[Give you caution] Once we decide which attitude and perspective to use in our childhood, we will always stick to our choices in the subsequent lives.
These attitudes and opinions have become the underlying architecture of our cognition. Construct our own world, constantly confirming and supporting these beliefs and expectations.
In other words, we are constantly using facts to prove our views and strengthen them. Until we will never be randomly influenced by the outside world.
We curl up in our shell, even if I sometimes feel sad and sad. But when there is no one, we will feel safe and relaxed because we can already be conditioned and do not need to think too much.
heron in the article tells the toad nothing. But it seemed that everything was told to the toad.
Through constant questions and toad’s self-answer, letting the toad find the answer by itself.
No one can tell you the answer to life in full, only by constantly asking questions, answering yourself continuously, finding the real answer, and healing yourself.
like Zhiyuan to follow him and don’t get lost.