"Hello, Brother" is actually a story of psychological healing. The way of psychological healing is narrative therapy...
Changyuan, Ma Li , Wei Xiang leads the starring. It tells the story of how father and son find the value of their life story in narrative therapy that travels through time and space, and thus heal each other...
The story on the normal timeline: parents are loving each other, but later the mother passed away due to dyspartism, the father was deeply saddened, and had disagreements with his son all year round. After he was old, he also suffered from Alzheimer's disease, and he fell into a coma after jumping into the river and committing suicide.
Xiao Wu traveled through time and space under the power of his parents' engagement ring, and went back to the past. First, he saw his mother he had never met, second, he experienced the happiness of the family of three, and third, he wanted to exchange his suicide for his mother's life.
After this time travel, the son understood his parents, and the father also understood his son, and healed each other.
It is true that the story Li Huanying is indeed very touching. Hello, brother, I lack the heat. However, this story actually pays more attention to the in-depth understanding and psychological healing between parents and children in terms of their intentions.
There is postmodern counseling narrative therapy in the psychological counseling genre. The problem itself is not a problem, talent is a problem. The problem comes from the self-conflict of the main control narrative. The main control narrative is the main comedy that interprets the meaning of life, so treating problems requires reinterpreting the story and giving it meaning.
Let’s watch it first. In the video, Xiao Wu has a problem. At the beginning of the video, Xiao Wu was a very decadent young man. He did not have the youthful vitality and fighting spirit that young people should have. He had to borrow 5,000 yuan from his father to fall in love. A decadent young man undoubtedly had!
Where does Xiao Wu’s decadence mainly come from? It mainly comes from the father, because the mother has left, so there is no acquired influence.
The old father also suffered from Alzheimer's disease. The two had a disagreement because they had a big fight for 5,000 yuan. It can be seen that they had a wall between them to block communication and understanding!
Why do father and son have such great negative energy? Because it turned out that the son was born with difficulty, and his wife passed away to save her son.
The father has never been able to let go. His wife's departure brought great sorrow. He accommodated the pain of losing his love to his son, believing that it was the arrival of his son that led to his departure. Therefore, although he tried his best to fulfill his father's responsibilities and raise his son, he did not accept this child deep down.
Father refused to accept himself, and because of his death, Xiao Wu himself did not accept himself. A family like
is a pathological family, and fathers and sons living in the family are also pathological personalities.
How to heal these traumas in the mind? Unless the story is rewritten.
pair! Rewriting the story is actually Xiao Wu’s deepest desire. He has dreamed of going back to the past countless times and being able to rewrite the story!
So, we saw Xiao Wu traveling through time and returning to the past. In fact, this is Xiao Wu's psychological world. He wants to be able to rewrite the story. Even if he never came to this world, he doesn't want to live with self-blame, he doesn't want his father to suffer from the loss of his mother, he doesn't want to live without enjoying the joy of family of three...
He really went back, he went back to when his parents met, he was not born at that time...
He saw her mother as he wished, that generous and beautiful senior six, she was a model worker, the 38th red flag bearer, she performed blind welding at the annual welder competition, she was upright, kind, and brave,
He saw that his mother had always loved his father, and his father also fell in love with his mother after filtering out the scumbag girl. He watched his mother fall in love with her father, and he saw that his mother became pregnant and entered the delivery room...
He wanted to rewrite the story, and he killed himself in his mother's belly with umbilical cord around the neck , and let the doctor Save the mother, but the mother still chooses to leave the child by herself...
Back to the real world, Xiao Wu understood the sorrow of his father, because he loved his mother as much as he lost her mother, and Xiao Wu also understood that his mother always loved her... Her mother put him by her side and continued this love of her mother...
Finally, the father said at the wedding that he had dreams many times when he fell asleep, and he had returned to the past, and now he was relieved. His wife Instead of leaving, he left the most precious thing and left the new life...
Here is mutual care. Xiao Wu's time travel makes him better understand his mother's choices and father. His soul is healed. His father is also returning to the past and is relieved and relieved...
As the poster reads: I have seen it and understand my parents better. This is actually a good story of psychological healing and a model of healing of narrative therapy...
