I am Weicheng Chaoyu, express my attitude towards life in words .
Dreams come from our life .
Individual Psychology School and Adler said that when he began to find out the meaning of dreams, he felt confused.
Because he saw that dreams are not opposite to life when awake. In fact, dreams are consistent with other actions and performances in life.
If we are concentrating on pursuing a certain sense of superiority during the day, we will do so at night. When everyone dreams, it seems that there is a job waiting for him to complete in the dream, just as if he must strive to pursue a sense of superiority in the dream.
What dreams we have come from what kind of lifestyle we have. At the same time, dreams also help the formation and consolidation of our lifestyle. There is a fact that can help us clarify the purpose of dreams. We dream, but when we wake up, we often forget what happened in our dreams without leaving any trace.
But is this true? Didn't you really leave anything behind?
actually is not. We still retain many of the feelings brought by dreams. The scene in the dream has disappeared, and the understanding of the dream no longer exists, so only many feelings remain. The purpose of dreams is the sensations they cause, and dreams are just one of the methods and tools to cause these sensations.
The purpose of dreams is to leave feelings. The feeling a person creates will definitely be consistent with his lifestyle. The difference between the thoughts in dreams and the thoughts during the day is not absolute, and there is no obvious boundary between them. Simply put, their differences are only in that when dreaming, people's thoughts are temporarily separated from reality.
However, it is not completely out of reality. When we sleep, we still keep in touch with reality. If we are troubled by some problems, we may not be able to sleep well.
When we sleep, we can maintain our body coordination to avoid falling out of bed. This fact can prove that the connection between sleep and reality still exists. Although the streets were very noisy, the mother could still fall asleep peacefully, but if her child had a little movement, she would wake up immediately.
Even in sleep, we keep in touch with the external world. When sleeping, our sensory perception is not completely lost, but only weakens, which leads to our contact with reality being less closely connected.
When we dream, we are alone, society’s requirements no longer follow us closely, and we don’t have to meticulously consider the environment we are in. Sleep will not be disturbed only after tension is eliminated and real problems can be resolved. But dreaming is one of the disturbances to a stable sleep.
That is to say, when we have not yet come up with a solution to the problem, we will still be constantly oppressed by reality in our sleep and make us feel embarrassed, so we will dream. The purpose of
Dream is to solve the problems we face. Now, we can shift the focus of our research to what methods does our mind use to solve problems in dreams. Because in dreams we don’t have to consider the entire reality, the problem seems much simpler, and the solutions we seek do not require much to us.
Dreams can cause feelings that are consistent with lifestyle by fitting with lifestyle. Therefore, the purpose of dreaming is to keep the lifestyle free from reality. We can get an interesting inspiration from it, that is, if someone faces a problem that he does not want to solve with common sense, he will use the feelings caused by his dream to strengthen his attitude.
At first glance, this seems to be inconsistent with our life when we are awake, but in fact, the two are not inconsistent.
Dreams can also cause the exact same feeling as when we are awake. If a person encounters difficulties but does not want to use his common sense, but wants to continue to solve this problem with his inappropriate lifestyle, then he will find various reasons to maintain his lifestyle to justify it.
For example, if his goal is to get something for nothing, he does not want to work, does not want to work, and does not want to contribute to others, then gambling is an opportunity for him.
Although he knew that many people lost money because of gambling, he was still idle and hoped to get rich by chance.
So, what would he do in his dream? He would think about money and outline a scene for himself after getting rich in fantasy, such as buying a car and living a luxurious life that everyone envies.
These fantasies aroused his gambling behavior even more, so he abandoned common sense. The same thing happens in more common situations. If we were working, and someone told us that he had watched a good drama, we would want to stop the work and go to the theater to watch the drama.
When a person falls in love, he will imagine the future of two people. If he really likes each other, the future he imagines must be beautiful, but if he feels pessimistic, the future he imagines must be dull.
But no matter what, he always evokes his own feelings, and we can also tell which type of person he is from this feeling.
However, if after dreaming, we leave nothing but feeling, what impact will dreams have on common sense? Dreams are the enemy of common sense. We will find that some people are reluctant to be deceived by their feelings, and they are more willing to do things according to scientific methods. Such people rarely dream or do not dream at all.
There are also some people who like to deviate from common sense and are unwilling to use normal and useful methods to solve their problems. Common sense is an aspect of cooperation, but people with poor cooperation ability usually do not like common sense. This kind of person dreams often.
They are afraid that their lifestyle will be criticized, and they hope to avoid the challenges of reality. We can assert that dreams connect a person's lifestyle with the problems he currently encounters, which is also an attempt by a person to make changes to his lifestyle.
Lifestyle is the master of dreams, and it will surely evoke the feelings that individuals need. Everything we find in our dreams can be found in the personality traits and symptoms of this person. Whether we dream or not, we solve problems the same way, but dreams provide a kind of support and maintenance for our way of life.
If this view is correct, then we have taken a brand new and most important step on the road to understanding dreams. In dreams, we deceive ourselves. Every dream is self-intoxication and self-hypnosis, and its purpose is to create a state of mind that prepares us to solve a problem.
In dreams, we will see the exact same personality as a person's daily life. We will also see that he will let his heart feel various feelings that he will also experience during the day. If our point of view is correct, we can see this phenomenon of self-deception in the structure of the dream or in the methods it applies.
In fact, what did we find? We discovered a person's choice of dream scenes, events, and accidents. We have mentioned this option before. When a person looks back, he re-adapts the scenes and stories he has experienced.
His choices are inclined, and what he will choose from memory are events that can support his superiority goal. Similarly, in the composition of dreams, he will only choose events that are consistent with his lifestyle and can solve problems through his lifestyle.
This choice is the result of establishing a connection between lifestyle and difficulties encountered. In dreams, our lifestyle is arbitrary and tyrannical. To solve the difficulties in reality, we must rely on common sense, but our lifestyle insists on refusing to change.
Author of this article: Chaoyu, a writer who keeps walking, has been on the road.
