Kunling is 28 years old and has had three children, and I am still single at 28 years old .
After seeing the news about Kun Ling’s pregnancy, I was reflecting on why I was born the same person and there was such a big difference?
Sometimes when I meet the "man" I like, I will deliberately create accidents. Am I destined to be lonely in this life?
While thinking about this great proposition, I kept flipping through Kunling's past with my fingers and concluded four points:
1. My starting point is not very high, I just went to a vocational high school;
2. My parents divorced when I was young, and I live with my father;
3 , I was not understood if I had a dream, so I went to work instead;
4, I met Jay Chou , and became the Queen's wife, and my destiny changed from then on.
These are the key points I can think of. The first three are all experienced by ordinary people. Can I only change my destiny by getting married?
Looking back carefully, Kunling was able to turn around, break the difficulties of her original family, fly to the branches and become a phoenix. is far from simple as imagined.
A girl who loves to laugh will not have bad luck
Kun Ling is a girl who loves to laugh. Whenever she appears in public, she always has a sweet smile on her face. Sometimes I even doubt that Kun Ling is in the age range of a child. stage?
At least I am 28 years old, and I haven’t had that “sweet” smile for a long time. To be honest, I really envy you.
Her smile is genuine happiness, not a professional fake smile of a public figure.
This kind of smile is very contagious, giving people the power to penetrate all the haze.
A smile like this is common among children whose native families are very happy. It is hard to imagine that such an innocent and lively smile would appear on the face of Kunling, whose parents have divorced and has no sense of belonging since she was a child.
Kunling's parents are a pair of transnational lovers. Her father is Australian and her mother is of mixed Chinese and Korean descent.
The two fell in love by chance, but in the end they could not overcome the differences in foreign cultures. The two divorced when Kunling was very young.
Kunling lived with her father before she was 9 years old. Although she was not accompanied by her mother, her considerate father gave little Kunling enough love.
Father's love tried every means to make up for the missing mother's love, until one day his father brought back a new mother for her, which changed her life drastically.
At first, the stepmother and Kun Ling were able to coexist peacefully, but after having their own children, the stepmother had no intention of taking care of her.
What makes Kunling sad the most is that the arrival of his younger brother has diverted most of his father's love. All of this makes Kunling unable to find his own "status".
There are many types of love, and preference will also appear in father's love.
During that time, Kunling missed her mother frequently, and she also wanted to be loved by her mother like her younger brother.
She proposed to her father that she wanted to visit her mother in China, but Kunling's father resisted and refused to agree.
Because there was an unpleasant quarrel between the two when they divorced, Kunling's father did not want his daughter to still associate with her mother. In the end, he randomly found a reason to reject her: "she still needs to go to school."
As time went by, Kunling felt that her position in the family was getting smaller and smaller. Her father, younger brother, and stepmother were a happy family of three, and she was just an outsider who interfered.
So she started to save money, and finally succeeded in saving the travel expenses to visit her mother a year later.
After going through a lot of hardships, she could finally see the mother she missed day and night. Kunling had imagined countless happy scenes of mother and daughter meeting, but reality gave her a blow.
When she saw her mother, she realized that her mother was not her own mother. Because the mother already had a new family and gave birth to a son and a daughter.
Kunling couldn't wait to leave after only a few days at her mother's house. Her mother was dealing with daily necessities and the cries of her younger brothers and sisters, and she had no time to care for Kunling.
The idea that he was redundant came to Kunling's mind again, but he was too young now and his ability was too poor to survive independently. After repeated decisions, Kunling returned to his father's home.
I thought that childhood injuries would take a lifetime to heal, but Kunling was an exception.
Kunling soon entered adolescence. Like an adolescent child, she tried to gain the attention of her parents by doing some "bad things".
For example, not studying hard is her most silent resistance, but because her parents put more energy into the new family, , no one noticed this first point.
Kunling was only admitted to a vocational high school because she was rebellious and did not study seriously. At this time, she suddenly realized that acting like a child with her parents would only harm herself in the end.
By chance, Kunling was discovered by a talent scout at this time, and she was invited to participate in the recording of a variety show. Kunling's generous performance in the show gained her a small number of fans, and she has since become a star on the show. Resident guest.
There is still a day when the Yellow River will be clarified. How can people not have luck? This is the first time I think Kunling is lucky.
Kunling has a literary talent and has been eager for the stage since she was a child, so she decided to develop seriously in this direction.
When she told her family about this idea excitedly, she was met with cold water. Her family thought that she was "not doing her job properly" and cut off her source of income.
