People are middle-aged, no matter whether you are confused or not, if you want to live a good life, you will naturally know your destiny~ Human feelings are weak, so put away your generosity. In the second half of my life, live for myself. There is no need to forgive the harms of the past; as the saying goes, "Don't persuade others to be generous." There is no real empathy in this world.
The Master said: "How can I repay my kindness with virtue?"~ All forgiveness and tolerance in the world come at the cost of torture oneself. In the first half of your life, you always take care of other people's feelings; in the second half of your life, who will understand your bitterness? In life, the grass will grow in spring. Come like wind and rain, go like dust.
Wait for me to survive this embarrassment; I treasure all the gifts given to me by the years. What I give back is still the original intention. Whether I am fifty, sixty, or seventy or eighty, I just live as I like! Enjoy loneliness, humble bamboo has bowed its head and leaves, and proud plum blossoms have no flowers on their backs.
Gibran said, "People have two hearts, one heart bleeds, and the other heart is tolerant." Life has slowly taught me that tolerant people must have a bottom line, and kindness must have a sharp edge. Learn to have a kindness that is not hurtful and aura that is not hurt. Kindness should be your armor rather than your weakness.
The relationship between people is like the sand in your hands. The person who is truly worthy of keeping will not leave. What can be easily abandoned is definitely not worth waiting for. People come and go, you can be kind-hearted but not ignorant of human nature, you can be sincere but don’t trust someone too easily. Unreserved trust will only bring two results in the end, either the person in your life or a lesson in your life.
A new person can become an acquaintance, but if an acquaintance becomes a new person, it will be more diverse than a new person. There are always some regrets in life. We have 576 million pixels in our eyes but we can’t understand people’s hearts in the end. If we overestimate any relationship, we will eventually hurt ourselves.
