In 2019, on Orchard Road, Singapore, a woman with an unusual look was guarding a sign on her head. The sign says that she is Xu Meijing. Her family and her agent deceived all her property, hoping to get everyone's help.

In 2019, on Orchard Road, Singapore, a woman with an abnormal expression was guarding a sign on her head. The brand of

says that she is Xu Meijing . Her family and her agent deceived all her property together, hoping to get everyone's help.

She looked haggard and had weird makeup, and she called herself Xu Meijing.

Anyone who has a little understanding of Chinese music scene will not be unfamiliar with this name. The name

was once a popular queen singer in the Chinese music scene.

"The moonlight in the city illuminates the dream, please warm his heart, see through the gathering and dispersal of the world, can you have more happy clips?"

was released, Xu Meijing quickly became popular and was named Xiao Faye Wong .

's cold temperament and infectious singing expression made Xu Meijing the first echelon among female singers effortlessly.

is comparable to Faye Wong and Sammi Cheng .

It is actually an accident that a singer like Xu Meijing can become popular.

She looks average, and she does not have the magical pushers and agents like Faye Wong, nor does she have the maverick style like Sammi Cheng.

She can become famous because she is firmly sings that touch people's hearts. A singer like

can theoretically become famous for a long time because her fans really like her voice.

But she is like a flash of cereus at midnight, and it blooms quickly and withers quickly after a glimpse.

When she appeared in front of people again, she was admitted to the hospital due to mental illness and lay on the street for help without anything.

What incredible things did she experience that would fall to this point?

01. Fall in love with a married man

Xu Meijing was born in Singapore in 1974.

Both parents are working at the bottom, and they are busy with their livelihoods and do not have much feelings for Xu Meijing.

Xu Meijing grew up alone. In 1992, she participated in the Miss Chinese in Singapore competition and won the most photogenic Miss.

That year, Xu Meijing was only 18 years old.

After entering the entertainment industry, Xu Meijing, who had no background, could only spend time in some small business performances.

until I met Chen Jiaming .

The two met in the backstage of a performance.

After listening to Xu Meijing's performance, Chen Jiaming went directly to the backstage to find Xu Meijing and said something to Xu Meijing.

"Your voice is beautiful, I have never heard of you as beautiful as you in Singapore." The sentence

changed Xu Meijing's life.

Chen Jiaming enjoys a reputation in the Singapore music industry and is known as "Singapore Lee Jong-sen ".

His praise from the sky made Xu Meijing, who had just debuted, excited.

Since then, Xu Meijing has followed Chen Jiaming to become a singer.

994, under the packaging and guidance of Chen Jiaming, Xu Meijing released the album "Ming Ming Knows".

"Mingzhi" refers to Chen Jiaming.

At this time, Xu Meijing secretly agreed to Chen Jiaming.

Chen Jiaming is 10 years older than Xu Meijing. He is talented and understands women.

He understands Xu Meijing's sensitive and fragile heart, and he knows how to comfort and praise him in time.

Talented, mature, charming, and understand yourself. There are not many people who can refuse such men.

From then on, Xu Meijing tied everything to Chen Jiaming.

Chen Jiaming wanted to refuse Xu Meijing but welcomed him, but Chen Jiaming had a wife.

02, Idealism and the Love of Utilitarians

In fact, it is not uncommon to have emotional entanglement with your producer predecessors in the entertainment industry.

Lee Zongsheng and Lin Yilian They are going from their career partners to their husband and wife, and they are also following this path. The same is true for

Sally Yeh and Lam Zixiang .

In the end, both Lin Zixiang and Lee Zongsheng divorced their original wife.

Although this behavior is different, at least they still seek benevolence.

And, it is worth mentioning that none of them gave up their careers.

But Xu Meijing is another situation.

Xu Meijing is sensitive and introverted, and has a stubborn and persistent relationship.

Her emotional experience before entering the entertainment industry was very simple, and her love for Chen Jiaming was extremely admirable.

After meeting Chen Jiaming, she put the cart before the horse.

It seems that she is working hard to improve and sing well is not for the sake of her, but for the sake of expressing her love for Chen Jiaming.

After her first album was released, she was heard by Lee Jong-sung.

Lee Zongsheng is very optimistic about her potential and specializes in flying to Singapore to communicate with her, hoping that she can sign a contract with Rolling Stone and want to create her herself.

all aspects provide extremely generous conditions.

