As the saying goes: A drop of water will be rewarded with a spring of water;
When we fall into the trough of life, there are always some people who bring us warmth and help;
This timely friendship always makes us care and remember, hoping that one day, we can repay the other party's kindness;
The rapidly developing society has made many people have no time to care about how to thank those who have helped them, so they chose to invite the other party to dinner, which is a way that can really and connect with each other.
In fact, the best reward for a person is not as simple as inviting him to a meal, but rather thanking the other party for his help from the bottom of his heart, providing him with what he can, so that both the other party and himself have more confidence in the relationship between the world and gain happiness and strength from it.
When the other party is in crisis, give timely help and rescue
When a person is in a glory, any closeness and flattery of outsiders seems to be flattery and will not be particularly cared about and moved by others;
Only when a person falls into a trough can he see the true face of the people around him and understand who is the most sincere to him and who is false;
says that true love is revealed in times of adversity. The small-scale fights, buying some gifts and having a meal are not enough to explain anything;
If you have accepted the other party’s great kindness, you must send valuable warmth when he is sad;
In ordinary days, you will not let others remember what you are good about. Only when others are hurt in their lives and are in trouble can you be more intimate with your help.
poets Yuan Zhen and Bai Juyi are such friends. Yuan Zhen’s career was not smooth, his mother died of illness, and his financial difficulties were very difficult. Bai Juyi helped him in time. Later, when Bai Juyi lived in poverty, Yuan Zhen generously sent him a lot of money, which moved Bai Juyi very much. The friendship between the two became deeper and indestructible.
So, when you sincerely thank someone, the best way to repay him when he is in trouble, give him help.
Live like a similar person to the other person, become a better self, and help more people
" The killer is not too cold ", there is a passage:
My deepest love for you is that after separation, I live like you.
Help between people can be a companionship when you are lonely, an encouragement when you are depressed, or taking care of the other person's life and caring for the other person's development.
Zhang Guimei is called a lamp in the mountains by many people. Because she has witnessed many girls dropping out of school due to family poverty and other reasons, she came up with an idea, which is to start a free high school for girls to help more girls get out of the mountains and realize their ideals in life.
She did these things not to shout slogans, but to really care about the children and help them realize their college dreams;
There are children in it who achieved good results in the college entrance examination because she was grateful for her help and determined to become a people's teacher like her, bringing gospel to people in the mountains and changing their destiny.
In this world, there is a kind of happiness called becoming your appearance and becoming a better self;
When we get help from others, we expect that we can become a person like him and help more people because we see the other person’s glorious and great image;
This way of thanking is far more meaningful than other superficial ways of repaying, because it is a persistence that benefits more people for life.
When the other party is lonely and helpless, give him comfort and companionship
It has to be admitted that sometimes others' pleasure and kindness to a person is not because of the person himself, but because they value his position;
When his glory is gone, many of the people who have praised him in the past may abandon him;
Even if he has helped the other party, the other party will not remember to give back his kindness.
A person's status is no longer prominent and no longer proud, and he will inevitably fall into loneliness and helplessness;
In terms of money, it is not as comfortable as before, and in terms of interpersonal relationships, it is not as good as before, and as before, it can summon the wind and rain.
At this time, the best reward to him is not simply money and superficial courtesy, but to comfort and companionship, care about his life and mood, help him relieve loneliness, and let him feel your kindness and sincerity.
Because for a person who has experienced the fickleness of people's hearts and the cold world, the kindness and enthusiasm he has made, and the equal rewards and gratitude he has given is the greatest happiness.
The kindness of others may be easily rewarded, or it may be impossible to repay it even if you spend your whole life;
But that precious friendship is like a beam of light in the darkness, enough to illuminate the future;
If others release kindness to you, please remember not to perfunctory him, don’t let him down, take out your energy, and warm his heart.
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