In 2022, it will run faster than a rabbit.
has been relatively productive in writing this year. Counting various business articles, current reviews, and essays, it has updated no less than 500,000 words.
Open the "person" folder, and there are more than 100 manuscripts arranged in it, some of which are for earning royalties, and some of which are pure feelings.
Although there are various types of writing styles. But when such a pile of things is put out, it can make me temporarily forget the pain caused by my bank card balance.
99% of anxiety is mental internal consumption
99% of problems are not solved by people, but by time, especially in this extremely uncertain era.
What I was anxious about when I was 18 years old was whether it was better to take the Tsinghua University test or the Peking University test.
But when I reached the age of 19, I discovered that what I was anxious about at the time was nothing, because I just reread it.
When I celebrated my 29th birthday this year, I felt deeply anxious about my age: Oh my god, this is the last birthday that starts with the word "2" in my life. If I still have this kind of virtue, I have to open a branch school and a studio as soon as possible. After all, I will be "thirty" soon.
Really, I was so sad that I couldn't eat for several days.
Do you want to hold a hoe or a rake?
Until now, I have been bearish and self-consistent.
At least I haven’t been bankrupted by the dust of the times. That’s the principle.
If you study further, you will find that even "standing at thirty" is a false proposition.
The ancients took over the hoe from their fathers and started farming at the age of 8. This is equivalent to directly finding the main track of life. Those with better conditions can get married and have children at the age of 15, and they can become grandfathers at the age of 30.
At this time, the handle of the hoe is soaked and can be dug no matter what the soil quality is. This means that the technology for making a living has been mature enough, the career is stable, and a wife and children are around, then this person must be "thirty".
If you look at it now, a college student graduates at the age of 22, a newbie in the workplace spends three years in ignorance, another three years in job-hopping and growth, and another three years in career confusion. This is quite fast. If you count on your fingers, you are already 31. If you don’t have a mine at home, what will you do?
So when you are 30 years old, you can figure out what you want, that is, figure out where the land you want to plant next year is, and whether you want to hold a hoe or a rake on this land. If you can think clearly about these two questions, you have already beaten most of your peers.
Anxiety If it can change the content of your breakfast tomorrow, then Jack Ma What else is Alibaba doing? Wouldn’t it be enough to be anxious all day long?
Many problems are not solved by anxiety, or even by people, but by time.
You are taking the wrong medicine for year-end anxiety.
Many people suffer from year-end anxiety, whether mild or severe.
At the end of each year, do you open various apps to generate your own "year-end report" to comfort yourself: Wow, I have so much data this year, I have been to so many places, sent so many express deliveries, and bought so many things. Well, my life was not in vain.
So you were easily fooled by big data again. Your anxiety was wrapped in sensational words by the platform, and your inner uneasiness was superficially relieved. However, this is not a good medicine. It can only be said to be an anesthetic that can make you illusive. The data generated by the
system is cold. They are not like the words you record with your own hands. Words have lasting penetration and vitality, but data does not.
Words can reproduce your emotions and perceptions when you wrote them. Articles are warm memories. They are the history that truly belongs to you.
You need an anxiety slow-release capsule
The article is written now, recording yesterday, and then leaving it to the future for self-examination.
If you only live for today and tomorrow, it sounds more inspiring, but how boring it would be for a person who can't even reproduce the past.
As mentioned above, many anxieties cannot be solved by humans. I hope that after reading the article, you will give your anxiety to time. If you are diligent, you can evenly point out the energy you use to worry and give it to words.
Look, I wrote this article tonight, and I feel much more comfortable.
2023 is only two days away? Oh, so what?