At this time, she was just a little singer and she only made her mark in Singapore.

Usually, for singers, neither Lee Jong-sung nor the Rolling Stone can easily be rejected.

But Xu Meijing refused Lee Zongsheng without hesitation.

The reason is very simple. She only cooperates with Chen Jiaming, and it doesn’t matter whether she is famous or not in the future.

She only needs to be with Chen Jiaming.

After Li Zongsheng tried every effort to persuade him but failed, he left regretfully.

In 1995, Chen Jiaming jumped to Shanghua Records , and Xu Meijing also followed him to leave his hometown.

After "Repent" and "All Returning to the Night" made Xu Meijing popular.

"Repent", "Moonlight in the City", "Iron Window", and "Sunshine Always After the Storm" have been popular for years.

No one expected that a small Xu Meijing could beat the queens who were in the limelight at that time with her songs.

Lam Yilian, Sammi Cheng, and Faye Wong's record sales are not as good as hers.

Because of her extraordinary strength, she quickly changed from "Little Faye Wong" to "The Queen's Killer".

But none of this is what Xu Meijing wants.

She ran hard, and all she wanted was Chen Jiaming's appreciation.

Chen Jiaming is a utilitarian.

His wife Peng Xiumei is talented and is the editor of "Girlfriend", a very popular singer in Singapore.

When the two met in Wei, their relationship foundation was very good.

More importantly, Chen Jiaming's love for Xu Meijing is not because of her.

The reason why Chen Jiaming has always refused to accept Xu Meijing's feelings is essentially because of Xu Meijing's talent and fame.

For any producer, it is a blessing to have a singer like Xu Meijing who has a good voice and a good understanding.

What's more, although Chen Jiaming has written many songs, those who have become famous are all sung by Xu Meijing.

Based on this, he could not refuse Xu Meijing, but this kind of relationship was not enough to support his divorce. He could only drag it while having an ambiguous relationship with Xu Meijing.

1999, Xu Meijing's condition in all aspects declined a lot due to her long-term entanglement with Chen Jiaming.

, but Chen Jiaming said at this time that he was tired of running between the two women and proposed to break up with Xu Meijing.

But the reality is that Chen Jiaming and Xu Meijing's assistant Huang Fengyi have another emotional entanglement.

However, the exposure of this relationship made Huang Fengyi suffer huge mental pressure and criticism. Under tremendous pressure, Huang Fengyi chose to be in the backstage of Xu Meijing's concert.

But even so, Chen Jiaming still did not divorce.

Helpless Xu Meijing left the music scene in sadness.

03. Falling twice in the same place

000. Not long after separation from Chen Jiaming, Xu Meijing met an actor 8 years younger than her Yuan Yaofa .

Xu Meijing became lovers with Yuan Yaofa like a person who fell into the water picking up a life-saving straw.

Yuan Yaofa is just an ordinary actor, and his reputation and financial resources are far from Xu Meijing.

Xu Meijing has always been obedient to Yuan Yaofa, and the two of them are sweet and sweet

But unexpectedly, Yuan Yaofa is quickly hidden by the company.

Yuan Yao, whose career is not going well, becomes irritable and it is common for him to curse others.

It was raining all night, but Xu Meijing was pregnant at this time.

Yuan Yaofa insisted on not wanting children and continued to speak harshly to Xu Meijing.

Xu Meijing was in a dilemma when she received an invitation from Chen Jiaming.

Chen Jiaming told Xu Meijing that she had divorced.

This news made Xu Meijing feel hope in her heart.

She immediately rushed to Singapore to meet Chen Jiaming.

But in fact, Chen Jiaming just encountered difficulties in his career.

Although Chen Jiaming is talented, his famous producers almost all rely on Xu Meijing's works.

In addition to Xu Meijing, his two most famous works are two lyrics, one is "Tao Shi" by Wu Qixian , and the other is "Hang 4 Zhang Xinzhe " by "Hang ".

Compared with the producers like Lee Zongsheng who sing lyrics and songs, his ability is somewhat lacking.

So, after leaving Xu Meijing, Chen Jiaming's career also fell into a trough.

This is the reason why he contacted Xu Meijing again.

What he wants is not a lover, but a singer, a tool to help his career rise again.

