one fate, two luck, three feng shui, four accumulated yin virtues, five readings, six names, seven phases and eight , respect for gods, , nine noble people, helping each other, ten health maintenance, a brief explanation of the corresponding local psychology
, one fate, :
actually refers to a person's personality characteristics. The old Chinese saying says that you can tell your sixty at the age of three, which means that you can predict a three-year-old child's life at the age of 60 from his personality characteristics. Therefore, personality characteristics play a large factor in the growth process. I often tell parents that 40% of a child's problems are due to his unique personality characteristics, and 60% of the factors are due to family, parents, school, and environment.
Second luck :
luck, judging from the structure of the characters, it is clouds that are moving. Clouds are always erratic and changing. It seems irregular, but there is a big pattern. From a seasonal perspective, the appearance of clouds is regular. There are rules in which seasons are prone to dark clouds, which time periods are fish scale clouds , which time periods cumulonimbus appear, which clouds portend what kind of weather, etc. From a human psychological point of view, luck is about cognition from dynamics, changing cognition from all angles, thereby making progress, mastering knowledge and skills, and accumulating abilities. Only when luck comes, you have the opportunity to grasp it. Only the ability to grasp the ever-changing luck is called luck. Therefore, luck also comes to those who are prepared.
Three Feng Shui :
Wind and water are both flowing substances. It seems invisible, but it is tangible, it seems irregular, but it has rules. Wind and water can best give people a sense of experience. With a sense of experience, we know that we are living in the present. Knowing that we live in the present, we need to accept reality and live the present well. The more you can experience life, practice it personally, improve your execution ability, and complete current tasks, the better you can control reality. Adapt to the current environment, utilize the environment, and live in symbiosis with the environment. At this time, real life is your best feng shui.
Four Accumulation of Yin De :
Accumulation of Yin De, also called Accumulation of Yin Gong. Accumulating virtue is divided into accumulating bright virtue and accumulating negative virtue. Mingde means how much money you have donated, who you have helped, and how you have publicized it in a high-profile manner and been on the red list. Yin virtue means that when you help others, you don't say anything, don't let others know that you did it yourself, or you don't leave your name for the good deeds you did. According to traditional Chinese culture, accumulating negative virtues will leave greater blessings.
Psychology talks about positive energy, right knowledge and mindfulness, and talks about the subconscious mind. Things in the subconscious mind are slowly accumulated and precipitated by past events. To put it bluntly, accumulating yin virtue means that you continuously accumulate positive energy and continue to pray in your subconscious mind. Prayer is suggestive. Prayer can control our emotions. Through prayer, people establish a belief system to work. Then, through the development of subconscious potential, neurotransmitters are adjusted and excitement is enhanced. Prayer on the other hand is a kind of comfort. The "placebo effect" refers to the fact that simply "believing that a non-toxic but ineffective treatment or intervention is effective" can improve health and change cognition. Another way to put it is the power of belief.
Five Reading:
In real life, we often think that reading can change our destiny. From a psychological point of view, reading cannot change a person's destiny, it can only change a person's amount of information and knowledge. Changing a person's destiny requires changing his inner state and thoughts, so it is not only necessary to study, but also to apply what he has learned, integrate knowledge with action, apply wisdom to life and work, and guide one's own practice.
The process of reading is a process of self-understanding. In this process, you will discover that you have many advantages and some of your shortcomings. Then continue to carry forward your own strengths and correct your shortcomings so that you can continue to move towards perfection. Adhering to a correct behavior will form a good habit. With good habits, a good character will be formed. With a good character, a good destiny will be formed. So changing your destiny starts with changing your behavior. To change behavior, you must strengthen execution. This is cognitive behavior.
Six names :
The name is actually a symbol of a person.Later, people gave names many meanings, and naming slowly became a science. In fact, from a psychological perspective, names can also have some impact on people, which is mainly due to people's general perception of names. A name also creates an impression. Some people want to change their personality by changing their names. This statement also has a certain psychological basis: people give themselves certain hints by changing their names, implying that they will become another personality after changing their names. Just like many people use plastic surgery to change their low self-esteem, the person actually remains the same, but the personality does undergo some changes. The social cognitive orientation of the name view, which aims to examine name stereotype and its impact on interpersonal psychology and behavior. Gender stereotypes in names are particularly prominent. Masculine, neutral, and feminine names will activate the corresponding gender stereotypes: People tend to believe that individuals with masculine names have more stereotypical male traits, individuals with feminine names have more stereotypical female traits, and individuals with neutral names may have both male and female traits.
