Some time ago, my whole family became positive and went through various painful stages. So far, my cough has not healed in two weeks.
During the days when she was feeling unwell, she had no energy to care about her children's studies, and then she also started to suffer from headaches.
In the past, I was really anxious every day, especially when the results came out or when I saw how good other children were. I would start to worry and couldn't sleep at night, worrying about her future. What should I do if she can't keep up in junior high school? What should I do if I can’t get into high school? What should I do if I can’t go to college? Then I forced myself to force my children. In the end, everyone suffered, and I became a very fierce and noisy mother in her eyes.
I am anxious and panicked, but I can’t find a good education method. I see what is said on the Internet every day and implement it for my children. As you can imagine, the results are not very good.
But since experiencing this epidemic, my mentality suddenly changed. I gradually no longer worry about her study, and I no longer make noises and push my children. Let her take it step by step and see how hard she can work.
Life has a long road, and everyone’s life and choices are different, but without a healthy body, everything else is just a cloud.
There are many natural and man-made disasters, and there are many unexpected accidents. Why not cherish the life we have in front of us and spend a few years with our children. When she grows up, the time we can spend together will become less and less.
Let go of your anxiety, adjust your mentality, and accept that your child is an ordinary person, and it is bad if he does not study well. As long as a person has two hands and is willing to work, he will never starve to death.
