills, you can find that although Yan Song is very greedy and snobbish, he is valuable. When Hai Rui arranges him to his side, he may expose his shortcomings and make him feel ashamed.
people have shortcomings. Zhang Juzheng is no exception.For example, after his parents passed away, they did not go home to mourn for three years, but continued to hang out in the officialdom with simple costumes. Only by cooperating with
can we win-win. Everyone understands the truth. But who can work with you and be very safe? It requires calm thinking and observation.
Don’t have a tiger-like opponent, just be afraid of teammates like pigs.
What is your goal, who can help you, who can take advantage of it at a certain stage. Once you figure it out, you will be able to get close to the people who work together in time and withdraw from relationships you no longer need in time.
There are not many people who are selfless to you, except for your parents. If you see this, you will not be trapped in love. Emotion at some point is the emotional card.
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Dare to dance alone and plan your own future.
The iron must be strong himself.
As a person, you always plot against others, it is difficult to achieve great things. You still have to have a certain ability to control the overall situation of life.
ability is not just about reading a book, but also about controlling destiny, courage to be a human being, and wisdom to socialize.
If you are temporarily cold, don’t rush to accomplish things and improve yourself. Be the master of destiny, and you will be very exciting when you walk alone.
At the time of the Northern Song Dynasty , there was a woman named Wang, whose husband was a businessman named Wang Balang.
Wang found out that her husband had a new love and was a singer. According to common sense, women should make trouble and force their husbands to return to their family, but Wang did not do this, just secretly sold the valuable things in the family and hid them.
After a while, the husband wanted to divorce his wife, so he sued.
Wang insists on raising his daughter alone and wants half of his property.
After being retired, Wang moved to the next village to live in a porcelain shop in order to avoid "there are too many troubles in front of women".
Several years later, the daughter grew up and the turtle-gun died in a foreign land.
What's the use of crying, making a fuss and hanging yourself in the face of a deteriorating marriage? It’s better to make plans early and enjoy your old age.
Similarly, in a bad relationship circle, it is better to quit and work alone than to ask for things from others; when you are desperate, you are crushed, it is better to leave the place of right and wrong and find another way.
The world is so big, the east gate is not open, the west gate is not open, the east gate is not bright, the west gate is bright.
People should leave their own way and not tell anyone.
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Military Art says: "Therefore, you can show it but cannot show it but not use it."
Let others be confused, and you can protect it; if others see through it, they will be restricted from the beginning.
Civilization is a person’s pattern and demeanor, and it is a way to live a calm life.
When you stare at money, others will find your goal; when you stare at a distance, no one knows what you are going to do.
Remember that the best investment is to enrich your brain.
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