Seven phases:
Physiognomy is actually a branch of psychology. In the interaction between people, the first impression is particularly important. Leaving a perfect first impression on the other party is a good start for the interaction. People will also be misled by judging people by their appearance, that is, people may easily judge the temperament of others based on their appearance, which is not advisable. It is always easy for us to make superficial judgments about a person's good and evil qualities through his appearance. To a certain extent, a person's appearance does reveal some information related to his temperament. There is a certain degree of accuracy in judging a person's personality based on their appearance, and most participants were able to correctly describe the other person's personality.
Psychologists believe that a person's face can reflect his or her personality to a certain extent. Character determines destiny again. Psychologists have found that the relationship between facial features and personality also changes interestingly over time. When we were young, our appearance was more related to our own genes, but as we grow older, our appearance is closely related to our self-confidence and tolerance. Those who are generous and confident in their hearts will not look ugly. The reason is clear at a glance.
Eight Worshiping Gods and Worshiping Buddha
I understand the act of burning incense and worshiping Buddha as psychological self-suggestion. The repeated intention to pray for blessings will form self-suggestion and self-hypnosis, and will enter the person's subconscious mind, thus mobilizing one's own endocrine and nerve cells to prepare and promote the development of facts in a favorable direction, making people tend to realize their wishes. Burning incense and worshiping Buddha is a kind of psychological suggestion activity, and the power of suggestion is very powerful. By burning incense and worshiping Buddha, you can strengthen your inner desires and help put them into action, further increasing the chance of realizing your desires. Give yourself psychological comfort through the act of worshiping Buddha.
In fact, whether it is burning incense and worshiping Buddha, or believing in Feng Shui, it is nothing more than to have peace of mind. Many studies in anthropology and psychology also support this. When people face an uncertain future and risks, they will inevitably have various worries and anxieties. If they can find a kind of psychological comfort and thoughts, people will get positive psychological hints and find balance and spiritual sustenance. With these positive suggestions, people will gain hope and find the reason and courage to continue to persevere.
So, from a certain perspective, people have a belief, which should not be regarded as superstition. I just hope that no matter when we encounter good times or bad times, we can have a normal heart and look towards the future with a smile.
Nine noble people help:
From a psychological point of view, dreaming of noble people means that you are dependent and hope to get help from others to get ahead. Another psychological phenomenon is seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages. People who are beneficial to oneself try every means to get close to them, and people who are harmful to oneself do everything possible to avoid them.When a person is in trouble and has bad luck, he always hopes that a pair of big hands will reach out from the sky. Even just a few words of spiritual encouragement may help a person regain his confidence and realize his beautiful ideals. The reason why a person is successful is not because he is "popular", but because he is worthy of the help of others. If you want to be a popular person, you need to be tough yourself. If you have no potential that differentiates you from others, why should others help you? To be helpful, to put it bluntly, you need to be well versed in interpersonal relationships.
Ten health care:
The real health care is actually to nourish the heart
to cultivate an indifferent and peaceful mentality. To put it bluntly, it is psychological health care. Kindness is a core element of psychological well-being. If you are kind-hearted, you will be kind to others and willing to get along with others. You will always feel happy in your heart and always maintain a calm and calm mental state. This mental state can adjust the blood flow and the excitement of nerve cells to the best state, thereby improving the body's disease resistance.
Tolerance is the regulating valve for psychological health. In social interactions, people will inevitably suffer losses, be misunderstood, and be wronged. Faced with these, the wisest choice is to learn to be tolerant. Tolerance is a good psychological quality; tolerance is an extraordinary tolerance; it not only includes understanding and forgiveness, but also shows temperament and mind, strength and strength. A person who is not tolerant and only knows how to be demanding of others is often in a state of psychological tension, which leads to nerve excitement, vasoconstriction, and increased blood pressure, making the psychology and physiology enter a vicious cycle. In fact, in order to maintain a good state of mind, we often need to be indifferent to fame and fortune. The so-called indifference to fame and fortune does not mean losing the pursuit of life, but when we strive towards our goals, we should not care too much about the results, but should enjoy the fun that the process of struggle brings to us.
If you always want to change your destiny, you might as well follow these 10 aspects to work hard to change all aspects of yourself.
Good luck!
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