's so-called "domestic cold violence" refers to informal violent behaviors such as being indifferent to each other, minimizing verbal communication, stopping or perfunctory sexual life, being lazy to do all housework, etc. when a couple has a conflict. Domestic cold violence is actually a kind of mental abuse.
(1) Write a letter: If both spouses are unwilling to talk, they can communicate in other ways, such as sending text messages or writing emails. If conditions don't allow, just write down on paper what you want to say to the other person.
(2) Children: If you have children at home, you can gradually communicate about the children's study, work, and life topics to achieve smooth communication. If you don’t have children, consider adding a new member to your family of two.
(3) Shelve: If there is a topic that neither of us wants to talk about, we can put it aside temporarily, talk about some irrelevant issues first, and then gradually communicate sincerely after both parties have calmed down.
(4) Catering: A wife is always a weakling in the eyes of her husband. No matter how capable you are, her husband still wants to protect you. To cater to him, let him hold you for 10 minutes a day. As long as you persist, the relationship between two people will improve greatly over time.
(5) Atmosphere: replaces the cold light in the house with warm colors. Dim the lights before your husband comes home. He will feel warm when he comes home.
