Author: Mo Xiaobei
01: Introduction
It is undeniable that this is a fast-paced era. We clearly know that sharpening a knife does not delay chopping wood, but most people are unwilling to use time to sharpen the knife.
Observe carefully and you will find that many people do not want to calm down and manage everything. Most of them are repetitions at low levels and always want to win in terms of quantity, but in the end they find that it is more difficult to make themselves go.
It is obvious that as long as you calm down, slow down, and think carefully, the result will not be like this, but many people are unwilling to do this.
Most people believe that thinking is the most waste of time, but they do not know that thinking is the best period for a person to settle.
Only when you understand how to think can you manage your own life well.
Of course, the thinking process is boring, and even makes you feel like it is a waste of time, but in fact, only after thinking about it can you know how worthwhile it is.
A person’s greatest vision is actually not diligence or not, because diligence may just be a low-level repetition. In the end, it not only wastes time, but also makes oneself achieve nothing.
and people who are truly visionary have one "skill", that is, they know how to calm down and manage themselves well.
02: You must know how to calm down and let yourself "grow"
Writer Li Xiaolai once said this:
"What is full of time is the attention, what is idle is the growth, what is wasted is the growth."
Born as human beings, each of us seems to be very busy, so busy that we have no time to accompany our family, so busy that we have no time to have a good rest, and even so busy that we have to speed up our meals.
Maybe, you think that being busy will make your life more valuable, but in fact, this is not the case.
If you are busy, just a low-level repetition, just superficial diligence, your busyness may be worthless.
I have met two writer friends who are deeply impressed by these two people. Their attitudes towards writing are completely different, and the final results are also different.
Xiao A is a diligent person. He updates several articles every day and can't wait to submit them. His writing style is very good, but the articles he writes always lack depth.
I advised him not to do this, otherwise he would suffer a big loss in the future, but Xiao A didn't listen because he needed money to support his family, so he didn't have time to stop and think.
In other words, Xiao A has regarded writing as a means of making a living by himself.
In his eyes, the article is just a product that can be replaced with a few taels of silver. Because he doesn't know how to stop and think, his article can only be superficial and can only be replaced with very little silver.
Xiao B is different. Every time he finishes writing an article, he will stop thinking about the words and revise the sentences. When the article is posted, he will carefully look at the editing and modifying the editing and see what is the difference between him and himself.
Of course, Xiao B does not write more articles than Xiao A, but the profit is not less than Xiao A, and even surpass Xiao A for a long time.
But Xiao A still didn't realize this problem, continued to do so, and finally slowly withdrew from the writing industry.
To be honest, I personally think Xiao A is a pity. He could have achieved better results, but all of this was ruined by him.
If he doesn't do this, it will naturally not be like this. But some life is always the result, and there is no if at all.
So, you must learn to think while you are young, and you cannot use your own growth to exchange for the gains and losses in front of you.
Because, growth is a lifelong thing, and gains and losses are only temporary. If you don’t listen, you will inevitably suffer a big loss.
In this world, the only one who can help you is yourself. If you give up and let yourself grow, then your world will naturally stop growing and your future will be dark.
03: Only by making yourself valuable can you make more money
Many people always want to prove themselves, they are not worth it yet, but they don’t care about wasting time.
In film and television dramas, we often see that martial arts masters are dormant for a period of time before they show their true strength. Only those who know how to have a little three-legged kung fu are unwilling to spend time practicing and are eager to express themselves.
Once we really confront each other, our shortcomings will undoubtedly be revealed and we will naturally be beaten to pieces by the other party.
In fact, they could not have been like this either. As long as they calm down and practice hard, they will become martial arts masters, but they are unwilling to do so.
If a person understands the principle of making himself valuable, then he will really win.
We all know that Zhuge Liang during the Three Kingdoms period is a very awesome person, and it can even be said to be omnipotent.
It is precisely because of this that it helped Liu Bei establish Shu Kingdom and gain a place.
If he had not lie dormant in Wolong Mountain and worked hard to cultivate himself and came out early, he would naturally not have achieved such great success.
It is precisely because he made himself valuable that he gained the status of Prime Minister of Shu.
When a person is willing to calm down and temper himself, even if he has not achieved any value for the time being, he will sooner or later succeed.
It is true that the process of cultivating oneself is painful, but only after suffering can one transform and realize one's own life value.
Born as human beings, what we compare is not explosive power, but endurance.
A person’s true success does not depend on how long he has persisted, but on whether you can persist.
Just like there is a saying on the Internet:
"Life is like a race, it doesn't care whether you reach the finish line first, but whether you have run the full journey."
04: Written at the end
Life is very long. Things that are eager to achieve can only see temporary results. If you want to be valued for a long time and earn greater benefits for yourself, you can only know how to manage yourself.
A person’s biggest and wisest vision is to be willing to give himself time to grow and make himself more valuable.
Because, only when you have greater value can you give yourself more comfort in the rest of your life.
While you are young, don’t always want to be anxious about success, and don’t think about taking shortcuts. You must learn to make yourself more powerful so that the rest of your life will become more colorful.
There is still a long life left. We cannot stop at the moment of mercy. We must know how to look at it for a long time. Only in this way can you live the way you want and the way others envy you.
Only by doing this can you not be in vain to come to this world.
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