In order to earn money for running announcements, Kunling had no choice but to work in a trendy brand store.
This trendy brand store also became the place where Kun Ling and Jay Chou first met. The story of the two people has continued from that day to the present. When
met Jay Chou, I think this was the second time that she was lucky enough to meet her destined Prince Charming.
Kunling's childhood was not a happy one, but she did not become inferior because of her parents' divorce.
Later, she mentioned on the show more than once that she did not blame her parents for their divorce at all, they just chose their own lives.
She was smart enough to heal herself and completely get rid of the mess of her childhood.
Regarding her vocational high school education, she did not give up on herself and throw it away. Instead, she looked for a new direction in life. After establishing a foothold in the entertainment industry, she returned to college to study costume performance to continuously enrich herself.
We often say that "the entertainment industry is a big dye vat" . Kunling was only a 15-year-old child when she entered this big dye vat.
But Kunling was extremely sober from beginning to end and was not dyed by this big dye vat.
To this day, Kunling's performance in the show is still the same as at the beginning. is simple and beautiful with a bit of endearing "silliness".
With mixed blood from the Three Kingdoms, beautiful facial features, and a hot figure, Kunling has such a label and there is no shortage of people to follow her.
However, Kunling has never been involved in scandals. Even if she is in the "young model circle" which is famous for chaos, Kunling has always kept herself clean and untainted.
After Kun Ling and Jay Chou got together, the major gossip media tried their best to dig out some eye-catching black material on Kun Ling. But unfortunately, except for the fact that Kun Ling was underage at the time, there was no Explosive point.
This is in sharp contrast with other "king wives". Wilber Pan When it was announced that he and Luna were getting married, the woman had so many explosive scandals that no one cared about Wilber Pan. Some revelations about Wang Sicong even made Aaron Kwok wife Fang Yuan and Ammy got into trouble.
Beauty can make people turn over, but beauty can also make people "capsize". Kunling undoubtedly belongs to the former.
There are not many people like Kun Ling who entered the entertainment industry at the age of 15. So far, there are not many people who can be clean. It is enough to show that Kun Ling is a smart girl. What she wants is to be born towards the sun and to live in peace for years.
Pretty little woman, the flower of understanding in the world
Before Kun Ling fell in love, Jay Chou was also rumored for constant scandals. His double love with Jolin Tsai made many people feel uncomfortable.
Then how did Kunling defeat the intellectual and gentle Patty Hou, and the sexy and hot Jolin Tsai to control Jay Chou's heart steadily?
It was luck to meet Jay Chou, but it is not luck to be able to keep Jay Chou's heart.
When Kunling met Jay Chou, he was still an unknown person and a "young model" who had to make a living by working in fashionable brand stores. Jay Chou was already a hot star.
Not only are the social statuses of the two very different, but they are also 17 years apart in age , so the relationship between the two has laid the foundation for the strong man and the weak woman from the beginning.
Jay Chou has said on the show more than once that he is a very chauvinistic person, and subconsciously he needs little women like Kun Ling to accompany him.
Both Patty Hou and Jolin Tsai have the same social status as Jay Chou. From this point of view, they cannot give Jay Chou such a feeling.
Kun Ling does not reject the living conditions of strong men and weak women at all, but actually enjoys it. The two have been in an underground relationship for four years, and no matter how many times Jay Chou was secretly photographed, he would never let go.
Kunling is also willing to be the little woman behind Jay Chou. For four years, she did not say a word to the public media as Jay Chou's girlfriend.
In fact, if Kunling hints at some romantic matters on social media, it will attract a lot of attention to her and help her establish a foothold in the entertainment industry as soon as possible.
But she didn't, because as long as she let go, Jay Chou would be labeled as "playing with underage girls".
This is what I think Kunling is smart about. She never takes the initiative to ask for for what she wants. This is also something that a smart woman should know.
It wasn’t until Jay Chou’s official announcement that Kunling stepped forward openly and appeared on the show as Jay Chou’s girlfriend. After
, she will also expose some "private topics" between two people on the show, but it will not affect Jay Chou. will only make the audience like this sincere, honest and innocent girl even more.
Who doesn’t want to have a quiet and beautiful flower that won’t make any noise?
Angelababy was once an actress who could compete with Kun Ling in the entertainment industry. After all, both of them made a comeback from young models to marry big bosses in the entertainment industry. At the same time, their husbands are relatively macho types.
Angelababy has always rejected the title " Huang Xiaoming wife". She not only publicly stated on the show that she was disgusted by someone calling her , but also complained that such a title labeled herself.