When Xu Meijing found Chen Jiaming excitedly, she realized that Chen Jiaming didn't want to talk to her at all. He hoped that Xu Meijing could start working quickly.

He asked Xu Meijing to take off the child with Yuan Yaofa.

also told Xu Meijing that he did not divorce and that he had no reason to divorce his wife.

At this time, Yuan Yaofa also knew that Xu Meijing was pregnant with her child and went to see Chen Jiaming, so he immediately proposed to break up and said that he would never contact Xu Meijing again.

Only then did I learn that Chen Jiaming would never divorce his wife, and that Xu Meijing, who had broken up with him, had completely collapsed.

When no one knows, she suffered from depression with schizophrenia .

Seeing that she was in a bad state, Chen Jiaming left quietly.

But Xu Meijing has been guarding that soap bubble. When someone invited her to release a record in 2005, she insisted that she only cooperated with Chen Jiaming.

She said that only Chen Jiaming knows her musical style and demands best, so she only considers making a comeback after she has achieved success with Chen Jiaming.

The next year, she was found breaking into a hotel, yelling at a guest, and asking a stranger to kowtow to her and kneel down.

It was not until she was taken away by the police and was diagnosed that the outside world knew that she was already ill.

She also admitted to the public for the first time that she was depressed and schizophrenia.

is accompanied by severe auditory hallucinations.

She has become the "crazy" in everyone's perception. After

, Xu Meijing was silent for a long time.

If you pay a little attention, you will find that her family is missing during this period.

But after she became ill, her family quickly sent her to a mental hospital and did not stay with her.

04, the queen fell from the altar

2007, with the help of her friends, she slowly recovered her spirits.

But she no longer has the ability to continue to dominate the music industry.

This is not only because of the rapid development of the music industry, but also because she fell from the altar.

She went from an elegant and deserted singer to a female "crazy"

Although her songs are still circulating, few people have hope for her comeback.

has no commercial value, has a bad reputation among the people, and Singapore's Chinese music packaging ability is average, so Xu Meijing is so silent. After

, she occasionally appears in some small concerts, and her spirits are sometimes good and sometimes bad.

In 2019, she was exposed to singing on the roadside and accused her family of her family and Chen Jiaming of transferring her property.

The reason why she uses the form of shouting for justice along the street is because she doesn't know how to use social media.

Given her status and her obsession with Chen Jiaming, it is difficult to judge whether this matter is true or false.

Because two months later, she asked a reporter to declare that her relationship with Chen Jiaming and her family had returned to normal.

Everything is fine now.

and the good reason is "When they believe I really love them, everything is fine."

2019, with the preparation and help of friends, she held a concert in Nanjing.

At the concert, she mentioned Chen Jiaming again.

She thanked Chen Jiaming seriously.

2021, she recorded a video to greet fans.

sounds like a good mental state, but he still looks a little haggard.

Now she is still single and still living in simplicity.

Perhaps for her, the right and wrong in the past is not that important.

Maybe, she no longer has the ability to think so much.

But in fact, she could have had a better life.

The famous musician Xu Changde once said that Xu Meijing is a very closed person.

Even at the concert, whether it is a staff member or a service staff, she will not be allowed to touch her body unless necessary. When chatting with

, if someone takes a little step forward, she will take a step back.

She has a natural sense of distance from people, but it is precisely because of this that once she opens her heart to people, she is unstoppable.

Because for her, that was the only person who could let her go of her guard.

But she took herself too low and too light.

Although I have great talents and an unintentional voice, I always feel that I can do nothing if I leave Chen Jiaming.

Although career is the foundation of one's own destiny, one always wants to be an accessory.

From the beginning, all her glory and even love were attached to her singing, but she abandoned this as if she was worn out.

Not only does she not love music, she doesn’t like singing, she doesn’t even love herself.

Being pregnant with a man's child, but going to meet another man to consider the rekindling of his old love.

This can be said to be ridiculous.

In music, she has irrefutable abilities.

But in the soul she never stood up.

She has always been a poor person who prays upward to others to love herself.

But love is never something you ask for.

I hope she can be well for the rest of her life. If one day she can get rid of these, stand on the stage with a bright spirit, and sing her perception of life freely, how beautiful it would be.

I hope she can live a good life and start with loving herself.