Recently, the term " " is very popular, and it is a kind of "disease" that many people think of recently.
This is a new word extended from " social phobia ". The two are relative and closely related.
Let’s take a look:
Compared with social fear people’s reluctance to communicate with others, dare not publicly express opinions, do not want to attract attention and other characteristics,
_ Strong2strong is cheerful and bold in social aspects, can be familiar with strangers, are willing to express themselves, dare to do some behaviors that attract attention in public, and do not worry about the strange look of others.
1) Both may originate from "unconfidence"
Social bull x syndrome and social phobia seem to have diametrically opposite manifestations, but they are derived from a vine The two melons: two different states caused by a person's lack of self-confidence.
Being afraid of being unconfident will lead to fear that others will find that they are not doing well, doing things wrong, or leaving some handles to be grasped, so I hope that others will not pay attention to themselves as much as possible.
And She Niu’s lack of self-confidence brings about the result: I am afraid that others will not recognize me, so I try my best to show it in order to attract the attention of people around me.
2) Under certain conditions, social fear and social cattle may also transform into each other.
Some people, when they were young, they might be "social cows",I’m familiar with everyone, and I’ll be able to explain the integrity of my family for ten minutes, but because I’m too sincere and enthusiastic to show myself, I’m likely to suffer some harm, be beaten by the society too much, and I’ll learn to be myself. The package has become "social fear".
There are also some people who may be afraid of society at first and protect themselves very tightly. However, as their financial ability and social status rise, they may not have as many worries as before, so they start to let themselves go and show their hearts.
I changed from "social bull" to "social fear", how about you?
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