On the other hand, Kun Ling never excludes others from saying that everything she has now is brought about by marrying Jay Chou.
When others called her "Sister-in-law of the Heavenly King," she smiled lightly and said that she just lost her name. Jay Chou was originally my husband, why should we separate him?
Angelababy changed a lot after marrying Huang Xiaoming, and her resources instantly increased. However, she did not mention Huang Xiaoming's help to her, but attributed everything to her own efforts.
Kunling did not shy away from thanking Jay Chou for helping her, and said that she would work harder to be worthy of what she has now.
Comparing the two people, you can see who has higher emotional intelligence and which one is lower.
Compared with Angelababy, Kunling is more like a vine that coexists with the tree. She grows up under the protection of the tree. She is grateful for everything the tree has brought to her and will work harder to coexist with the tree.
For the macho Jay Chou, Kunling's behavior brought him an unparalleled sense of satisfaction and security.
Angelababy's repulsive behavior naturally made Huang Xiaoming feel stripped away, so the two eventually separated.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship
In addition to the "strong men and weak women" relationship model, Kunling and Jay Chou also have similar "family views".
Both of them come from single-parent families, and they both long for a harmonious family . This is why at the age of 21, when she has not had enough fun, Kunling is willing to step into the besieged city of love.
Jay Chou, who has been dependent on his mother and grandmother since he was a child, is very attached to his mother. In his heart, his mother will always be the irreplaceable first place.
Jay Chou once said that his girlfriend must be approved by his mother.
As soon as their relationship was exposed, the media often photographed Kun Ling, Jay Chou and Zhou's mother going shopping, eating and attending parties together.
A 17-year-old girl should be very possessive when she is in love, hoping to be alone with her lover.
Kunling showed a maturity and wisdom that was extremely inconsistent with her age. She knew the importance of Zhou's mother to Jay Chou. Therefore, Kunling does not object to "threesome" dates at all, and often dates Zhou's mother alone.
The media has exposed Kunling's meticulous care for Zhou's mother more than once. Some of Jay Chou's friends have also accidentally revealed that Kunling can be said to obey Zhou's mother and treat her like serving Lafayette.
Whenever Zhou's mother is mentioned in public, Kunling is full of praise. She also said in an interview that Zhou's mother is as good to her as her own mother.
With such a docile and pleasant personality, Kunling has solved the eternal problem of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. At the same time, isn't this Kunling's cleverness?
not only managed to control Zhou’s mother, but also successfully controlled Jay Chou. This kind of ability to deal with small matters in favor of large ones is at least something I’m not good at yet.
Having a baby
Jay Chou once said that he wanted to have five children. Now Kunling is pregnant with three children. Many media are questioning whether Kunling is used as a fertility tool by Jay Chou.
After Kunling gave birth to her first child, she had big physical problems, irregular menstruation, polycystic ovaries and so on.
Kunling also complained to the media that her breast obstruction was very serious at the time and she was in pain every day. Her words and expressions were full of resistance to having children.
In order to regulate her body and continue to have children, Kunling has been drinking traditional Chinese medicine.
This conditioning process was very uncomfortable, because the Chinese medicine she drank was very irritating to her stomach, and she often felt like vomiting. During the show, Kunling also interrupted the recording of the show several times due to physical discomfort.
Hard work paid off, and Kunling successfully became pregnant with her second child. As soon as the news emerged that she was pregnant with her third child, some people commented that Kunling was using children to tie up Jay Chou.
In fact, in my opinion, having three children is expected, because for Kunling, giving birth to children is a labor of love.
In order to satisfy Jay Chou's wish, or to give her family a sense of security, Kunling chose to do what she could. This was not tying him up with her children, but filling him with love and giving him her children. sense of security.
Use your own good way to fill the other half's heart. Isn't this what smart women do?
Both of them grew up in single-parent families. Kunling was able to understand Jay Chou's fragility and sensitivity, and could see through Jay Chou behind the stage light at a glance.
From the moment the two met, Kunling lowered her attitude and was willing to be the woman behind Jay Chou for love. Such gentle and obedient Kun Ling gave Jay Chou a great sense of security, allowing him to willingly walk into the siege of love.
The reason why Kunling can become the most successful sister-in-law of the Heavenly King is that her smart and gentle little woman attitude is her biggest trump card, and getting married is just a way.
Yang Ying and Huang Xiaoming divorced because she was not smart enough? I think this is a problem of women's pattern...
will marry when she meets a good person, and start a business when she meets a noble person, and Jay Chou is Kunling's husband and her noble person.
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