Some changes will happen after the age of 30, so while there are still a few years left, enjoy the youthful years...
1. It is more sensitive to both cold and heat. In the past, I thought changing seasons was a smooth and seamless process, but now I think changing seasons is like God changing gears while racing.
2. It is more likely to be tired, and sometimes I am in a state of "wanting to lie down for a while" all day long.
3. The frequency of insomnia is higher. Although I always want to lie down during the day, I really lie down at night but can't sleep. I tossed and turned until I heard the birds cry outside the window. I fell asleep when the sunrise was approaching, but it was time to get up, so I "want to lie down" all day.
4. Most of the exciting entertainment in the past became boring, such as movies and games. I almost played "Call of Duty 19" with my cheeks. I played less than 1/4 of it. I abandoned it. It was not because the game was bad, but because of me.
5. It is more likely to be injured during exercise and recover more slowly after injury.
6. Memory loss. When I was reading the book, I saw the author quote an expert's conclusion. After turning 3 pages, I muttered, "What was the expert's name just now...?" I turned back and took a look, remembered, and continued to read, and then turned 5 pages "...What was the expert's name just now...?" I went back and took a look, oh, I remembered, and continued to read, and after turning 10 pages, "Damn, what was the expert's name before...? I forgot..." When I turned 20 pages, I forgot that an expert mentioned before.
7. It is difficult to have a completely empty mind, and when I don’t work, I’m thinking about things. All kinds of thoughts are swaying back and forth in my mind. I frown alone and sit there, thinking silently. If someone next to me at this time, "What are you thinking?" I would say, "Nothing."
8. There are more and more "friends", and fewer and fewer friends.
9. I don’t like more and more things, but I rarely reveal them, and people become more and more peaceful.
10. It is becoming increasingly difficult to reach a consensus with public opinion. For example, a movie or variety show has received rave reviews online. After watching it, you will mutter, "What's the point to praise for this broken thing?" After watching some niche works that are not of interest, I like them very much, but I won't recommend them to others.
11. Begin to like slow things, such as reading and walking, often walking for several kilometers, or even more than ten kilometers, but for no reason, I just want to take a walk.
12. Be warmer to relatives and friends, and more cold to strangers. The face that was unable to be pulled down in the past is now better than curtains.
13. Get tired of all the cool things and like simple and deep things.
14. I often fall into unnecessary memories, and sometimes I even think of my aunt at the convenience store at the school gate and my classmates who had been missing for a long time more than 20 years ago. Although what happened to them later had nothing to do with me, I still want to know.
15. Creativity is declining, and the feeling of "a flash of inspiration" appears less and less, and the whole person becomes increasingly speechless.
16. When I was young, my beloved artists, athletes and scholars retired and even passed away one after another. Most of the restaurants, theaters, and shops I like also went bankrupt. The familiar world in the past was gradually dissipating, but I had no energy to welcome another new world and could only barely get along with it.
or above are not all, but just a part of my clear feelings. I see that many people plan their future lives when they are in their teens and twenties, saying that they will do whatever they want when they make money in the future. What I want to say is that your plan is entirely based on your current physical and mental state. The difference between you and the self in your future planning is only in the age figure. In fact, it is not. As you get older, people's preferences and moods will undergo great changes or even reverse.
So, poetry and wine are in the youth, and now you want it, otherwise, when you really get it, you will find that you no longer want it.
