Falling out of love is indeed a painful topic. When you have to face it, you can look at the problem from the other side. This is also a good thing. The reason why love is broken up is because one or both parties think it is inappropriate. Since it is not suitable , or meet what everyone calls a scumbag man and scumbag girl, the chance of achieving success is very low. You ended this inappropriate relationship in time. In fact, you should congratulate you. It was this love break that made you miss this inappropriate person. , and then you have a chance to meet the right person. To prevent and regulate the depression and depression that occurs after a breakup, we can do it from the following aspects. First, establish a correct view of love. Beautiful love is a two-way feeling that only relies on one person's unilateral efforts. It is difficult to make this relationship last long. If the relationship cannot be developed, it is better to give up as soon as possible. The sooner you give up, the less investment and less pain you will have. If you know how to give up, you will have the opportunity to gain something in the future. After all. "There is no grass anywhere in the world"; secondly, the most beautiful relationship is fulfillment. If the other person gives up on you, don't be entangled, don't be entangled, entanglement will make the other person hate you even more, bless her (him), bless the person you like. Get new happiness; if you give up on your own initiative, you should bless the other person and hope that the other person will find happiness soon. Third, participate in more group activities, or find good friends to chat, tell your depression, and vent your bad emotions. Sincere friendship is a band-aid to heal scars. A sincere friend will accept your unconditional feelings. Help accept your bad emotions; fourth, jump out of the circle and look at this matter as a bystander. Li Bai There is a poem that says: You don’t know the true face of Mount Lu just because you are in this mountain. If you can’t let go of this relationship, you You can try to imagine if this was a relationship between your best friend and she broke up, how would you persuade him? Tell yourself what you want to say to him, or even write it down and read it several times a day. When we stay out of things, we are more awake and can see the problem more correctly. Fifth, travel through time. You may be in pain when you break up. If the time is stretched to one month, three months, half a year, a year, or even three or five years, you will have new friends, a new lover, or even Now that you have a lovely baby, when you look back at your current relationship, will you still feel so painful? Maybe there will still be some touches in your heart, but you have let it go, completely devoted yourself to new feelings, and started a new life. But now, if it is not beautiful, you may have completely forgotten about it. If it is really beautiful, you may collect it and put it in a small corner of your heart. He is no longer the mainstream of your life. In a person's life, you don't know how many things you have to give up that you can't get, including material, status, and emotions. Only when you know how to give up can you truly mature.
