I really want to complain about some of the cognitive angles of consultants on the Internet:
read the article and expressed my own opinions. Every time there are some so-called experts pointing fingers: What do you study psychology and what should you do? How can you think like this if you are a psychology student? Psychologists should help them. . . .
is speechless [cover your face][cover your face]
Just like, if you are a chef, you should know the dishes of the north and south, and you should have the whole banquet of Manchu and Han, and you should have the New Year and Festival dining table is different from other people's homes.
Do you know that many chefs don’t cook at all at home?
Do you know that chefs also have specialties in skills?
If you are a doctor, you should knock on the door and ask if there are any patients at home. I saw someone who was uncomfortable on the way and suspected that he was sick, so I stopped him to treat him.
Do you know there is a saying: Doctors do not knock on the door? Many doctors’ work can only be carried out according to the opinions of their families and their own?
So, a psychological counselor, only helps people who are willing to extend their hands to ask for help. Why? Because others have no intention, it will be useless. When you go up and say that there is a psychological problem that needs to be adjusted. Most people think you have a problem. If you don’t believe me, try it? [Cover your face]
respect, empathizes , actively pay attention, is the most work done by a consultant. Because there are too many people in this world who want to be respected and understood, eager to see value, and eager to be willing to listen to their hearts.
Psychological counselors are also ordinary people, and they also have their own values, ideas and bad original families. When they leave the consultation room, they are an ordinary person, a mother, a friend, a sister, etc., and they will also have emotions, bad children, cheating LG, etc. You may have some of them.
Just because I have learned, I know how to focus on making my life happier. Instead of exploring other people's privacy like a detective anytime, anywhere.
psychological counselors have more roles to help the other party experience self-consistentness, help the other party see more choices, see the answers, find the true "self", make their own judgments and decisions, improve their personality fullness, and make life easier, thereby helping to be healthy in body and mind and better adapt to society.
And all the effects ultimately come from the visitor's " I want ". Because there are really many people who come to ask for help with pain, but in fact they are unwilling to change internally, and the consultant is really powerless.
In short, we are really not a "god", we are a human being, and a consultant is just a profession, but this profession is more about the "you" in your heart and work . consultants are more about self-help. They help others in the road of self-help, help those who seek me, and cultivate themselves to comfort others.
In fact, everyone is their own psychological counselor. As long as you are wise enough and know the principle of looking back on yourself, you are surrounded by mirrors that you can learn from to help you see the path of growth.
disappoints many people [laughing and crying] We are not perfect. If you are really dissatisfied, otherwise you can learn to see what will happen? [laughing and laughing]
